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Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

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baghag
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Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Nope.

Posted 3/16/06 8:30 AM
 
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BrunetteMom
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

I would be very concerned if my husband came home and asked me to get tested.

Posted 3/16/06 8:36 AM
 

leighla
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Yeah, I would think something was off if DH asked me to test.

If we've only been with each other and we were both tested before, why would we need to again? Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/06 8:38 AM
 

GenLCSW
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Posted by leighla

Yeah, I would think something was off if DH asked me to test.

If we've only been with each other and we were both tested before, why would we need to again? Chat Icon



I completely agree!

Posted 3/16/06 8:39 AM
 

oneday
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Yes! B/c to me that would either mean he didn't trust me, or he had a reason to be concerned with my safety b/c he'd been doing something he shouldn't.

Posted 3/16/06 8:41 AM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Insulted no , concerned yes

Posted 3/16/06 9:09 AM
 

Boobobunny
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

I would think that DH either didn't trust me...or wasn't being so honest with me.

Posted 3/16/06 9:11 AM
 

dooodles
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

tested yearly? I would wonder why.

Posted 3/16/06 9:12 AM
 

MsG
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Yearly sounds like a lot of testing. How long is it that one can be HIV positive but have a negative test? For STDs I thought pretty muchthey just show up on the test if you have them.

Posted 3/16/06 9:21 AM
 

MrsSchwags
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Posted by GenLCSW

Posted by leighla

Yeah, I would think something was off if DH asked me to test.

If we've only been with each other and we were both tested before, why would we need to again? Chat Icon



I completely agree!




Me 3.

Posted 3/16/06 9:23 AM
 

baghag
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

The recent posts about cheating made me wonder. Not yesterday's thread, the other ones that were shocked to find out that their Dh's were cheating. It makes me think you can never be too careful. Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/06 9:27 AM
 

BabyBoy
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Posted by MrsSchwags

Posted by GenLCSW

Posted by leighla

Yeah, I would think something was off if DH asked me to test.

If we've only been with each other and we were both tested before, why would we need to again? Chat Icon



I completely agree!




Me 3.



this answer works good...

Posted 3/16/06 9:27 AM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

No way. We both felt it was important, so we were both tested for that amongst other things.

ETA: I'd be a little put off if he asked me once we were married and had already been tested. That would be weird to me. But when we were dating and decided we were going to get married, then no, it seemed logical.

Message edited 3/16/2006 9:30:09 AM.

Posted 3/16/06 9:28 AM
 

PiyoPika566
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

I might be concerned that something is going on.. but if there isn't anything going on and he just wanted to protect ourselves, I would not be insulted.
We test for EVERYTHING when we get our annual physical.

Posted 3/16/06 9:51 AM
 

Diane
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Posted by BrunetteMom

I would be very concerned if my husband came home and asked me to get tested.




same here

Posted 3/16/06 10:12 AM
 

krwm
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

YEARLY? Yeah, obviously something would be up if you SO asked you to do this.

To get tested in general once/twice, no.

Posted 3/16/06 10:14 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

It would be different if he asked me from the get-go. If he asked me now, I'd definitely wonder what's up.

Posted 3/16/06 10:16 AM
 

MrsJ
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

No. Not at all.
We've both been tested before. When we got PG we were tested again. I like knowing we're both fine, even though I"m not worried about it.

Posted 3/16/06 10:19 AM
 

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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

To be tested YEARLY- yes. That says either he is cheating on me or he thinks I am cheating on him.

To ask at the beginning of a relationship is smart and respsonsible.

Posted 3/16/06 10:22 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

I would think it was odd because we both got tested when we started dating so if he felt either of us needed to be tested I would certainly wondery why. Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/06 12:44 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Posted by Shellyesq

To be tested YEARLY- yes. That says either he is cheating on me or he thinks I am cheating on him.

To ask at the beginning of a relationship is smart and respsonsible.



I feel the same way.

Posted 3/16/06 12:49 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Posted by Shellyesq

To be tested YEARLY- yes. That says either he is cheating on me or he thinks I am cheating on him.

To ask at the beginning of a relationship is smart and respsonsible.



I agree. I think I would wonder what was up if he was asking.

Posted 3/16/06 6:58 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

yes i would

Posted 3/16/06 6:59 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

Why if we both know we are OK would he ask. I would be paranoid if he asked

Posted 3/16/06 6:59 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Spinoff: Would you be insulted if DH/DW asked you to be tested yearly for STD's and HIV/AIDS?

My jaw would probably drop to the floor. As shelly said, it would either mean he was cheating or he thought I was cheating. I'd probably throw him out of the house. No offense, but I can't understand how anyone would NOT be offended by this.

Posted 3/17/06 11:14 AM
 
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