Stalker!

omg i have this crazy stalker guy now and its really unnerving.

he met me and my friend in my bar a loooooooong time ago (b4 i worked there) and he was really irritating us. he was like "i remember you" to my friend and then he told her her first AND last name ... "...we met on the streeet 4 years ago" CUCKOO.....
she was dumb (and drunk) enough to give him her real email address for soemthing and ever since then it has been pure craziness.

he would email us incredibly rude and creepy emails.... wed tell him to stop and he'd keep going. completely relentless.

THEN we blocked him and he found us on MySpace..... well the psychoticness ensued.
he would stalk us on there and send us MORE crazy stuff.

then we blocked him on there as well and thought everything was fine.

WELL..... he comes into the bar last night when im working.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(yes, i made the mistake of putting down when im there on my myspace for my FRIENDS to come visit me)

So he orders a drink. i dont eveb look him in the eye.... im disgusted he had the balls to even show his face....
he orders a drink. i take his money. he doesnt even TOUCH it. i mean doesnt even pull it closer nothing.

but he sits there for 2 hours... just staring into space... and eventually towards the last 30 mins staring at me.
i was so freaked out.

i go over and say "is there something wrong with your drink?" (not acting like i know him) and he says "nope"

he finally left and i had people stay with me that night til after close.

it was soooooooooooooo creepy. i wasnt prepared for that.

any adivce on how to act if it comes again? should i kick him out? somehting else? thanks

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1st off I would take your work schedule down... then I would stop posting personal stuff on my space in all honesty he hasn't really done anything bizarre other than show up to a place where you work ( you offered the info) If it continues to happen and he actually does something I would get a restraining order.

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It ***** b/c myspace is a great way to generate new business & build a follwoing for yourself......

Is there a bouncer in your place. Maybe if he does this again & he can be denied entry? It is a tough situation, but please please please do not take any chances when working & getting home & stuff.


I ditto the restraining order. Especially if he was sending you vile stuff in e-mails in the past.

Message edited 6/5/2006 12:48:10 PM.

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thtas the thing. its JUST me working on sunday nights. im completely alone.

ill see if he does it again. i hope he wont.

i took my schedule off myspace. which sux cuz i was hoping to get business that way froim my friends.

oh well.

at least he is blocked from my myspace and emaisl now though.

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this is why i hate myspace....

and if you're going to put personal info on there, why not make it private?

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