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DebG
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The cure IS worse!
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by FeliciaDP
Posted by Moehick
Posted by DebG
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
when it's every day about the same thing over and over and over
agreed!
Oh yeah sometimes you just look at someone or see their name and know what will come out of their mouth!
Word!! 
to your mommma!
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Moehick
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by DebG
Posted by FeliciaDP
Posted by Moehick
Posted by DebG
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
when it's every day about the same thing over and over and over
agreed!
Oh yeah sometimes you just look at someone or see their name and know what will come out of their mouth!
Word!!
to your mommma!
Ice Ice Baby to go....to go....FOREVA!
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| Posted 4/25/06 10:20 AM |
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MrsJ
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
My MIL! 
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| Posted 4/25/06 10:53 AM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
how could I have forgotten my MIL????
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| Posted 4/25/06 11:08 AM |
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-Laurie-
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
I think I can read your mind Deb! Right now I am so exciting that my husband is coming home soon and I keep reading the same people complain and complain about their Dh's. I wish I had some of their problems.
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| Posted 4/25/06 11:37 AM |
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evenedan
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
They are all around us!
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| Posted 4/25/06 8:48 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
I have been one lately. Sorry
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Mrs.B717
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
I think part of the reason why people may vent or complain here is because they are getting a non-bias opinon. I know that is why I do.
I hope its not me by the way....I have recently been complaining up a storm....sorry
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dooodles
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by evenedan
They are all around us!
Scary - ain't it?
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| Posted 4/25/06 9:13 PM |
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05mommy09
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
I see your point of view....
But when I vent on here- its about things, I cant vent to other people about.....
If we are supposed to be family- arent we supposed to be there for eachother- regardless????
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by Princessmaris
I see your point of view....
But when I vent on here- its about things, I cant vent to other people about.....
If we are supposed to be family- arent we supposed to be there for eachother- regardless????
of course, and like any family, when you hear the same song and dance over and over and over again, you can't help but roll your eyes
but it's all love 
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| Posted 4/25/06 9:36 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
My coworker is constantly complaining about how tough things are for her...poor baby was having a rough time b/c she had too many job interviews! 
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| Posted 4/25/06 9:41 PM |
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05mommy09
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Princessmaris
I see your point of view....
But when I vent on here- its about things, I cant vent to other people about.....
If we are supposed to be family- arent we supposed to be there for eachother- regardless????
of course, and like any family, when you hear the same song and dance over and over and over again, you can't help but roll your eyes
but it's all love
True true...
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saraH
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
yes, my fmil and a few co-workers..
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| Posted 4/25/06 9:42 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
You know what, I have to say that I am more than a little embarrassed because obviously this thread has something to do with me. Rather than sit on here and post things like, "Wow, I WISH I had those problems," or whatever else people posted, just tell me. FM me or freaking type it in my post. I'm not a baby, and I much rather someone be DIRECT with me and tell me I complain too much. I'm not speaking to anyone in particular, but I think I have been posting on here long enough and "know" enough of you that you can be straight with me. Sometimes, I need a reality check, and I think that is why I "vent" on here a lot because I get perspective, which is what I need sometimes. I have been in a fog of self-pity lately, it's fine to tell me to shut up.
So please, don't roll your eyes at me or post about me in a not so non-descript way. Just freaking tell me. I'm not some fragile piece of glass that will break if you tell me the truth. I much prefer to be told directly when it's getting old.
On that note, I do have to at least say thank you to Don because he's the only one who was direct with me on my post about my husband.
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| Posted 4/25/06 9:44 PM |
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Wendy1220
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Yes, a co-worker. She's a really nice woman but I can't stand to be around her for more than 5 minutes because it always lead to her complaining up a storm about something ridiculous.
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05mommy09
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by prncssrachel
You know what, I have to say that I am more than a little embarrassed because obviously this thread has something to do with me. Rather than sit on here and post things like, "Wow, I WISH I had those problems," or whatever else people posted, just tell me. FM me or freaking type it in my post. I'm not a baby, and I much rather someone be DIRECT with me and tell me I complain too much. I'm not speaking to anyone in particular, but I think I have been posting on here long enough and "know" enough of you that you can be straight with me. Sometimes, I need a reality check, and I think that is why I "vent" on here a lot because I get perspective, which is what I need sometimes. I have been in a fog of self-pity lately, it's fine to tell me to shut up.
So please, don't roll your eyes at me or post about me in a not so non-descript way. Just freaking tell me. I'm not some fragile piece of glass that will break if you tell me the truth. I much prefer to be told directly when it's getting old.
On that note, I do have to at least say thank you to Don because he's the only one who was direct with me on my post about my husband.
Girl you could vent to me as many times as you'd like....
That IS what we are here for....
ETA- maybe Im taking this thread the wrong way- but IMO its only discouraging people from "venting" or expressing how they feel on this thread..
And I for one KNOW- I vented alot about what was going on at home with my brother, and Im so grateful I did.... I cant tell you the help and wonderful friends I made through it....
If you dont wanna read someones post because the complain too much then dont read it!
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Mrs.B717
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
ETA- maybe Im taking this thread the wrong way- but IMO its only discouraging people from "venting" or expressing how they feel on this thread..
I took it this way also
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dm24angel
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by Mrs.B717
ETA- maybe Im taking this thread the wrong way- but IMO its only discouraging people from "venting" or expressing how they feel on this thread..
I took it this way also
hmmm...I didnt?
I too hate the constant complainers in my life.
I vent, and sometimes a lot..sometimes I will post 2-3 venting posts a week, btu then my life gets better and I remember to be happy for what I have...I do though see some people on here vent almost every day about the same things and I admit I would like to sometimes tell them to stop , because they are constant and not seeing the good they have. Same goes for people in my real life who do the same. I have one girl at work who never ever stops , its always soemthing, and her life looks pretty good to me.
Sometimes you need some Im happy news to break it up or you sound just like that, a complainer and people want to stop listening...
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JenniferEver
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
I think I'm guilty of being a constant complainer/venter.
Sometimes it just helps me to get it all out, so then I just move on and don't let it sit on my chest and bother me.
Also, I feel weird sometimes announcing happy news. I don't know why that is. For example, I will complain about FH to no end, but I have a hard time saying "My FH is so great" not because he isn't, but I feel awkward, and i don't want to sound like I'm bragging or make someone else feel bad if they don't have the same thing
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by prncssrachel
On that note, I do have to at least say thank you to Don because he's the only one who was direct with me on my post about my husband.
you're welcome -- hope i didn't offend you
it's just i always hear the bad, i'd love to hear some nice things about JT
besides the fact that he roots for the red sox 
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JenniferEver
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
I think being straightforward is a great thing. A lot of people don't know they are constant complainers, or whatever else they're doing wrong
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Tany
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
me, I can't help it but I'm working on it.
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| Posted 4/26/06 12:17 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by prncssrachel
On that note, I do have to at least say thank you to Don because he's the only one who was direct with me on my post about my husband.
you're welcome -- hope i didn't offend you
it's just i always hear the bad, i'd love to hear some nice things about JT
besides the fact that he roots for the red sox
I was not offended in the slightest. Infact, you made me stop and remind myself that I really do need to remember that he is, infact, an amazing man.
I have to also agree with Mary, too, that I tend to vent the negative things about him on here, when infact, my life with my husband is wonderful, I just feel weird posting the good things sometimes. I don't know why I feel that way, but I just do.
So, I will say that after I vented on here last night, and after this thread was started, my husband came home, and I realized I needed to let go of what was bothering me and be thankful for the fact that I have him at all. I need to be thankful for the fact that he is a hard-working, caring, loving man who chooses on a daily basis to be married to me, despite all my faults. And I, too, choose to be married to him, despite his faults. So, again, I stick to what I said before...I wallow in self-pity sometimes, I know I do. And if you notice an abundance of complaining posts by me, go right ahead and tell me to shut up and be grateful. I admit, I need it sometimes. I do.
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JenniferEver
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Re: The constant complainer/venter
Rachel, I think that's really a brave and mature thing to admit. I don't want to sound condescending at all. I just really think it's great that you have that attitude.
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