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stayandjohn
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The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
I already have 2 boys, I know what the sex of this baby is but havent told anyone except my DH. Everyone I meet will say something along the lines of "you better pray for a girl this time" "will you be devestated if you have another boy?" "what are you going to do if you have another boy?" "if its a boy will you try again for a girl?"
WHY??? I love my little guys with my heart and soul, why would I be devestated if this baby is a boy? Are boy babies any less loveable than girls? Would I love to have a girl, sure it would be fun to do girly things of course, but if I had 3 of the same well thats the way God wanted it. I want a healthy happy baby, I could care less whats between their legs.
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MrDeeNMe
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
People can be such A-holes!! I'm sorry!!
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:22 PM |
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JoJo2010
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
OH OH!! Can you tell us!!?? PLEASE PLEASE! 
PEOPLE NEED TO KEEP THERE MOUTHS SHUT!!!! People keep asking me what do you want..of course I have a preference but if it doesnt turn out that way, am I gonna HATE my child bc it has a vajay jay or a peen? NO..so stop asking me what I am gonna do if its a boy!!
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:22 PM |
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jerseypanda
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Aw... 
I have one DS and we don't know the sex of this baby yet (will be finding out in about 3 weeks though when he/she is born)
I always hear people say the same things to me. And I just tell them that it does not matter to me whether I have another boy or a girl. This is our last, so if we end up with 2 boys, I will be just as happy as if we have one of each.
I think people believe that your family is not perfect or complete unless you have a boy and a girl. But I don't get annoyed at the comments... that's just their opinion!
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:23 PM |
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
I totally understand. ALl i keep hearing is "well let's hope this one's a girl" can't I be just as happy with another little penis???
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:23 PM |
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saraH
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
That's awful. Why can't people just keep their mouths shut?
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:24 PM |
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bluekat16
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
I think people are always curious when you already have one of whichever sex...not to mention two. I get questioned now on whether I want a boy or a girl. Curiousity is not an excuse for rude behavior.
It is totally insensitive for them to question you that way because you will love your baby no matter what sex it is.
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:27 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Some people are just plain heartless.... I dont have any children but i am due in one month ,,,i am having a girl..and I already have people saying oh dont worry your next one will be a boy...um I may not want another one and i am over the moon that i am having a little girl and if i had another one i think it would be great to have two girls (i think sisters have such an amazing bond)
just ignore people ignorance
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:27 PM |
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MST9106
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Some people are just idiots and don't know when to shut their mouth...
WAY TO GO JOHN!!! I know he is going to give himself a really good pat on the back if your 3rd one is a boy! Whatever it is, God Bless!
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:29 PM |
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eroxgirl
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
People don't think. They just don't. They have no idea how it sounds on the receiving end and probably don't even realize how rude they're being.
I already have people telling me "I'm sure you're wishing for a boy now." Um, no not exactly. If I have a boy that's wonderful, and if I have a girl, that's wonderful too.
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| Posted 11/16/09 2:31 PM |
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Annie91606
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Losers! I hear this kind of thing too, from my tactless MIL.
I have one DS and am currently pregnant (will find out what we are having next month). This will be our last child, due to my age and a number of other factors.
My MIL says "don't you hope it is a girl, then you will have the PERFECT family". That is what she calls a family with one boy and one girl.
Ignore these idiots.
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:31 PM |
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
People are so rude and dumb. I would chalk it up to that! I bet your boys are a dream!
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:34 PM |
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MamaB17
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
that was for you. PPL are just awful sometimes. I don't get why they even think things.
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:39 PM |
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mtnmama
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
people are idiots
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mrswask
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
People are azzholes. I would not be able to hold back. If some idiot said to me, "What are you going to do if it's a another boy," I'd probably look at them with a straight face and reply, "Chop off his penis and put him in a dress."
Hang in there!!
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| Posted 11/16/09 4:36 PM |
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Dragonfly75
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
I know. I got those comments when I was preggo with my second boy. If we go for another I'm not going to find out the sex because I don't want to hear all the negative comments.
Boys are wonderful. I love them. Yes, I want three, now go away and leave us in peace!
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| Posted 11/16/09 5:04 PM |
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XcalystaX
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Posted by jerseypanda
Aw...
I have one DS and we don't know the sex of this baby yet (will be finding out in about 3 weeks though when he/she is born)
I always hear people say the same things to me. And I just tell them that it does not matter to me whether I have another boy or a girl. This is our last, so if we end up with 2 boys, I will be just as happy as if we have one of each.
I think people believe that your family is not perfect or complete unless you have a boy and a girl. But I don't get annoyed at the comments... that's just their opinion!
Same here and I have a DD. It irritates me that people will direct their stupid comment to my DH saying "oh poor you if its another girl...don't you hope this is a boy so you can do guy stuff with" Ugh it makes me so mad. Even my FIL is an @ss saying "This baby HAS to be a boy- end of story". Seriously???
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| Posted 11/16/09 5:11 PM |
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maybesoon
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
people are so annoying you must be getting it really bad! I have one boy and everyone is like Oh I hope you are having a girl!!! I feel like everyone is going to be so dissappointed if I tell them it's a boy  the thing is I'm sure I am carrying a boy and I keep telling everyone so they are not dissappointed.
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| Posted 11/16/09 5:19 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Stacey, you should just rub poop on their car door handles.  (omg, the best story ever)
People are idiots. If I ever had another and I had a boy, I wouldn't care either. I've always thought deep down inside that I wanted a little girl but boys are so much fun too!! I think I'd be scared to have a girl..
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Ang-Rich
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Unbelievable I don't get people and their need to push their own opinions on what gender to have. As if that is the most important thing 
A healthy baby and a happy mommy...that's all people should wish for you...I do
BTW...I am completely dying to hear the good news!!!
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| Posted 11/16/09 8:16 PM |
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stayandjohn
Our life is complete
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Posted by Stefanie
Stacey, you should just rub poop on their car door handles. (omg, the best story ever)
LMAO, you remember that
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headoverheels
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
Posted by Stefanie
People are idiots. If I ever had another and I had a boy, I wouldn't care either. I've always thought deep down inside that I wanted a little girl but boys are so much fun too!! I think I'd be scared to have a girl..
I AM scared to have a girl! I did want a girl but my DS is absolutely the best thing ever and I'd be lucky to have 5 more of him.
Stacey it's very simple. People suck I hope your level II went well and your baby is nice and healthy!
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| Posted 11/17/09 8:09 AM |
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KateDevine
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
People are morons, plain and simple
You let the yenta find out?
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| Posted 11/17/09 8:17 AM |
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jennarose023
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
i hate stupid people...just brush them off!
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| Posted 11/17/09 8:22 AM |
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Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink
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Re: The nasty stupid comments dont stop after your 1st baby
I only have 2 boys but get the comments too like, "oh are you going to try for a girl next?" or when I was pregnant,"I hope you get your girl".
I  my boys and am not sure why anyone would think it's disappointing to have another boy.
So, screw them - try not to let it bother you. People say stupid things
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