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They never appreciate you until your gone

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Shelly
She's 7!!!

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They never appreciate you until your gone

So I worked for my last firm for 1 1/2 years. I rarely got a word of praise. Even in my first few months when I got a case dismissed against my client, I was not congratulated. I was miserable from day 1.

After the worst review I ever received in my career, I decided to get my but in gear and start looking for a new job. After 6 months, I left to another firm doing the same thing. The work is the same, but the environment is SO much different.

So since I left two months ago, two partners (including one that made my life miserable), emailed me to tell me that the papers I wrote were successful and we ended up winning two appeals. Chat Icon

Now why couldn't they have told me that when I was still there? Don't get me wrong. I'm really glad they went out of their way to let me know. But if they weren't such tools, I could be putting my skills to work for THEM, instead of moving on to greener pastures. Oh well. Their loss.

Message edited 3/12/2009 9:00:55 AM.

Posted 3/12/09 8:15 AM
 
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04bride
I'm a big sister!!!

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Noel

Re: They never appreciate you until your gone

Thats too bad but good for you. I hate mean biosses!

Posted 3/12/09 8:18 AM
 

JP826
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Me!! All about ME!

Re: They never appreciate you until your gone

Ha! Their loss. Payback is a b1tch isn't it? I bet they are kicking themselves in the azz.

Posted 3/12/09 8:44 AM
 

MrsFab
this is bliss.......

Member since 10/08

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Mb

Re: They never appreciate you until your gone

What a nice compliment- definately keep in touch with them- you never know when you might need a good reference.

Posted 3/12/09 8:46 AM
 

Cheeks24
Living a dream

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Cheeks

Re: They never appreciate you until your gone

So glad you're in a better place now. It's terrible how there are so many companies like that. Praise=happy employees=they'll do more work

Posted 3/12/09 9:51 AM
 

LightUpOurLife
Totally in love

Member since 8/06

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Bonnie-Jean

Re: They never appreciate you until your gone

I agree, it really would have been nice to know THEN how good things were.

Posted 3/12/09 10:22 AM
 

HeatherRose
Life is Good :)

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Re: They never appreciate you until your gone

uhhhhh. I hate that. I had that with a job. it was my dream job. I lived everything about it but I was treated so poorly by the owner. to the point where I was in tears many days. When I gave my notice I was leaving (after I had accepted another job) he explained to me how shocked he was and disappointed I was one of his best employees etc etc. He said ALL the right things that I needed to hear all year long, at the wrong time.

Maybe it worked out for the best since I am someplace better now (that other job didn't work out, left after 2 monthsChat Icon )but its so fustrating when it happens! I had no idea I even mattered to the company until I leftChat Icon

Posted 3/12/09 10:48 AM
 
 

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