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Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

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ROMANCEnBABYDANCE
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Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

So, we BD'd on CD:

10
12
14
16

We were supposed to BD last night one more time - CD 18, but DH didn't come to bed until late and I was passed out. He nudged me, asked me if we "were doing this thing" or not. I wasn't exactly bowled over with lust at the nudge and the request as if we were taking out the garbage, Chat Icon , so I said "Eh, nah. If I'm not pregnant by now, then forget it. We will try again next month."

Now I'm wondering if we should have.

What do you think? Did I get my bases covered?

Posted 1/26/09 3:27 PM
 
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Rycois
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J

Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

When did you O, or when do you think you O'd?

ETS: My OPK use was not too successful this month - I usually O CD14-18. We BD 12, 14. 16, 18, 19, 20 - and I still am not too hopeful Chat Icon
But if you O'd anytime in the timeframe you BD'd, then you def. have a chance

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Message edited 1/26/2009 3:33:59 PM.

Posted 1/26/09 3:32 PM
 

Aries14
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

do you know when you O

Posted 1/26/09 3:32 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

With your cycle length, I think you are probably okay - assuming you have a normal LP.

In any case... what's done is done so let's just hope for the best! It does sound like you have your bases covered! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/09 3:32 PM
 

ROMANCEnBABYDANCE
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

I have exactly 28 day cycles. My OBGYN thinks I probably O according to the calendar. With DC, I got PG exactly 2 weeks after AF, and I measured exactly according to my date, etc....

but, there's that voice of doubt that keeps asking what if...

According to the calendar, I O'd on Thurs, Jan 22, CD 15

Posted 1/26/09 3:36 PM
 

Aries14
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

Posted by ROMANCEnBABYDANCE

So, we BD'd on CD:

10
12
14
16

We were supposed to BD last night one more time - CD 18, but DH didn't come to bed until late and I was passed out. He nudged me, asked me if we "were doing this thing" or not. I wasn't exactly bowled over with lust at the nudge and the request as if we were taking out the garbage, Chat Icon , so I said "Eh, nah. If I'm not pregnant by now, then forget it. We will try again next month."

Now I'm wondering if we should have.

What do you think? Did I get my bases covered?



BTW, we must have the same schedule bc we BD'ed 10,12,14 and 15 and I am also worried it was not enough!

Posted 1/26/09 3:37 PM
 

Rycois
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J

Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

Posted by ROMANCEnBABYDANCE

According to the calendar, I O'd on Thurs, Jan 22, CD 15



Then BD on CD18 wouldn't have helped ya so you're covered Chat Icon

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Posted 1/26/09 3:37 PM
 

ROMANCEnBABYDANCE
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

Posted by SweetCaroline

Posted by ROMANCEnBABYDANCE

According to the calendar, I O'd on Thurs, Jan 22, CD 15



Then BD on CD18 wouldn't have helped ya so you're covered Chat Icon

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But this stupid annoying voice keeps tapping me on the shoulder and saying, pssssst... what if you O'd late - wouldn't that SUUUUCkkkkk? Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/09 3:39 PM
 

ROMANCEnBABYDANCE
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

Posted by Aries14

Posted by ROMANCEnBABYDANCE

So, we BD'd on CD:

10
12
14
16

We were supposed to BD last night one more time - CD 18, but DH didn't come to bed until late and I was passed out. He nudged me, asked me if we "were doing this thing" or not. I wasn't exactly bowled over with lust at the nudge and the request as if we were taking out the garbage, Chat Icon , so I said "Eh, nah. If I'm not pregnant by now, then forget it. We will try again next month."

Now I'm wondering if we should have.

What do you think? Did I get my bases covered?



BTW, we must have the same schedule bc we BD'ed 10,12,14 and 15 and I am also worried it was not enough!



OOOOH - see you on the pregnancy board!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/09 3:40 PM
 

Eireann
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

The last time I tried, that was my exact schedule (and I got the smiley on Day 15)...it worked.

Posted 1/26/09 3:40 PM
 

MetsGirl07
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Deanna

Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

i think you covered everything and should be fine!!
its best to BD before O.. and you BD'd on CD16.. so thats perfect!!

Posted 1/26/09 3:41 PM
 

Aries14
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Re: Think I missed the boat by missing a BD day?

Posted by ROMANCEnBABYDANCE

Posted by Aries14

Posted by ROMANCEnBABYDANCE

So, we BD'd on CD:

10
12
14
16

We were supposed to BD last night one more time - CD 18, but DH didn't come to bed until late and I was passed out. He nudged me, asked me if we "were doing this thing" or not. I wasn't exactly bowled over with lust at the nudge and the request as if we were taking out the garbage, Chat Icon , so I said "Eh, nah. If I'm not pregnant by now, then forget it. We will try again next month."

Now I'm wondering if we should have.

What do you think? Did I get my bases covered?



BTW, we must have the same schedule bc we BD'ed 10,12,14 and 15 and I am also worried it was not enough!



OOOOH - see you on the pregnancy board!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/09 3:57 PM
 
 

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