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Bxgell2
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This takes the cake for inappropriate
Went to dinner last night with DH, Alex and Yael.
Our waiter was BEYOND annoying.. checked on us, no joke, every 2-3 minutes, kept wanting to chat while we were eating, and just didn't take the social cue to leave us alone.
Halfway through he stops by again to chat. Notices Yael is awake - comments on what a cute baby she is, and then asks:
"So, are you breastfeeding her? You know it's best. It has, like, proteins in it that can't be replicated"
Me: 
Um, really? My 17 year old waiter thought it was appropriate to ask me, while I was eating, in front of the entire restaurant, whether I was breastfeeding or not?? Come on now!! 
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Posted 9/13/09 12:46 PM  |
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LJSMommy
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
I have no words!
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| Posted 9/13/09 12:54 PM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
OMG!!!
Beyond inappropriate for anyone to say.
I'm just finding it funny that a 17 year old male waiter claims to be such an expert on the benefits of breast feeding He's probably of the demographic that I would guess was the least likely to even think about the subject
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| Posted 9/13/09 12:57 PM |
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headoverheels
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
HE wanted to know if you were BFing?
maybe he wasn't just checking out the baby, if you know what i mean 
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| Posted 9/13/09 12:57 PM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
people are so inappropriate! We went to Sesame Place in July and we were standing on line waiting for the park to open. A women that was standing behind us with her husband and 2 kids started talking to me. First she congratulated me (she noticed that I was pg) and then she proceeds to ask me
in front of everyone else standing in line "Are you planning on breast feeding? Did you breast feed your son?"  I dont you know from a hole in the wall and your asking me that! I absolutely cant stand people
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| Posted 9/13/09 12:58 PM |
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Bxgell2
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH
OMG!!!
Beyond inappropriate for anyone to say.
I'm just finding it funny that a 17 year old male waiter claims to be such an expert on the benefits of breast feeding He's probably of the demographic that I would guess was the least likely to even think about the subject
Yes, well, he spent half our dinner telling us about his 4 year old son... so, ok, maybe not 17, more like 21-ish...
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| Posted 9/13/09 12:58 PM |
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jaysee00
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
Wow! Unbelievable...
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| Posted 9/13/09 2:01 PM |
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
I had a person at work keep asking me about how dialated i was, about my MP...then telling me about how her delivery went. She was asking me stuff that i didn't feel comfy talking w/ my DH/doc about.
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| Posted 9/13/09 2:08 PM |
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yankinmanc
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
Oh! I think thats really cute and sweet. a bit odd...but cute.
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| Posted 9/13/09 2:15 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH
OMG!!!
Beyond inappropriate for anyone to say.
I'm just finding it funny that a 17 year old male waiter claims to be such an expert on the benefits of breast feeding He's probably of the demographic that I would guess was the least likely to even think about the subject
Yes, well, he spent half our dinner telling us about his 4 year old son... so, ok, maybe not 17, more like 21-ish...
Ok...not that I think it is appropriate, but it makes a LITTLE bit more sense now!
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| Posted 9/13/09 2:22 PM |
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CrankyPants
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
I think it is completely inappropriate and I will never understand where people get the nerve.
I would have answered and then I would have asked him if his willie was circumcised or not-what's fair is fair.
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| Posted 9/13/09 2:52 PM |
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Goldi0218
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
I would have said:
"No, but if you would like to try breastfeeding her, go ahead!"
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| Posted 9/13/09 3:11 PM |
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SuzyQ
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Re: This takes the cake for inappropriate
wow. just wow. how on earth did you respond to that one?
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| Posted 9/13/09 4:04 PM |
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