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Thoughts on this idea.

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saraH
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Thoughts on this idea.

My DH will be 30 in about 2 years so I'm not planning anything now...but I'd like to start thinking of things.

My idea was to have a party at a bar and invite everyone.

My questiion is this: If you got invited to a party at a bar is it pay your own way,drinks wise, or should the host cover everyone?

I wouldn't ask anyone for money, this would be on me. And maybe my bil's if they wanted to chip in.

Posted 4/21/08 11:20 AM
 
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Jackie24
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Re: Thoughts on this idea.

as a guest i would expect it to be covered

Posted 4/21/08 11:23 AM
 

LFitzy79
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Re: Thoughts on this idea.

I would expect it to be open bar, unless it was specified as otherwise. Maybe you can get the bar you pick to give you a flat rate for tap beer and regular drinks, and if someone wants bottled or shots, that'll go on a cash tab.

Posted 4/21/08 11:25 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Thoughts on this idea.

If it was an actual invitation, I would think the drinks are on them.

If it was verbal, I would assume they were on me.

Posted 4/21/08 12:00 PM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Thoughts on this idea.

Posted by nrthshgrl

If it was an actual invitation, I would think the drinks are on them.

If it was verbal, I would assume they were on me.



So, if I send out a formal invite, I should cover everyone.

But if it's a "hey, meet us at such and such for DH's b-day, we'll hang out" it's on the invitee.

I get it.

Posted 4/21/08 12:08 PM
 
 

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