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Today's a rough day
So i'm back to work today after being in and out of the hospital last week and the the D&C 1week ago. I feel so unprepared to be back. My back is killing me from the spinal and I am cramping so bad I want to just curl up into a ball and cry. I am just not ready for real life yet. I have wed and thur off so that's good, but I'm not looking forward to this weekend....fri, sat, and sun will be horrible. When will I feel more like my old self emotionally? I feel like i'm in a fog today
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Posted 12/2/08 12:48 PM  |
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WNA01
my 2 boys
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Re: Today's a rough day
im really sorry. i know ur not feeling well but honestly keeping busy is probally the best thing for ur mind and heart. I have kept myself as busy as i could for the last week. I mc last monday too : ( If u need anyone to chat with im here. 
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| Posted 12/2/08 1:05 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
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Deanna
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Re: Today's a rough day
oh sweetie.. i know how emotionally draining it could be..
i was the same way.. and was not ready by any means to start work after my loss.. it was just a disaster.. 
but it does get better with time.. and lile the PP said.. sometimes it is better to keep yourself busy by doing things such as work..
i know everything is so confusing and hard, but it will get better!
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| Posted 12/2/08 1:12 PM |
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Blissful
Ultimate Expression of LOVE
Member since 6/08 4985 total posts
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Maria
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Re: Today's a rough day
Its different for everyone.... I had a really hard time with my M/C. I was not myself for months....... We ended up holding off TTC for 6 months after my M/C because of it.....
But it will get better... I promise.
Take 1 day at a time
1 hour at a time
1 minute at a time
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| Posted 12/2/08 1:29 PM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
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Patty
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Re: Today's a rough day
I know it's hard to get back in the routine, you just want to put the cover over your head and close the door. But believe me, it's better to get back in your routine and keep busy.
I did anything to keep busy, cleaned out closets, drawers, the basement, anything..
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| Posted 12/2/08 1:39 PM |
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CAH127
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Re: Today's a rough day
Just wanted you to know that you are not alone with your feelings. Hang in there.
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| Posted 12/2/08 1:55 PM |
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shaye3
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Laura
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Re: Today's a rough day
BIg hugs..as everyone said you are not alone and it doesn't seem possible but day by day you will feel a little more like yourself...don't be hard on yourslef either though...it is soo sad and there are days you just don't want to leave bed..those are normal feelings..i also did lots of things to keep busy..
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| Posted 12/2/08 1:59 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Donna
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Re: Today's a rough day
Took me about 3 weeks to finally stop being so emotional. Remember that the hormones need to leave your system and take a while...So its normal to get really upset b/c its the hormones talking.
Its been 10 weeks for me now and I feel generally fine, not emotional, no pain etc.
Give yourself time
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| Posted 12/2/08 9:45 PM |
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I am so sorry for all you have been through the past week-I hope you feel better ASAP and sending you my prayers and some baby dust!  
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| Posted 12/3/08 12:08 AM |
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