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UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

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MrsM84
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UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

So tomorrow is my day 3 transfer. LIIVF said that if it was going to change to a 5 day transfer, they would have contacted me today to schedule. I heard nothing, so day 3 it is. My question is that after reading many posts on this board, I feel that most people favor and have fared better with a day 5 transfer, which makes me nervous. Does a day 3 transfer mean my embryos aren't doing well? Should I be pushing/advocating for a day 5 transfer? Anyone here a day 3 success story?

I think this is all nerves talking and I'm sure I'm just stressing myself out, but I was secretly hoping that every time my phone rang today, it would be LIIVF telling me it was moved to day 5. Any chance they will call early tomorrow morning to reschedule?

UPDATE -- Transfer went great and was done by Dr. Brenner. They transferred one 8 cell embryo, which he said was of very high quality. 1 of the 8 that fertilized seized, and the other 6 made it to freeze! Now starts the longest 11 days EVER!

Message edited 8/8/2014 10:59:55 AM.

Posted 8/7/14 6:25 PM
 
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ANewDayHasCome
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Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

There are many, many success stories with day 3 transfers. It has nothing to do with the quality only the amount you have growing now. If there are two or three they don't want to risk pushing you to a day 5 and then having nothing to transfer if they arrest. BUT the two that you have now could be perfect!

Try not to stress. Just think it's out of your hands now. Go in there relaxed and optimistic. Oh and ask for a Valium ;)

Posted 8/7/14 8:22 PM
 

Hope2009
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Re: Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Try not stress out too much. I'm sure your dr knows best. Good luckChat Icon

Posted 8/8/14 6:38 AM
 

PitterPatter11
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Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Both 3 and 5 days transfers have been successful. Good Luck!

Posted 8/8/14 7:04 AM
 

08BabySurprise
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Re: Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 8/8/14 9:30 AM
 

TyReseGreen
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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

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Posted 8/8/14 12:00 PM
 

MrsM0829
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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Great update! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/8/14 12:13 PM
 

babydreams21
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UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Nice! 6 to freeze is awesome! GL

Posted 8/8/14 1:05 PM
 

Hope2beamom
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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Great update!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/8/14 2:58 PM
 

mich
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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

That sounds great! Lots of luck!

Posted 8/8/14 3:18 PM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
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UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Speedy 2ww!

Posted 8/8/14 3:27 PM
 

IVFmiracle
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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Posted by ANewDayHasCome

There are many, many success stories with day 3 transfers. It has nothing to do with the quality only the amount you have growing now. If there are two or three they don't want to risk pushing you to a day 5 and then having nothing to transfer if they arrest. BUT the two that you have now could be perfect!

Try not to stress. Just think it's out of your hands now. Go in there relaxed and optimistic. Oh and ask for a Valium ;)



This exactly..... And FYI, I transferred 1 8 cell embryo on a 3dt and got my BFP. 9 months later my Chat Icon was born.

Good luck.

Message edited 8/8/2014 9:42:34 PM.

Posted 8/8/14 9:41 PM
 

MrsM84
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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Posted by IVFmiracle

Posted by ANewDayHasCome

There are many, many success stories with day 3 transfers. It has nothing to do with the quality only the amount you have growing now. If there are two or three they don't want to risk pushing you to a day 5 and then having nothing to transfer if they arrest. BUT the two that you have now could be perfect!

Try not to stress. Just think it's out of your hands now. Go in there relaxed and optimistic. Oh and ask for a Valium ;)



This exactly..... And FYI, I transferred 1 8 cell embryo on a 3dt and got my BFP. 9 months later my Chat Icon was born.

Good luck.


Yay! Thanks so much for posting this -- made me so happy to hear a success story!

Posted 8/8/14 11:35 PM
 

Jenn1621
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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Posted by IVFmiracle

Posted by ANewDayHasCome

There are many, many success stories with day 3 transfers. It has nothing to do with the quality only the amount you have growing now. If there are two or three they don't want to risk pushing you to a day 5 and then having nothing to transfer if they arrest. BUT the two that you have now could be perfect!

Try not to stress. Just think it's out of your hands now. Go in there relaxed and optimistic. Oh and ask for a Valium ;)



This exactly..... And FYI, I transferred 1 8 cell embryo on a 3dt and got my BFP. 9 months later my Chat Icon was born.

Good luck.



Totally agree with all of this! My dd is a product of a 3dt and I just did a frozen transfer yesterday with the same 3 day embryos. Remember, the best place for those embryos is in your body. Try not to stress like the pp said. Good Luck!!

Posted 8/9/14 2:53 AM
 

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Re: UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

Posted by Jenn1621

Posted by IVFmiracle

Posted by ANewDayHasCome

There are many, many success stories with day 3 transfers. It has nothing to do with the quality only the amount you have growing now. If there are two or three they don't want to risk pushing you to a day 5 and then having nothing to transfer if they arrest. BUT the two that you have now could be perfect!

Try not to stress. Just think it's out of your hands now. Go in there relaxed and optimistic. Oh and ask for a Valium ;)



This exactly..... And FYI, I transferred 1 8 cell embryo on a 3dt and got my BFP. 9 months later my Chat Icon was born.

Good luck.



Totally agree with all of this! My dd is a product of a 3dt and I just did a frozen transfer yesterday with the same 3 day embryos. Remember, the best place for those embryos is in your body. Try not to stress like the pp said. Good Luck!!



My DD is the result of a 3dt. I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant with another 3dt.

Relax, eat pineapple core, drink some purple grape juice, and chomp on some walnuts. Best of luck!

Posted 8/9/14 8:09 AM
 

Wishes1111
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UPDATE! Transfer Tomorrow - Stressing Myself Out......

6 to freeze is great!! GL!!!

Posted 8/9/14 9:46 PM
 
 

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