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Wedding gift question

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LuckySV
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Wedding gift question

DH is in the wedding party of a friend from elementary school. They are still very close. We didn't have a wedding party so he was not in our's (no hotel stay either). Anyway, his friend gave us $300 as a gift. We'd like to give the same but money's tight and we're already paying $150 for the tux and $150 for the hotel (it's in Westchester-brunch the next day). Would it be acceptable to give $200? I know-give what you can afford but I just want to make sure . I feel bad giving less than he gave us. Thanks! Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/06 3:09 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: Wedding gift question

I think that is perfectly reasonable. You can go broke being in a wedding, so don't feel bad.

Posted 7/7/06 3:14 PM
 

dpli
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Re: Wedding gift question

I know I am in the minority and I know people will call me cheap, but I would have expected someone in my bridal party to give me less as a gift, since being in the wedding cost them money.

I say if $200 is all you guys can swing, it should be fine. If he is a good friend, he will understand.

Posted 7/7/06 3:15 PM
 

Dolcezza
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Nina

Re: Wedding gift question

I think its perfectly reasonable!!Chat Icon

Not to mention....he didn't have to spend money on yours....and your DH does on his......so I'm sure they aren't expecting you too.

I think $200 is fine and the fact that he's paying for the tux and being part of their day...they'll understandChat Icon

Posted 7/7/06 3:16 PM
 

suvenR
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Re: Wedding gift question

I always gave more when I was in a bridal party.

I'd go with the $300 that he gave you.

Posted 7/7/06 3:16 PM
 

FelAndJon
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Re: Wedding gift question

Posted by npbride

I know-give what you can afford but I just want to make sure .



You answered your own question Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/06 3:16 PM
 

LFitzy79
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Re: Wedding gift question

I've always given more when I was in the bridal party...then again, I've only been in bridal parties of family members....I'd say if it's doable give the $300..

Posted 7/7/06 3:24 PM
 

suvenR
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Re: Wedding gift question

Also, I'd give the $300 because if you don't, you'll always wonder whether or not they were offended.

Posted 7/7/06 3:35 PM
 

LuckySV
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Re: Wedding gift question

Thanks everyone!

Posted 7/7/06 6:20 PM
 
 

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