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Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

Yeah I just realized this and the wedding is todayChat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 9:32 AM
 
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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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Posted 10/14/06 9:32 AM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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OH ok.....does not mean tux right????? My DH just looked at me with daggars in his eyesChat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 9:34 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 9:36 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon



I agree.

Posted 10/14/06 9:38 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon



I would agree with that. I don't think it means tux. But he would need to wear a suit.

Posted 10/14/06 9:38 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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Posted by Redhead

IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon



I would agree with that. I don't think it means tux. But he would need to wear a suit.



Exactly. I put formal on my invites, and it was so DH's upstate relatives would know to where a suit. Although someone did show up in jeans Chat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 9:44 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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Posted by smdl

Posted by Redhead

IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon



I would agree with that. I don't think it means tux. But he would need to wear a suit.



Exactly. I put formal on my invites, and it was so DH's upstate relatives would know to where a suit. Although someone did show up in jeans Chat Icon

who goes to a wedding in jeans? Chat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 10:19 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

I don't think that Black Tie definately means a tux. We put black tie and people certainly didn't go and rent tuxes.

I would think formal means a nice suit for him and a cocktail dress (a nice one) for you.

What type of day is it?

Posted 10/14/06 10:39 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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Posted by SweetTooth

Posted by smdl

Posted by Redhead

IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon



I would agree with that. I don't think it means tux. But he would need to wear a suit.



Exactly. I put formal on my invites, and it was so DH's upstate relatives would know to where a suit. Although someone did show up in jeans Chat Icon

who goes to a wedding in jeans? Chat Icon




People anywhere but Long Island Chat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 10:45 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

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Posted by SweetestOfPeas

Posted by SweetTooth

Posted by smdl

Posted by Redhead

IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon



I would agree with that. I don't think it means tux. But he would need to wear a suit.



Exactly. I put formal on my invites, and it was so DH's upstate relatives would know to where a suit. Although someone did show up in jeans Chat Icon

who goes to a wedding in jeans? Chat Icon




People anywhere but Long Island Chat Icon

seriously! my sister got married in CA on a Sat night in a very fancy Opera House and my cousin (also lives in CA) showed up in khaki’s and a Hawaiian button down short sleeve shirt Chat Icon I guess he also thought that a proper wedding gift from a family of 4 is a $40 mini chopper.

The NY side of the family was dressed for a NY wedding and everyone else dressed like they were going out to the mall Chat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 11:02 AM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

We put "formal reception" on our invites just to make it clear that sundresses or khackis were not appropriate.

Posted 10/14/06 12:03 PM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

Posted by beautyq115

Yeah I just realized this and the wedding is todayChat Icon



We wrote on our invite "Black Tie Optional", meaning dress up if you'd like in a tux/gown. I'd say it means wear something more on the formal side - suit/gown, but not quite a tux.

Posted 10/14/06 12:22 PM
 

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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

Posted by nferrandi

We put "formal reception" on our invites just to make it clear that sundresses or khackis were not appropriate.



exactly...

Posted 10/14/06 12:22 PM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

Posted by Redhead

IMO a tux is when it says Black Tie ..

Formal Attire means that they don't want people showing up in khakis and a bahama shirt Chat Icon



I should have written that for my own wedding...you should have seen what people came inChat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 1:09 PM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Need your help...What does FORMAL ATTIRE mean on a wedding invite

BTW thanks everyone...I will post pics tomorrowChat Icon

Posted 10/14/06 1:10 PM
 
 

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