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beautyq115
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Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
That they regret asking.....(sorry I need to vent and I have many lurkers on LIW)
I cannot stand 2 of my BM....I wish I had never asked them....and its not like I will never see them again after this...they are family They have just made much of this process miserable and I am worried about what they are going to pull next week. One just went for her first fitting on Friday...my wedding is next Sunday! I am so ready to tell her off!
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Stefanie
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I didn't regret asking any of my bridesmaids.
Since your wedding is so close, you shouldn't stress yourself out. I got fitted a week before my friend's wedding (because I was pregnant) and everything turned out right. If they are doing things you don't like, then the inner Bridezilla needs to come out and tell it like it is. Your day, your way...
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| Posted 7/9/06 8:01 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Posted by Stefanie
I didn't regret asking any of my bridesmaids.
Since your wedding is so close, you shouldn't stress yourself out. I got fitted a week before my friend's wedding (because I was pregnant) and everything turned out right. If they are doing things you don't like, then the inner Bridezilla needs to come out and tell it like it is. Your day, your way...
I have a feeling this girl is being a spiteful
beoch!
Mostly I have other people call her when I need things from her...if I called her or spoke to her....it would be ugly
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| Posted 7/9/06 8:03 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
If her dress is not ready, then tell her she's not in the wedding party. Oh well!!
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| Posted 7/9/06 8:04 PM |
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randella
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Unfortunately, I think this is pretty common. Try to put it out of your mind-- that day I am sure they'll be great. Don't let anyone bring you down though.
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CowgirlChick97
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
my 2 cousins-they dont seem interested
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bklyngirl
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
i'm sorry kathleen. don't let the bms ruin your day
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| Posted 7/9/06 8:52 PM |
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suvenR
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I think everyone knows that I regret asking 1 of them.
But, just be thankful that yours got fitted at all. I can show you pictures of my BM from hell doing her own altarations (which included pinning chunks of fabric on top of her shoulders) on the morning of my wedding- after the videographer and photographer already arrived.
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| Posted 7/9/06 8:56 PM |
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johnsae
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I regret asking one of them.
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| Posted 7/9/06 8:56 PM |
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JodiBabe
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I had really one that I asked in the beginning and just couldn't deal with her for several reasons and I got rid of her early on. Best decision I ever made.
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| Posted 7/9/06 9:02 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I think family totally takes advantage of the fact that they are in fact FAMILY! my 2 MOH's and sisters really gave me migraines during my planning. 
hang in there 
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ssbride05
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Posted by randella
Unfortunately, I think this is pretty common. Try to put it out of your mind-- that day I am sure they'll be great. Don't let anyone bring you down though.
I agree... try not to let this girl ruina your planning. I had one person that made things a bit difficult. You just have to focus on you and your Dh.
Good luck-I am sure things will work out!
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beautyq115
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Thanks everyone...I needed to get that out...and I can't do it on LIW...since I think certain people go on there...but I guess it is an open forum.
I knew you would understand! Thanks
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| Posted 7/9/06 9:14 PM |
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monkeybride
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
If I had it to do over again I would probably choose differently. I don't know if I would leave anyone out that was in it but there is definitely one person that wasn't in it that I wish was.
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Yes. And I kicked her out of the bridal party and uninvited her to the wedding. BEST decision EVER!
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| Posted 7/9/06 9:47 PM |
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Goldi0218
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
What size is her dress? I wear a 10. I'll do it!
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| Posted 7/9/06 9:57 PM |
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Lucky09
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Posted by prncssrachel
Yes. And I kicked her out of the bridal party and uninvited her to the wedding. BEST decision EVER!
I did the same thing. And Kathleen, I am pretty sure you know who it was
Honestly, unfortunately, you have to deal with them now and hope that they come through for you the day of. Don't let them ruin your special day! I know you are going to be an amazing bride and I can't wait to see your pics!!!! 
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beautyq115
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Posted by MrsNYPDsGirl
Posted by prncssrachel
Yes. And I kicked her out of the bridal party and uninvited her to the wedding. BEST decision EVER!
I did the same thing. And Kathleen, I am pretty sure you know who it was
Honestly, unfortunately, you have to deal with them now and hope that they come through for you the day of. Don't let them ruin your special day! I know you are going to be an amazing bride and I can't wait to see your pics!!!!
Gee..whoever could you mean...I know that Josephine was a real PIA Just kidding Jo
Kar...I am still waiting to see some more pics of you!
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Shorty
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I only asked my sister, his sister, and my best friend of 20 years. I better not have any issues!!!!!!
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evnme
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
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ChickPea
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Posted by prncssrachel
Yes. And I kicked her out of the bridal party and uninvited her to the wedding. BEST decision EVER!
I did the same thing, and she is my future SIL!!
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Redhead
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I didn't regret asking who i did....
But one of the girls just acted like an azz and when i had the deadline to get fitted for the BM dresses...OF COURSE that night she calls me asking to go a few days later...
that was it for me....I said no there was a deadline everyone knew about for at least 3 weeks...AND SHE LIVED THE CLOSEST to the bridal shop...
I had them ordered without her...and she was out.
But i understand how you feel....and it ***** when the people who are supposed to be making this process easier aren't
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Gertyrae
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
I would never have invited one person, but I felt obligated. She ended up being a total b!tch to everyone else and lying to me about things. I hardly ever see or talk to her now so it was totally not worth it.
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Lanabean
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Posted by Shorty
I only asked my sister, his sister, and my best friend of 20 years. I better not have any issues!!!!!!
This is what I did and I had no issues...these 3 women mean the world to me!
Kathleen, don't stress...everything will get done. Even if some people are moving a little slowly...it all comes together!
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nov04libride
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Re: Wedding related...sorry..Does everyone have atleast Bridesmaid..
Posted by LRusso
Posted by Shorty
I only asked my sister, his sister, and my best friend of 20 years. I better not have any issues!!!!!!
This is what I did and I had no issues...these 3 women mean the world to me!
Kathleen, don't stress...everything will get done. Even if some people are moving a little slowly...it all comes together!
That's what I did too!
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