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Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

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babyhopes
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Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

My sister in law was telling me about her lesbian friends...

They wanted children and decided to get prego themselves...NOT sure if this is even possible...but they told her that they took a turkey baister (sp?) and inserted the sperm (donated by a friend) themselves!

She is now prego!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This kinds sounds like an urban legend to me...but is that even possible!!

Posted 10/3/05 10:31 AM
 
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

WHAT!

Posted 10/3/05 10:33 AM
 

babyhopes
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

That's what I said!

Posted 10/3/05 10:36 AM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

that sounds like urban legend to me!! Did they have the guy do it the deed in the baster right before they inserted it?

Sperm doesn't survive that long when it hits the open air, it needs a very moist, warm, sperm friendly environment to survive.

I'm not sure if i believe thatChat Icon

Posted 10/3/05 10:38 AM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Do any of you remember that custody case a few months back where the woman would perform oral sex and save it to be inserted later? She ended up getting pregnant and then sued for child support. It was reported on CNN and Court TV.

Posted 10/3/05 10:40 AM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

No... it is possible!

At my son's daycare last year there was a boy there and his parents were Lesbians. They told the teacher there that they used a turkey baster to get PG using the non PG women's brother's sperm! Talk about gross! Not that they're lesbians (none of my business) but because they used their brother's sperm! Chat Icon Chat Icon If I was a Lesbian, I would of used donor sperm!

Posted 10/3/05 11:41 AM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by shamrock12472

Do any of you remember that custody case a few months back where the woman would perform oral sex and save it to be inserted later? She ended up getting pregnant and then sued for child support. It was reported on CNN and Court TV.



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yet another way people are getting prego and I'm not!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Baby or no baby...I'll wait until it happens the "traditional" way!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/05 11:45 AM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

This thread makes me laugh Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/05 2:11 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

It happens all the time. My best friends are gay men :) I hear the stories ...and have met a few lesbian moms.

There are kits (medically approved) to do insemination at home, it's very similiar to the turkey baster method.

Semen is fine up to about an hour in a cup.

When you get IUI done, you have an hour to bring the sample to the clinic. Once the sperm is washed, it's life span is actually several hours long.

Posted 10/3/05 5:48 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by CaidensMommy

No... it is possible!

At my son's daycare last year there was a boy there and his parents were Lesbians. They told the teacher there that they used a turkey baster to get PG using the non PG women's brother's sperm! Talk about gross! Not that they're lesbians (none of my business) but because they used their brother's sperm! Chat Icon Chat Icon If I was a Lesbian, I would of used donor sperm!



I actually don't find this "gross". Many times, relatives or close friends offer to be egg donors for women who don't produce their own eggs. The same goes for sperm. It's not like sister and brother conceived the child....
A lot of people are not comfortable with anonymous sperm donors. JMI

Posted 10/3/05 5:52 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

YES IT IS POSSIBLE- THAT IS HOW MY SIL GOT PG !!! yes very non romantic but her DH's sperm were "slow" and my lil nephew was conceived bya turkey baster! I dont know the details, and really dont want too Chat Icon but YES it is true- BUT a doctor did it! not them!

Posted 10/3/05 7:33 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by girlygrl33

YES IT IS POSSIBLE- THAT IS HOW MY SIL GOT PG !!! yes very non romantic but her DH's sperm were "slow" and my lil nephew was conceived bya turkey baster! I dont know the details, and really dont want too Chat Icon but YES it is true- BUT a doctor did it! not them!


then a doctor used the proper proceedure and tools...this is called an IUI...very different then doing it yourself at home with a baster. VERY DIFFERENT

Posted 10/3/05 8:13 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by DebG

Posted by girlygrl33

YES IT IS POSSIBLE- THAT IS HOW MY SIL GOT PG !!! yes very non romantic but her DH's sperm were "slow" and my lil nephew was conceived bya turkey baster! I dont know the details, and really dont want too Chat Icon but YES it is true- BUT a doctor did it! not them!


then a doctor used the proper proceedure and tools...this is called an IUI...very different then doing it yourself at home with a baster. VERY DIFFERENT

No she said he used a turkey baster. I hear the story all the time. edited to say- just spoke to her, it was not an IUI- she put the sperm in the baster( they showed her how) but she still insisted that the doctor do it so he inserted it and wallah, she got PG.

Message edited 10/3/2005 8:46:16 PM.

Posted 10/3/05 8:43 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by DebG

Posted by girlygrl33

YES IT IS POSSIBLE- THAT IS HOW MY SIL GOT PG !!! yes very non romantic but her DH's sperm were "slow" and my lil nephew was conceived bya turkey baster! I dont know the details, and really dont want too Chat Icon but YES it is true- BUT a doctor did it! not them!


then a doctor used the proper proceedure and tools...this is called an IUI...very different then doing it yourself at home with a baster. VERY DIFFERENT

No she said he used a turkey baster. I hear the story all the time. edited to say- just spoke to her, it was not an IUI- she put the sperm in the baster( they showed her how) but she still insisted that the doctor do it so he inserted it and wallah, she got PG.


Ok I need more details...the doctor came to her house and used a baster to inseminate her? or did she go to the docs office with the baster full of sperm? Last but not least, who was this doc?

Posted 10/3/05 9:14 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

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Posted by girlygrl33

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Posted by girlygrl33

YES IT IS POSSIBLE- THAT IS HOW MY SIL GOT PG !!! yes very non romantic but her DH's sperm were "slow" and my lil nephew was conceived bya turkey baster! I dont know the details, and really dont want too Chat Icon but YES it is true- BUT a doctor did it! not them!


then a doctor used the proper proceedure and tools...this is called an IUI...very different then doing it yourself at home with a baster. VERY DIFFERENT

No she said he used a turkey baster. I hear the story all the time. edited to say- just spoke to her, it was not an IUI- she put the sperm in the baster( they showed her how) but she still insisted that the doctor do it so he inserted it and wallah, she got PG.


Ok I need more details...the doctor came to her house and used a baster to inseminate her? or did she go to the docs office with the baster full of sperm? Last but not least, who was this doc?

yes the sperm she put in the turkey baster, she went to the doctor and I dont know who the doctor is, dont know his name , why does that matter? thats how she got PG, whats so hard to believe?

Posted 10/3/05 9:17 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by DebG

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by DebG

Posted by girlygrl33

YES IT IS POSSIBLE- THAT IS HOW MY SIL GOT PG !!! yes very non romantic but her DH's sperm were "slow" and my lil nephew was conceived bya turkey baster! I dont know the details, and really dont want too Chat Icon but YES it is true- BUT a doctor did it! not them!


then a doctor used the proper proceedure and tools...this is called an IUI...very different then doing it yourself at home with a baster. VERY DIFFERENT

No she said he used a turkey baster. I hear the story all the time. edited to say- just spoke to her, it was not an IUI- she put the sperm in the baster( they showed her how) but she still insisted that the doctor do it so he inserted it and wallah, she got PG.


Ok I need more details...the doctor came to her house and used a baster to inseminate her? or did she go to the docs office with the baster full of sperm? Last but not least, who was this doc?

yes the sperm she put in the turkey baster, she went to the doctor and I dont know who the doctor is, dont know his name , why does that matter? thats how she got PG, whats so hard to believe?


It doesnt shock you a bit that a trained professional would take something unsterile and random and put it up someone and insert sperm? You honestly see nothing that would make your head tilt about this?

Posted 10/3/05 9:19 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by DebG

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by DebG

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by DebG

Posted by girlygrl33

YES IT IS POSSIBLE- THAT IS HOW MY SIL GOT PG !!! yes very non romantic but her DH's sperm were "slow" and my lil nephew was conceived bya turkey baster! I dont know the details, and really dont want too Chat Icon but YES it is true- BUT a doctor did it! not them!


then a doctor used the proper proceedure and tools...this is called an IUI...very different then doing it yourself at home with a baster. VERY DIFFERENT

No she said he used a turkey baster. I hear the story all the time. edited to say- just spoke to her, it was not an IUI- she put the sperm in the baster( they showed her how) but she still insisted that the doctor do it so he inserted it and wallah, she got PG.


Ok I need more details...the doctor came to her house and used a baster to inseminate her? or did she go to the docs office with the baster full of sperm? Last but not least, who was this doc?

yes the sperm she put in the turkey baster, she went to the doctor and I dont know who the doctor is, dont know his name , why does that matter? thats how she got PG, whats so hard to believe?


It doesnt shock you a bit that a trained professional would take something unsterile and random and put it up someone and insert sperm? You honestly see nothing that would make your head tilt about this?

no, and being in the health field I dont- It was new- sterile and this was her chance to get PG so she went with it. Hell I would do the same thing! Its not like she used it for thanksgiving and just grabbed the first thing she saw when she knew she was gonna O. and listen this is gross but I have heard of a lot of unsterile things that kids do put up there-( my moms an RN , I hear it all) so no this does not surprise me.
edited to say this was also 6 yrs ago. with hippa and all Im sure things have changed, but again it would not surprise me.

Deb I forgot to add it also took her almost 7 yrs to get PG too, at that point I think anything goes and along with prayer you just do anyting humanly possible even if "ethics" are compromised.

Message edited 10/3/2005 9:30:50 PM.

Posted 10/3/05 9:23 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

I've heard about the turkey baster method.

Unlike a man, at least it does not turn over and snore afterwards.

Sorry. Couldn't help myself.

Posted 10/3/05 9:41 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by MrsProfessor

I've heard about the turkey baster method.

Unlike a man, at least it does not turn over and snore afterwards.

Sorry. Couldn't help myself.

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Posted 10/3/05 9:45 PM
 

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Posted by MrsProfessor

I've heard about the turkey baster method.

Unlike a man, at least it does not turn over and snore afterwards.

Sorry. Couldn't help myself.

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Posted 10/4/05 6:36 AM
 

babyhopes
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

See being this has been explained...I have no problem with this method...

I thought it WAS a Thanksgiving day baster!Chat Icon

I agree...if it is medically done...and gets you prego...I would feel fine doing it!

Posted 10/4/05 9:09 AM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by CaidensMommy

No... it is possible!

At my son's daycare last year there was a boy there and his parents were Lesbians. They told the teacher there that they used a turkey baster to get PG using the non PG women's brother's sperm! Talk about gross! Not that they're lesbians (none of my business) but because they used their brother's sperm! Chat Icon Chat Icon If I was a Lesbian, I would of used donor sperm!



What does the child put down on the school applications?
Mothers Name: Nancy
Profession: Secretary
Fathers Profession: Turkey Baster!!!!!

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Posted 10/4/05 4:59 PM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by Wondering

Posted by CaidensMommy

No... it is possible!

At my son's daycare last year there was a boy there and his parents were Lesbians. They told the teacher there that they used a turkey baster to get PG using the non PG women's brother's sperm! Talk about gross! Not that they're lesbians (none of my business) but because they used their brother's sperm! Chat Icon Chat Icon If I was a Lesbian, I would of used donor sperm!



What does the child put down on the school applications?
Mothers Name: Nancy
Profession: Secretary
Fathers Profession: Turkey Baster!!!!!

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That's funny ? That to me is quite offensive ....why would someone make a joke about the conception of a child? It's the love people have for their children not 'how they were conceived'.

Posted 10/5/05 1:04 AM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Posted by redstar

Posted by Wondering

Posted by CaidensMommy

No... it is possible!

At my son's daycare last year there was a boy there and his parents were Lesbians. They told the teacher there that they used a turkey baster to get PG using the non PG women's brother's sperm! Talk about gross! Not that they're lesbians (none of my business) but because they used their brother's sperm! Chat Icon Chat Icon If I was a Lesbian, I would of used donor sperm!



What does the child put down on the school applications?
Mothers Name: Nancy
Profession: Secretary
Fathers Profession: Turkey Baster!!!!!

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That's funny ? That to me is quite offensive ....why would someone make a joke about the conception of a child? It's the love people have for their children not 'how they were conceived'.

Im glad you said it!!!! I saw that earlier tonight and this was my thought exactly-Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/05 1:06 AM
 

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Re: Kind of a sick story! Sorry a little gross also...

Looks like we have an insensitive person on this board, who is trying to 'insult' rather than support.

Posted 10/5/05 1:17 AM
 
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