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Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by baghag

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

If had ever knocked a girl up, there is no way I would let her abort. She'd have the kid, and if she wanted no part, fine.



How on earth would you manage that? I'm not being a smart *** here. I'm really curious how you'd carry that out.



i'd find a way

Posted 3/9/06 12:09 PM
 
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

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Posted by CaptainCharisma424

If had ever knocked a girl up, there is no way I would let her abort. She'd have the kid, and if she wanted no part, fine.


No way you would let her?
again let her?

seems to me you don't have to let her do anything...she can and will



well thankfully, i was never put in that situation

if she did without my consent, she had better pray to God that i never found out



Not trying to be a brat...but what if she did...what would/could you do at that point?
Yell at her?
Threaten her?
For her, a little yelling from you might be just fine.

Posted 3/9/06 12:09 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by dooodles

I have never thought a man who does not want a child and tries to protect himself during intercourse should be held accountable. As said, accidents happen, men get tricked. This is a lifetime, lifechanging decision for both a man and a woman. If a woman decides she wants to continue a pregnancy that wasn't planned, why should the man be held accountable if he was not looking to become a father? Just because a woman decided that she wanted to be a mother? Where is that fair?



I agree 100%. According to the article it sounds as if he was tricked.

Posted 3/9/06 12:11 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by CaptainCharisma424




You raise some good points.

But, let's say, just for argument's sake Chat Icon , that you are successful in your requirement that the girl have the baby instead of aborting.

Let's say that during the pregnancy, there is no indication that the mother's life is in danger (otherwise we end up having a new debate). But, during childbirth, the mother dies.

Do we charge you with murder? After all, the woman wanted to abort and it was because of your decision that she had the child and subsequently died. Shouldn't you be held accountable for all of the repurcussions of your decision?

Posted 3/9/06 12:12 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

i am going to decline further comment, so as not to get everyone all crazy

Posted 3/9/06 12:15 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

i am going to decline further comment, so as not to get everyone all crazy



what if we're already crazy?

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Posted 3/9/06 12:16 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

the you can yell into the wind

cuz the capn is taking a powder

Posted 3/9/06 12:17 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

the you can yell into the wind

cuz the capn is taking a powder



alrighty then...Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:18 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by suvenR

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

i am going to decline further comment, so as not to get everyone all crazy



what if we're already crazy?

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I was going to say, too late - I think we are all already thinking about your last comments.Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:18 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

well, read between the lines and have a nice day

Posted 3/9/06 12:19 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Interesting topic.


Thats all I will say about this. Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:20 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

well, read between the lines and have a nice day



thanks Don, please do the same Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:20 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by DebG

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

well, read between the lines and have a nice day



thanks Don, please do the same Chat Icon



are you flipping me the bird? Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:26 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

i am going to decline further comment, so as not to get everyone all crazy



Let me guess then - because you value LIFE, you'd kill her?Chat Icon

I WISH I had more time at work to get into this one...

Posted 3/9/06 12:27 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

i am going to decline further comment, so as not to get everyone all crazy



Let me guess then - because you value LIFE, you'd kill her?Chat Icon

I WISH I had more time at work to get into this one...



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Well said, Barbara.

Posted 3/9/06 12:28 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

i am going to decline further comment, so as not to get everyone all crazy



Let me guess then - because you value LIFE, you'd kill her?Chat Icon

I WISH I had more time at work to get into this one...



don't put words in my mouth

Posted 3/9/06 12:28 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

like i tell my fh, ultimately its my decision b/c its my body. and i have to live with the choices i make, i don't think he could "make" me change my mind

Posted 3/9/06 12:30 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

guys, i am trying to bow out of this gracefully before it turns personal

Posted 3/9/06 12:31 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

guys, i am trying to bow out of this gracefully before it turns personal



Well said.

Posted 3/9/06 12:32 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by DebG

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

well, read between the lines and have a nice day



thanks Don, please do the same Chat Icon



are you flipping me the bird? Chat Icon



I wasn't, I was just teling you to have a nice day too

Posted 3/9/06 12:32 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

guys, i am trying to bow out of this gracefully before it turns personal



Well said.



cuz then the whole debate will be null, thread'll get pulled

who needs it

you feel your way
i feel mine

for the record, i don't kill -- i never used that word. The topic makes me hot, so if I gave that impression, I apologize.

Posted 3/9/06 12:36 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

for the record, i don't kill -- i never used that word. The topic makes me hot, so if I gave that impression, I apologize.


don't apologize for being a Hottie! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:37 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

Don:

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Posted 3/9/06 12:37 PM
 

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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

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Don:




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Posted 3/9/06 12:38 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men Want Say in Unplanned Pregnancy

i've seen too many threads disintegrate and i saw that it was going down that road

time to put the brakes on

Posted 3/9/06 12:38 PM
 
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