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CathyB

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Re: I don;t know what to do

Solely: Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you. Hope all is well and you are feeling a little better. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/06 11:27 AM
 
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MommyofG
just the girls

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Janice

Re: I don;t know what to do

My bestfriend is in this situation her girls are 14 months apart, and I see her go crazy from time to time but I also see the love and joy they bring to her too. She and her DH are struggling, where he took on a pt job but they are doing it and I know you can too.

There is always a light at the end of a tunnel. This really is a blessing.

My SIL was in the exact same predicament. Her son was 2 and they were struggling here in NY, then she got PG, not trying either was truly a blessing since she had problems getting PG the first time around, so they moved to FL, yes she misses the family but like she says, if she stayed here she couldnt afford to stay home with them and would still be struggling even with her and her DH's pay, and at least where they are, the children have many more opportunites to do things.

Dont worry things will work out. Many Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you!!!

Posted 2/6/06 3:03 PM
 

munchkinbugs
My little loves!

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Lisa

Re: I don;t know what to do

This is a decision we can't help you with. I hope you are able to follow your heart with whatever path you choose.

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Posted 2/6/06 4:13 PM
 

paulandles912
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Re: I don;t know what to do

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Posted 2/8/06 1:56 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

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Christine

Re: I don;t know what to do

Posted by nferrandi

The right decision for you, may not be the right decision for other people. Talk to your DH and figure out how you both feel about having another baby. If it's not something you think you can handle, financially or otherwise, than there's no shame in terminating. You have to do what's best for you and the family you already have. I know it's a tough decision, and I wish you strenth in whatever you decide to do. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I couldn't have said it better myself- Hang in thereChat Icon

Posted 2/8/06 2:18 PM
 

mommy2bella
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Kelly

Re: I don;t know what to do

Message edited 12/20/2011 6:04:04 PM.

Posted 2/10/06 3:30 PM
 

dottiemchugh
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Re: I don;t know what to do

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Posted 2/11/06 6:17 PM
 

WoodIAm
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Re: I don;t know what to do

I wish I had some advice. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/06 4:11 PM
 

MommyofG
just the girls

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Janice

Re: I don;t know what to do

How are you?

Posted 2/12/06 7:29 PM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

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Kristin

Re: I don;t know what to do

Posted by nferrandi

The right decision for you, may not be the right decision for other people. Talk to your DH and figure out how you both feel about having another baby. If it's not something you think you can handle, financially or otherwise, than there's no shame in terminating. You have to do what's best for you and the family you already have. I know it's a tough decision, and I wish you strenth in whatever you decide to do. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Very well put. I noticed you haven't posted or updated at all. I hope everything is well and you and your DH were able to come up with the best decision for both of you Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/06 8:18 PM
 

dee7772
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Posted 2/12/06 8:23 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Posted 2/13/06 2:17 PM
 

MrsS1126
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Posted 2/24/06 9:16 AM
 

-Laurie-
Hi!

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Re: I don;t know what to do

My son is 9 months and their is a chance I might be 3 weeks pregnant right now which would be totally unplanned. Our plan was to TTC when our son turned 2 but honestly the idea of being pregnant right now has me so happy. Now naturally if I get a BFP I'll probably freak out a bit. Please feel free to FM me if you see that I make an annoucement. We can go through this together :)Chat Icon

Posted 2/24/06 8:23 PM
 

megsmom
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Posted 2/24/06 11:19 PM
 

skew
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Posted 2/27/06 3:47 PM
 

jpsgirl
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Deb

Re: I don;t know what to do

I was overwhelmed also when I found out I was pregnant when Angela was 10 months old. When she was 5 months old, I also got pregnant, and was completely distraught that I was not ready and couldn't handle it. At 9 weeks I miscarried and I was devestated. We just had our second daughter the week before angela turned 18 months. It is going much better than I ever thought, and we are dealing with it day by day. Good luck whatever you decide.

Posted 3/2/06 2:11 PM
 

MommyofG
just the girls

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Janice

Re: I don;t know what to do

has anyone heard from her? I hope she is okChat Icon

Posted 3/2/06 3:20 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: I don;t know what to do

Solely - Any updates?

We hope you are okay.

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Posted 3/3/06 11:20 AM
 

reggie
I love my boys!!

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Re: I don;t know what to do

Posted by Diane

Posted by Marcie

I can understand how you feel so overwhelmed, but I would take it as a blessing.

You can always find a way of things working out, whether it be financial or what have you. Chat Icon Chat Icon




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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon . Just remember everything happens for a reason.

Posted 3/4/06 2:06 PM
 

samanthasmom
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Tammy

Re: I don;t know what to do

Posted by Diane

Posted by Marcie

I can understand how you feel so overwhelmed, but I would take it as a blessing.

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Posted 3/4/06 11:56 PM
 

solelyconfused
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Re: I don;t know what to do

thank you all so much for your kind words.
I'm sorry i hadn't come back sooner but I was dealing with so many things.

Unfortunately, I lost the baby.
all I can say is that maybe it wasn't meant to be but I can't help but feel guilty.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/06 10:43 PM
 

Tany
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Tania

Re: I don;t know what to do

I'm sorry to hear Solely.
I hope things are going better now.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/06 10:59 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: I don;t know what to do

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Posted 4/4/06 11:08 PM
 

My2Boys
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Re: I don;t know what to do

So very sorry. Everything happens for a reason, try not to feel guilty. Enjoy your little one and I hope you're blessed again when you're ready.

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Posted 4/4/06 11:16 PM
 
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