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mrswask
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When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
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Redhead
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by mrswask
I'm talking major...
do you ever just "let it go" and not discuss it?
no....
major fights are always talked about until some sort of agreement is met some how
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MrsPornStar
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Sometimes I try to. However, DH will not ever just let it go. He always wants to talk about it, usually as it's happening. I'm the type of person that needs some time to think about what's going on and what I want to say so that I don't just blurt out hurtful things.
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FeliciaDP
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
We might let it go for a few days .. but we always revisit the topic and try to resolve it, or else there is always that "gap" between us 
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mrswask
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by FeliciaDP
We might let it go for a few days .. but we always revisit the topic and try to resolve it, or else there is always that "gap" between us
Yeah - that's how I'm feeling - there's this "gap" right now - but I think we needed to let it go for a bit - happened two days ago!
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| Posted 5/11/06 9:20 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
May take some time but we always talk it out
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BabyAvocado
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by Redhead
Posted by mrswask
I'm talking major...
do you ever just "let it go" and not discuss it?
no....
major fights are always talked about until some sort of agreement is met some how
Same here
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Tany
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
we let it go for a few hours but usually try to resolve it.
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momAGAIN
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by FeliciaDP
We might let it go for a few days .. but we always revisit the topic and try to resolve it, or else there is always that "gap" between us
same here
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MissJones
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by hmpena
Sometimes I try to. However, DH will not ever just let it go. He always wants to talk about it, usually as it's happening. I'm the type of person that needs some time to think about what's going on and what I want to say so that I don't just blurt out hurtful things.
Ditto!
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| Posted 5/11/06 9:34 PM |
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Jenziba
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
We cool off for a while (maybe even a few days) and then talk it over.
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| Posted 5/11/06 9:52 PM |
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neenie
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by fjbaby
We cool off for a while (maybe even a few days) and then talk it over.
ditto
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kms717
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
We've only had one MAJOR fight and it last for days until we worked it out. Other than that we always argue of money which is BS and we usually let it go. If it's something that could be really damaging to your marriage you have to talk it out or it'll fester.
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karacg
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
No -- I try to give the silent treatment but it is impossible for me. I MUST express myself. So I tell him off, he apologizes (cuz he is alwasy the one wrong, not me  ) and then we make up.
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Diana1215
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
I usually can't let things go so it is discussed at some point. But sometimes it does take a few days to clear the air.
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sunny
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Sometimes- because dh will spend days pretending there is nothing wrong. I hate it, we will have a big blow out and he'll call me later and talk like it never happened.
So, it depends on if my anger fades or not.
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usuk2004
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Funny, but lately I feel like things are changing regarding the way we argue. Now, when we have a fight, we'll talk about it for a little bit, but usually towards the end we're just going around in circles, so we agree to disagree and just let it go. In the past, I would hold out until he gave in, but it's just not worth it anymore...either we've reached a milestone of maturity in our marriage, or we've just worn each other down! 
Message edited 5/12/2006 6:13:07 AM.
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MsMBV
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by mrswask
I'm talking major...
do you ever just "let it go" and not discuss it?
Never, it is not in my nature to be that passive about things.
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SoinLove
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Nope. We always go into a deep discussion afterwards until we feel the issue is resolved.
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Diane
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by SoinLove
Nope. We always go into a deep discussion afterwards until we feel the issue is resolved.
same here
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GenLCSW
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
we discuss it when we both are calm
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dooodles
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by FeliciaDP
We might let it go for a few days .. but we always revisit the topic and try to resolve it, or else there is always that "gap" between us
Us too. We usually just take some time to cool tempers if they are flared, but we always discuss it once things have cooled down and we can talk like rational adults
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sweetpea0717
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
I can't let it go...but then DH always lightens the mood and starts making jokes to the point where I end up laughing about it too. We can then talk about it and come to a resolution.
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IluvBo
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by Redhead
Posted by mrswask
I'm talking major...
do you ever just "let it go" and not discuss it?
no....
major fights are always talked about until some sort of agreement is met some how
Same here!
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Kathy116
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Re: When You Have a Big Fight With DH...
Posted by mrswask
I'm talking major...
do you ever just "let it go" and not discuss it?
He would if I'd let it go, but I don't; I need to discuss it for closure, and it always brings us together (after the anger or hurt...when we are both calm...that's when we discuss it).
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