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While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
I need some help! I am going to my college reunion next weekend (8 hours away) and DH is coming with me. Ive heard from a few people that my ex will be in town one of the nights. I am sure he will be where the rest of the alumni are......now this is the guy that I thought I was going to marry - but he broke my heart. I havent seen him since 1999. How do I act? Do I introduce DH to him? Do I ignore him?? UGH I am freaked out about them being in the same room together!
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Posted 9/13/05 1:08 PM |
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Shelly
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
If you see him, I would walk over and say hi and introduce DH. Let him see how you got over him, moved on and found somone amazing.
If it was me, the anxiety of knowing he was around and trying to avoid him would kill me more than anything else.
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Posted 9/13/05 1:11 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
I would def. walk over and say hello & make small talk. If DH is there w/ you then intorduce him. I know it's nerve racking, but you're married now & have moved on.
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Posted 9/13/05 1:18 PM |
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
I think I would probably pretend he wasnt there and see if he came up to me. I am a chicken in situations like that especially if DH was going to get jealous and angry. But I would warn DH that this all might happen to see his take on it.
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Posted 9/13/05 1:20 PM |
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FelAndJon
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
If you are in the same immediate area, say hello, introduce your handsome DH then move on. If you avoid him, it will look too deliberate, like you are afraid to see him. Don't go chasing him around the room either, though He will see how fabulous you look and that you have gotten over him. You might be nervous inside, but he never needs to know that
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Posted 9/13/05 1:23 PM |
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baghag
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
Posted by Shellyesq
If you see him, I would walk over and say hi and introduce DH. Let him see how you got over him, moved on and found somone amazing.
If it was me, the anxiety of knowing he was around and trying to avoid him would kill me more than anything else.
I agree!
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Posted 9/13/05 1:35 PM |
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IrishTracy
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
I agree
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Posted 9/13/05 5:06 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
Posted by Shellyesq
If you see him, I would walk over and say hi and introduce DH. Let him see how you got over him, moved on and found somone amazing.
If it was me, the anxiety of knowing he was around and trying to avoid him would kill me more than anything else.
i agree!
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Posted 9/13/05 5:07 PM |
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Jennifer
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
I would not go out of my way to go up to him. If he comes up to you than I would definitely introduce him. His loss!
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Posted 9/13/05 5:20 PM |
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Bri
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Re: While we are on the sex with other people topic.....
I would probably just ignore them, but that is just me.
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Posted 9/13/05 6:18 PM |
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