I selected a title and asked my editor to clarify the meaning, because it had two possible meanings.

She said for me to write it for both meanings, and explain that it had both.

I did that. Now, I just get an email (about a month later) asking for a rewrite because it's only supposed to be one of the meanings.

Do I mention that she is the one who told me to write it both ways? How do I say it without being rude?