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KartveliT
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wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
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Posted 4/15/09 11:03 PM  |
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twinkletoes807
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
What happened?
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:06 PM |
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KartveliT
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by twinkletoes807
What happened?
it was a show about sex offenders and predators that hunt for kids online Also at some point the guest(former sergeant or somebody) said that sometimes when they do search warrants they find random pics of infants and 2-3 yrs old that are downloaded from different websites, like facebook and myspace for their own " sexual gratification"
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karacg
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Isn't that why you can choose who can see your pics on FB? Although it's true you just never know...
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:17 PM |
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KartveliT
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by karacg
Isn't that why you can choose who can see your pics on FB? Although it's true you just never know...
you really never do , it's so scary. I think anyone can copy them, plus if you are in the same network with someone they can still see your profile and pics(I think)
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:20 PM |
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LadyH
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
there are some real animals out there.
They don't even get that much time in prison. It just seems like you can't rehabiliate those kind of people.
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:23 PM |
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Goobster
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
That's why as bad as I want to show my DD to everyone here, I just can't do it. I would hate for anyone I "dont" want to see pics seeing them. 
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:29 PM |
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hbugal
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
You can control who sees what on FB. You just need to check your settings....
I refuse to let a couple of sickos control who and what I am.
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:32 PM |
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KartveliT
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by Goobster
That's why as bad as I want to show my DD to everyone here, I just can't do it. I would hate for anyone I "dont" want to see pics seeing them.
That's why I never post pics on here or anywhere else other than FB, now I'm having second thoughts about that too
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:34 PM |
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justthe4ofus
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Same for me too. That's why I never really posted pictures of my daughter and my son well now that he is almost a year I have stopped posting pictures of him.
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LightUpOurLife
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
FB has settings so you can choose exactly who can see it and who can't. FB is a lot safer than here in so many ways.
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Palebride
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by hbugal
I refuse to let a couple of sickos control who and what I am.
exactly how I feel.
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| Posted 4/15/09 11:50 PM |
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wannabemom
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by tatuka
Posted by karacg
Isn't that why you can choose who can see your pics on FB? Although it's true you just never know...
you really never do , it's so scary. I think anyone can copy them, plus if you are in the same network with someone they can still see your profile and pics(I think)
not true... you can set the photos to be only seen by friends... (the option you're mentioning is seen by friends of friends)
I have pics on facebook, but only friends have access... and my friend list is under 30 people... it's safe 
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BaroqueMama
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Quite honestly, this is not something that worries me. I just can't live my life worrying that some sicko MIGHT be getting off over a picture of my daughter. Don't get me wrong, it would be horrible, but I just don't live my life worrying about that because when it comes down to it, that poses no threat to my daughter. Flame away if you'd like, but that's how I feel. My cousin was molested by her own father, as are many children in this world. That doesn't mean that I will try to protect my daughter from her own father, does it? I don't know, I do the best I can to keep my child safe in the real world right now, beyond that, I don't worry. Now, when she gets to be older and uses the internet herself, that's a whole new ball game.
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ckdk
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by lehcar
Quite honestly, this is not something that worries me. I just can't live my life worrying that some sicko MIGHT be getting off over a picture of my daughter. Don't get me wrong, it would be horrible, but I just don't live my life worrying about that because when it comes down to it, that poses no threat to my daughter. Flame away if you'd like, but that's how I feel. My cousin was molested by her own father, as are many children in this world. That doesn't mean that I will try to protect my daughter from her own father, does it? I don't know, I do the best I can to keep my child safe in the real world right now, beyond that, I don't worry. Now, when she gets to be older and uses the internet herself, that's a whole new ball game.
I was thinking along the same lines... Of course I don't want anyone using any pics of my children obviously... but I don't think it puts them into any more danger than if some perv didn't have their pics...
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yankinmanc
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by hbugal
You can control who sees what on FB. You just need to check your settings....
I refuse to let a couple of sickos control who and what I am.
I'm with you on that one! and you too Rachel, I just think its not worth worrying about. There are too many risks in my own backyard to worry about (traffic, teenage binge drinking and drugs etc)
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KartveliT
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by wannabemom
Posted by tatuka
Posted by karacg
Isn't that why you can choose who can see your pics on FB? Although it's true you just never know...
you really never do , it's so scary. I think anyone can copy them, plus if you are in the same network with someone they can still see your profile and pics(I think)
not true... you can set the photos to be only seen by friends... (the option you're mentioning is seen by friends of friends)
I have pics on facebook, but only friends have access... and my friend list is under 30 people... it's safe
I have very few friends on there as well and just friends can see it. I wasn't sure about the network thing , that's why I said "I think". But thanks for clarifying it 
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KartveliT
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by lehcar
Quite honestly, this is not something that worries me. I just can't live my life worrying that some sicko MIGHT be getting off over a picture of my daughter. Don't get me wrong, it would be horrible, but I just don't live my life worrying about that because when it comes down to it, that poses no threat to my daughter. Flame away if you'd like, but that's how I feel.
Oh no , I know exactly what you mean, I know not posting pics won't keep my DD safe. I just worry anyway, can't help it, plus after I saw yesterday's Oprah I was really in shock. It was just so sad and so scary
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BaroqueMama
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by tatuka
Posted by lehcar
Quite honestly, this is not something that worries me. I just can't live my life worrying that some sicko MIGHT be getting off over a picture of my daughter. Don't get me wrong, it would be horrible, but I just don't live my life worrying about that because when it comes down to it, that poses no threat to my daughter. Flame away if you'd like, but that's how I feel.
Oh no , I know exactly what you mean, I know not posting pics won't keep my DD safe. I just worry anyway, can't help it, plus after I saw yesterday's Oprah I was really in shock. It was just so sad and so scary
 It's definitely upsetting, that I can absolutely agree with
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by Palebride
Posted by hbugal
I refuse to let a couple of sickos control who and what I am.
exactly how I feel.
ITA! I post pics on here and FB and will not stop. This really isn't any new development.
On FB you choose who can look at your pictures.
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Faithx2
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by BJandDan
FB has settings so you can choose exactly who can see it and who can't. FB is a lot safer than here in so many ways.
ITA!
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JenandMikey
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by OneOfEach
Posted by BJandDan
FB has settings so you can choose exactly who can see it and who can't. FB is a lot safer than here in so many ways.
ITA!
ita...thats why the only pic of dd that is on lif is my avatar...i stopped posting pics on here and deleted any pics off my profile, i only post pics on fb with only friends seeing them
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rojerono
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by hbugal
You can control who sees what on FB. You just need to check your settings....
I refuse to let a couple of sickos control who and what I am.
I feel the same.
There are sickos everywhere. Unfortunately they don't need pics of your kid to feed their fantasy. I could be worried that the guy in the mall looking at his phone might actually have been snapping a pic of my son with it to 'use' later. Or someone in the bleachers at the game is not really interested in watching the kids play football.. but is memorizing what they see to recall for their own gratification later. I can't determine the motivations of every person that will look at my children during the course of their life - but I can make sure that they are informed and watched as well as humanly possible. And I can pray.
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dm24angel
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by lehcar
Quite honestly, this is not something that worries me. I just can't live my life worrying that some sicko MIGHT be getting off over a picture of my daughter. Don't get me wrong, it would be horrible, but I just don't live my life worrying about that because when it comes down to it, that poses no threat to my daughter. Flame away if you'd like, but that's how I feel. My cousin was molested by her own father, as are many children in this world. That doesn't mean that I will try to protect my daughter from her own father, does it? I don't know, I do the best I can to keep my child safe in the real world right now, beyond that, I don't worry. Now, when she gets to be older and uses the internet herself, that's a whole new ball game.
I kinda feel the same way....I feel like I can limit my risks and his risks as much as I can, but Life is a bunch of what if's and this is one I just choose to be more lenient about, plain and simple.
But like you, once he CAN go online himself, I will be stricter.
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eroxgirl
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Re: wow after seeing today's Oprah, I feel like taking down all of DD's pics
Posted by lehcar
Quite honestly, this is not something that worries me. I just can't live my life worrying that some sicko MIGHT be getting off over a picture of my daughter. Don't get me wrong, it would be horrible, but I just don't live my life worrying about that because when it comes down to it, that poses no threat to my daughter. Flame away if you'd like, but that's how I feel. My cousin was molested by her own father, as are many children in this world. That doesn't mean that I will try to protect my daughter from her own father, does it? I don't know, I do the best I can to keep my child safe in the real world right now, beyond that, I don't worry. Now, when she gets to be older and uses the internet herself, that's a whole new ball game.
I could have written this word for word... I can not worry about sick people *looking* at a picture.
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