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noname1
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Message edited 5/17/2009 8:14:09 PM.
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Posted 4/6/06 10:33 PM  |
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Redhead
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Jennifer
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Re: MIL issues
i just tell him honestly how i feel...
but if i caused a brawl...well i don't think i would talk about it just yet...
I thinki would give it a day or two to calm down...but it is hard to tell from your post
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| Posted 4/6/06 10:37 PM |
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Shanti
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Re: MIL issues
I have had a tough time with this. I try to remember that if someone were to talk negatively about my mom, I would be hurt. Sometimes I think I have said things to DH about his mom that may have hurt him, he gets sensitive about it. I try to be honest without being mean and try not to talk about it when I am at my MADDEST!
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| Posted 4/6/06 10:40 PM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: MIL issues
My DH is very sensitive about his parents. In the end, he usually will come to see my point of view when I offer a non-commital "I think so-so is hurt. I know your mother would never mean anything by xyz" and then he can continue it on his own. If I say anything like "I was really surprised that your mother xyz (ok was a complete insensitive b1tch---I'm trying to be nice but have my own MIL issues at times)", he defends her & we argue.
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| Posted 4/6/06 10:41 PM |
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