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mrswask
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Posted by Redhead
sometimes i think these boards foster a false sense of reality...
that marraige is great, we are all doing great and have wonerful lives...
we all have our highs and lows...And i am glad to see more people posting about their lows....
Make people feel less alone when they are going through difficult times
Jenn - very true and well said!!
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Posted by Redhead
sometimes i think these boards foster a false sense of reality...
that marraige is great, we are all doing great and have wonerful lives...
we all have our highs and lows...And i am glad to see more people posting about their lows....
Make people feel less alone when they are going through difficult times
I totally agree with this. it's not that you like to see that others are having a hard time, but it proves that life isn't perfect for anyone.
I always try to remember that if someone's life sounds too good to be true, it usually is
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
I feel ya. Anyone that says they never fight and their marriage is perfect is lying!!!!!!
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christy
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Don't worry, it will pick up again.
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baghag
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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Pumpkin
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Posted by Redhead
sometimes i think these boards foster a false sense of reality...
that marraige is great, we are all doing great and have wonerful lives...
we all have our highs and lows...And i am glad to see more people posting about their lows....
Make people feel less alone when they are going through difficult times
Thank you! you know I felt this overwhelming sense of guilt because DH and I had it real rough in the beginning. We were not the perfect newlyweds at all. I felt horrible because everyone else seemed so happy. We are getting through it and things are getting better. Everyone goes through the bad and good at all stages I guess.
Message edited 4/2/2006 8:30:49 AM.
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MissJones
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Posted by Redhead
sometimes i think these boards foster a false sense of reality...
that marraige is great, we are all doing great and have wonerful lives...
we all have our highs and lows...And i am glad to see more people posting about their lows....
Make people feel less alone when they are going through difficult times
I agree completely! All people share are the great things in life, which is wonderful, but it kind of imposes on those who aren't doing so great that there must be something wrong. In reality, EVERY couple goes through rough patches, be it every weekend or every month or every winter. There was a time when I would avoid DH on Fridays because we would fight every Friday. Why? Who knows. But anyway, when you hear that OTHERS are going through times in their marriages, then it's kind of like reassurance that it comes with the territory.
Nancy, hang in there!
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Posted by Redhead
sometimes i think these boards foster a false sense of reality...
that marraige is great, we are all doing great and have wonerful lives...
we all have our highs and lows...And i am glad to see more people posting about their lows....
Make people feel less alone when they are going through difficult times
sooooo true.
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SoinLove
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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CaseyGirl
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
i'm sorry....i'm sure we've all been there....and it too shall pass
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BaroqueMama
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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TheInfamousOTG
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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Diane
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Im sorry...I hope things get better
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Sassyz75
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
if we didn't have highs & lows we'd be stepford wives.
it will pass
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reggie
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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luvsbob4603
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
we all go through the Highs and lows or marriage sometimes Dh and I fight alot about money but at the end it all works out. here are some hugs for you.
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AndreaLMT
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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HarleyGirlFLA
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Posted by Redhead
Posted by Princessmaris
Ya know-everytime things are really great (and have been for awhile... like havent fought in awhile)
Im like... Oh,no.... a doozy will be here in a month or so...and sure enough...
It happens, and each time... I learn something from it, and our relationship is that much better!
*The sun will come out tomorrow, tomorrow***
YUP! i am the same way
but in turn when going through a rough time...i am also thinking...AHHHHHHHH i am in for some great times ahead
Same here
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calendargrl
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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Blu-ize
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
Hang in there. It will get better. It doesn't mean that you are a failure or anything like that. It's normal.
For me, married 8 years, we've been through lots of ups and downs.
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Shanti
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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steph4777
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
We all go though rough times in our relationship. Just remember "This too shall pass".
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lvdolphins
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
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CupCake05
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Re: you know how marriage has highs and lows?
We all go though rough times in our relationship. Just remember "This too shall pass". steph4777
Couldn't have been said any better.
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