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officiallyamrs
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/05 421 total posts
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Melissa
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dealing with divorce...
Message edited 3/24/2008 1:42:41 PM.
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bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??
Member since 6/05 15758 total posts
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Re: dealing with divorce...
i don't know anything about divorce. but here's some 
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| Posted 8/27/06 4:08 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Re: dealing with divorce...
there are a few wonderful girls that have gotten divorces on the boards
i bet they would be of great help to you..
maybe post on the relationship board for more people to see
Message edited 8/27/2006 4:42:46 PM.
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I have no advice... just want to give you some 
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| Posted 8/27/06 5:03 PM |
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puppylove
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/05 561 total posts
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Summer
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I'm sorry I don't have any advice to give, except that with as with all things it gets easier over time. Although you may always have a sadness about it, you will be alright.
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| Posted 8/27/06 6:38 PM |
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Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!
Member since 5/05 22334 total posts
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Professional Aunts No Kids
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Re: dealing with divorce...
Just wanted to give you some of these...
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| Posted 8/27/06 9:12 PM |
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Phyl
R.I.P. Sweet Mia ♥
Member since 5/06 28918 total posts
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The Mystical Azzhorse! ™
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Re: dealing with divorce...
feel free to FM me if you want to talk
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| Posted 8/27/06 9:54 PM |
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Arissa444
Lovin my Little guy :)
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I don't have any divorce advice for you.....gone through two broken engagements and in a way I suppose that's similar....it does get easier...I can say that.....but as far as divorce goes, I can't help much....I can offer you plenty of We are all here for you if you need a lending hand/ear/talk, etc. Good luck with every thing and hang in there 
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| Posted 8/27/06 11:25 PM |
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Jenziba
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Member since 5/05 6265 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I'll bet it gets easier...try to hang in there and remember we're always here to listen...
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MrsS2005
Mom of 3
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B
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Re: dealing with divorce...
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janet
WITH LOVE MY ANGEL MISS YOU!!!
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janet
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Re: dealing with divorce...
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DonnaJoe708
Hello
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this. I went through a divorce and yes, it does get easier. If you want to talk, feel free to FM me.
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| Posted 8/28/06 10:53 AM |
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anjerandunder
Positive thoughts worked!!!
Member since 6/06 1909 total posts
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J
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Re: dealing with divorce...
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ssbride05
:-)
Member since 5/05 2654 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I am sorry to hear about your situation. I am sure things will get easier as time goes on!
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robynfs
12/6/10!!
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I am a survivor!!
It gets easier I promise.. You need time to heal and take care of yourself. Take one day at a time and be good to yourself...allow yourself to have the bad days because tomorrow will be better. Lean on your friends and family...they want to be there.
Time does heal...it doesnt go away...but with time the pain will lessen.
FM anytime...I know how hard this time is.
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| Posted 8/28/06 1:57 PM |
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Ellie
LIF Adolescent
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Re: dealing with divorce...
Yes, it does get easier! Back in 1999 I got divorced. I remember when my ex and I finally decided to get a divorce, I knew in my heart it was absolutely the right thing to do (and the best thing I could do for myself). But it was still hard. It did get easier as time went on. I remember waking up some mornings and just being like UGH - I can't believe this is happening to me! and other mornings I would wake up and know this was the best thing for me!!
It does get easier. My only advice is to keep busy, that way you don't have enough time to dwell on anything!! And keep your head up! I was always worried about the stigma of divorce - well whatever, I had to better my life. Send an FM if you want to talk. Good Luck to you!!
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ggt08
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I also got a divorce-( actually a state annulment.) even thought it was my decision, It was one of the most difficult times of my life. Thanks to my family, friends and the support from my friends on here, I got through it. Feel free to fm me at any time.
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domsmom52704
Family is everything!!!
Member since 5/05 1989 total posts
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Jess
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I too went through a divorce. Actually, I am still legally separated. We just went last week to have the final papers drawn up. It was extremely hard in the beginning. I went through a storm of emotions - one minute I was up and other I was down. I questioned myself over and over again. Is this right, is it wrong (all the while I knew it was the right thing for us and it was my choice to get divorced. It was still one of the most painful and hard things I have ever been through in my life. It will take some time but you will heal and it will get easier.
Like the other girls said...If you ever want or need to chat, FM me.
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I alos went through a divorce, back in 1998, and I can tell you with 100% certainty that it DOES get better.
The beginning is really just waves of emotions, and questioning every decision. The more time that passes, the easier it becomes.
PLEASE feel free to FM me if you need to talk
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officiallyamrs
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/05 421 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: dealing with divorce...
Message edited 3/24/2008 1:43:00 PM.
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Sneezy
Thankful for my miracle!
Member since 5/05 1939 total posts
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Jen
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Re: dealing with divorce...
DH went through it the year before we met. I know that it hurt him for a LONG time, but the pain did lessen and he moved on with his life.
We are very happily married and he still says that he can't believe that after all he went through, that he was lucky enough to end up where we are.
You will learn from this experience and be a better person for it. I am happy for every tear DH shed in the past, because it helped to shape the man he is now. I wouldn't change a thing about him and I know that his past makes him appreciate me even more.
Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You might be Mighty Mouse by the time you get through this, but you WILL get through it.
Good luck!!!!!
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married53005
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/06 636 total posts
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ERIN
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Re: dealing with divorce...
I THINK THAT MY HUSBAND AND I ARE ON THE WAY TO ONE. AND IT WAS ONE OF THE MOST DIFFICULT THINGS I HAVE EVER BEEN THROUGH. I AM BEING GUILTED INTO THINKING THAT I AM BREAKING MY FAMILY EVEN THOUGH MY HUSBAND IS A HORRIBLE VERBAL AND MENTAL ABUSER, AND SOMETIMES PHYSICAL. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH WHAT I AM GOING THROUGH. I AM TRYING TO STAY STRONG FOR MY TWO BOYS BUT IT IS VERY VERY HARD. IF YOU'D LIKE TO TALK PLEASE FM ME I AM IN NEED OF THAT ALSO..
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Re: dealing with divorce...
no advice, just lots of
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Re: dealing with divorce...
Divorce is messy! I have been divorced for years now, remarried... blended family with a bio daughter together and we are adopting now. In the beginning, some days are bad and some are good. As time goes on, the bad are fewer and the good days are more frequent. If there were one thing I could change about my divorce, I wouldn't get so bitter. I wouldn't have fought so hard, my pride has caused me much more pain than I needed to deal with. Ending a marriage is a great loss, you need to grieve it so you can heal and be healthy. Everyone DESERVES to be happy and share their life with someone that loves and repects them!!!! If you ever need to vent, FM me.
Heres hoping your tomorrow is better than today 
Robin
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allgrownup
LIF Zygote
Member since 8/06 15 total posts
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Re: dealing with divorce...
it's like pulling off a band-aid, it's going to hurt for a while, but it will go away soon.
each time i dumped a guy in high school i would always be miserable...even though it was my idea...losing someone hurts no matter how...in time, this wound will heal.
until it does, feel free to cry, scream and let it out to us all.
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