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NoStressMom
My Heart and Soul
Member since 5/05 11122 total posts
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D
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Re: Would you be upset if...
yes to both!!
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Posted 5/13/05 11:26 AM  |
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LFitzy79
can hardly wait
Member since 5/05 2650 total posts
Name:
Lauren
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Re: Would you be upset if...
OMG yes, I would really be pissy
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| Posted 5/13/05 11:28 AM |
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Catzmeow
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/05 604 total posts
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Jessica
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Re: Would you be upset if...
I would probably have a talk with him first to find out his reasoning. I personally think that when you're married you should make your big financial decisions together. But let's say I was in a clothing store and would get a discount if I opened up a credit card that I would probably seldomly use - would I call my DH first to ask...probably not. As for the secondary address - I don't really understand why you would even need to give a secondary address. Again, I would suggest just talking with him. Best of luck! 
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| Posted 5/13/05 12:04 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Would you be upset if...
DEFINATELY YES! 
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| Posted 5/13/05 12:22 PM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
Member since 5/05 16555 total posts
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: Would you be upset if...
yes i would.
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| Posted 5/13/05 12:28 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
Name:
Jackie
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Re: Would you be upset if...
I wouldn't care if he applied for a credit card w/o asking me. I've applied for store credit cards when he wasn't there. I would care if he listed his parents address as his second address.
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| Posted 5/13/05 12:29 PM |
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MsMBV
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Member since 5/05 28602 total posts
Name:
Me
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Re: Would you be upset if...
Oh yes & hell to pay yes
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| Posted 5/13/05 12:31 PM |
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ckdk
My girls
Member since 5/05 7027 total posts
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Cheryl
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Re: Would you be upset if...
what is a secondary address used for? I would probably put my parents too, where else? work?
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| Posted 5/13/05 1:32 PM |
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-Lisa-
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Member since 5/05 6530 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Would you be upset if...
No and no
He's a big boy and can make those decisions himself. Can't imagine why he'd want another credit card but I don't care that he opened one without me.
-if he's running up balances on his other cards and needs more credit - its a whole different story and I'd be pissed. But we don't carry any balances on our cards.
As for the second address, I don't really understand what other address he could have used?
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| Posted 5/13/05 1:48 PM |
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eroxgirl
My Loves
Member since 5/05 15697 total posts
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Rebecca
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Re: Would you be upset if...
I would be livid! In our house all financial decisions are made together and our objective is to have as little credit card debt as possible...so getting another credit card without telling me would be a big no no!
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| Posted 5/13/05 1:51 PM |
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TAD
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 1199 total posts
Name:
Terri
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Re: Would you be upset if...
I would be pi$$ed at him but i want him to explain it as soon and as fast as he could to calm me down.
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| Posted 5/13/05 1:53 PM |
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nsgraham
LIF Infant
Member since 5/05 66 total posts
Name:
Nadine
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Re: Would you be upset if...
1) Not really, although I'd be confused, since DH is horrible with money (just TERRIBLE), and I guess if we were saving up for something where our credit reports mattered I'd want to know why and if it was necessary
2) What was the secondary address for? Was it required for the card? Was it an emergency or reference address? I wouldn't have a problem with that. If it was his main address though, that would be another issue.
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| Posted 5/13/05 2:44 PM |
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Jen110704
LIF Zygote
Member since 5/05 36 total posts
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Re: Would you be upset if...
I would be really upset. I would feel that he's trying to keep something from me, especially since he hasn't lived home in over 12 years.
He'd definitely have some explaing to do.
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| Posted 5/13/05 2:48 PM |
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DramaQueen
LIF Infant
Member since 5/05 170 total posts
Name:
Queen
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Re: Would you be upset if...
Very. We share finances but it is less that than a trust thing I feel.
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| Posted 5/13/05 3:45 PM |
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SoinLove
Making big changes
Member since 5/05 16541 total posts
Name:
Kristin
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Re: Would you be upset if...
Posted by KPtoys
Posted by Wendy
a) wouldn't bother me at all
b) would piss me off (if he had parents)
agreed
I was going to say the same thing.
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| Posted 5/13/05 11:01 PM |
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june262004
But I love the Snow!
Member since 5/05 15379 total posts
Name:
Kristin
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Re: Would you be upset if...
Posted by KPtoys
Posted by Wendy
a) wouldn't bother me at all
b) would piss me off (if he had parents)
agreed
Double agreed.
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| Posted 5/13/05 11:41 PM |
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skew
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 6794 total posts
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Re: Would you be upset if...
no to both. perhaps i am missing someting but i honestly don't see what the big deal is.
how did you find out that he did this? if he told you then he must have had an explanation as to why.
Message edited 5/14/2005 9:38:35 AM.
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| Posted 5/14/05 9:33 AM |
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jersee3380
He's here!!
Member since 5/05 1372 total posts
Name:
caroline
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Re: Would you be upset if...
absolutely! we've got 'no secrets' .. he knows my bad credit so I wanna know his!
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| Posted 5/14/05 4:16 PM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
Member since 5/05 30683 total posts
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D
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Re: Would you be upset if...
yes, I would
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| Posted 5/14/05 4:19 PM |
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Bri
I Love You to Pieces!
Member since 5/05 9919 total posts
Name:
Brianne
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Re: Would you be upset if...
Yes to both
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| Posted 5/14/05 7:48 PM |
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