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Donna that was just beautiful (I think you might have sent that to me before, but it certainly bears repeating)

Thanks for sharing

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Posted by FeliciaDP

Donna that was just beautiful (I think you might have sent that to me before, but it certainly bears repeating)

Thanks for sharing

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I am so sorry for your loss

Donna-what a touching affirmation

I had a m/c at 5.5 weeks, and m/c'd naturally, then conceived about 3 weeks later.

Please have hope, let yourself grieve, and be around supportive people if that's what you choose. It's perfectly okay to just cry it out with DH, you have suffered a great loss.

I am soo sorry my thoughts and prayers are with you and your Dh during this difficult time.

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My options are I can either get a d&c on monday or tuesday, or see if it happens on its own and if not, then next Friday I can get it done - when I will have the day off from work. I am afraid of it happening on its own, I just don't know what to do. Then next Friday my mother-in-law and BIL will be here spending the weekend and we are all going to his aunt's for teh weekend for thanksgiving, so I would have to grieve with them all there.

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I had a D&C, because I thought it best as per my Dr.'s orders...at 8 weeks. I think if it happens again I will not have the D&C, because it seems you need to wait longer after a D&C to try again so that your uterine lining can get strong again. At 39, I can't be waiting around much.....

Either way, I am very sorry for your loss..

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i'm so sorry

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Im so so sorry.....

I did Naturally...By the time my dr told me to go to the ER , most of it was out, and was not really worthy of the D & C process. Also if you decide to try again right away, you can try sooner if you dont have the D & C according to my Dr.

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naturally at 10 weeks.....

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I'm so sorry and sending you lots of and

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I had a D & C at 12 weeks. for what it's worth, mine was done at Winthrop and found the staff to be incredibly compassionate. On such a horrible day, it really helped having people around who seemed to feel my pain. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Although there are no words right now to comfort you, please know that you are in my prayers.

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I am so sorry!

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I'm very sorry

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I MC'd naturally at 6 weeks... it was simply awful. Take the time you need to grieve and cry it out... and don't despair... like sweetness, I miscarried but exactly one week later I got pregnant again (by accident) and now have a little baby girl... I know the despair you must feel, but I promise, it will get better

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Thanks so much. So far it didn't happen naturally and I have a d&c scheduled for Monday. I'm upset because I know that means it will be a few months until we can try again if it doesn't happen naturally.