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Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

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Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

Hey
I feel Like NO One Understands Me ...
No one knows what to say to me or how to act around me.
My husband is in denial. All our friends have kids. And then theres me/us the
Infertility couple.
I'm a very strong person but this Infertility is really tough. 5 IUI's and 2IVF's And then the phone call Sorry the test is negative. I thought I was all cried out but it seems to be getting worse.
When do I take control of my life again.
How many times do I try before I say enough??

Message edited 4/14/2008 6:56:33 PM.

Posted 4/14/08 6:18 PM
 
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MrsMessina
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

I'm sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon It's really difficult, and it stinks.... I wish I had something more insightful to say, but you're definitely not alone in your feelings. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA: I noticed you just responded to my torture thread... I was really upset yesterday, and wanted to make sure you so it so you weren't feeling alone in your thoughts/feelings. I am feeling a little more hopeful today. I hope tomorrow is better for you. We're here if you need to talk/vent! Chat Icon

Message edited 4/14/2008 6:30:56 PM.

Posted 4/14/08 6:28 PM
 

babyquestions
LIF Adolescent

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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I know how much this sucks...

But we are all here for you...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/14/08 7:10 PM
 

kmac
Two under two!

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Kris

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Here are some Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you.

Posted 4/14/08 8:13 PM
 

juju
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

So Sorry!! Chat Icon Chat Icon I also want control of my life. It su cks knowing that this is out of my hands.

Posted 4/14/08 8:50 PM
 

Bops
My 3 wishes

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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ...You are definately not aloneChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/14/08 8:50 PM
 

BigB
C & J are 10!

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Stacey

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

I am so sorry......IF STINKS and there is no other way to say it!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/14/08 9:42 PM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

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Melissa

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

One thing that always helped me was this statement said by Dr. Alan Beer:

There is no unexplained infertility, only undiscovered.

Have you had all the tests? Have you done immune testing? Have you been your own advocate and done your own research and not only followed your Dr's? If you can answer no to any of these questions, your baby is probably waiting for you. Best of luckChat Icon

Posted 4/14/08 9:45 PM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

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Posted 4/14/08 9:52 PM
 

SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!

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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

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You are not alone. We understand what you are going through.

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Posted 4/15/08 7:45 AM
 

fullofhope13
Please stay little one

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Helen

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

I know all too well how you feel.
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Posted 4/15/08 8:35 AM
 

shaye3
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/07

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Laura

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

Like everyone else said you are not alone...your feelings are totally understandable..sending Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/15/08 9:09 AM
 

Diana712
RIP my beloved Brother Richard

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Diana

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

Posted by melijane

One thing that always helped me was this statement said by Dr. Alan Beer:

There is no unexplained infertility, only undiscovered.

Have you had all the tests? Have you done immune testing? Have you been your own advocate and done your own research and not only followed your Dr's? If you can answer no to any of these questions, your baby is probably waiting for you. Best of luckChat Icon


Great advice ITA!!

Posted 4/15/08 10:21 AM
 

BA2008
Need to find some hope!

Member since 2/08

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Beth -Ann

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

We're all here with you. We totally understand. None of this is easy. I just hope the day we have what we want we forget about all this suffering and pain.

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Posted 4/15/08 10:31 AM
 

Sneezy
Thankful for my miracle!

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Jen

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

I understand you and I am sorry for what you are going through.

Posted 4/15/08 9:57 PM
 

jellybean78
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Mommy

Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

I'm sorryChat Icon Chat Icon IF sucks....you are definitely not aloneChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/15/08 10:00 PM
 

babyfaith
Onward and Upward!

Member since 2/08

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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore

I don't know if this will help, but it might be a good time to take a break for a while and regroup. I know that if this month doesn't work out for me, I will be taking a few months off to recharge and reassess. I have done 5 medicated IUI cycles and I am emotionally and physically beat up. I can only imagine how worn out you must feel.

Posted 4/16/08 9:50 AM
 
 

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