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Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

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Ang-Rich
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Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

A very good family friend was diagnosed with cancer and next week will be undergoing a proceedure (not sure what) that will require limited contact with people for 3 months.

I wanted to send flowers to cheer her up and let her know we are thinking of her but

- Not sure if flowers are okay
- Not sure if something else would be better

Any advice? Thanks! Chat Icon

Posted 5/30/08 1:15 PM
 

RadioLau
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Laura

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

My mom was going through this last year. She got so many flowers and gift baskets it was enough already. I sent her a Vermont Teddy Bear and she loved it. I tell you, she slept with that thing for months and it helped her through a really tough time. It's amazing what comfort a stuffed bear can give a grown woman when they are suffering. Just an idea!

Posted 5/30/08 2:46 PM
 

Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05

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Susan

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

I agree..something soft and cuddly and pampering.

Nice soft slippers, good books, DVDs, body pillow..things that would comfort her.

Sounds like a marrow transplant..sorry to hear that. I wish her a speedy recovery and a remission!

Posted 5/30/08 4:35 PM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

Thank you both! I absolutely love the Vermont Teddy Bear Idea!!! It can be from my DS!!! She can't make it to his party and her message broke my heart...this would be perfect!

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Posted 5/30/08 7:55 PM
 

donegal419
St. Gerard, pray for us.

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K

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

I would pass on the flowers. When my mom was going through treatment, the smell really bothered her.

I think something fun like PJs, slippers, a book, etc. would be great.

Posted 5/31/08 12:59 PM
 

Beth
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Member since 2/06

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Beth

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

it sounds like maybe a stem cell transplant

flowers are NOT ok at all- they can be dangerous to a person with a week immune system

I think books, magazines, a stuff animal are all great idea

food is not ok either- they have a very limited diet they can eat

good luck to you family friend- they have come along since my Mom got hers

Message edited 5/31/2008 11:30:48 PM.

Posted 5/31/08 11:30 PM
 

browneyedgirl
family is all that matters

Member since 6/06

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browneyes

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

can she still go out to stores? if so, then how about a gift certificate to a book store so she can load up on books or magazines? comfy pjs also sound like a great idea!!

i hope she gets better soon!

Posted 6/1/08 6:40 PM
 

MrsB-07
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b

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

I sent someone a basket from here once and she loved it.

I'm very sorry to hear about your friendChat Icon

Posted 6/2/08 1:42 PM
 

Red
spring is in the air

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helen

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

not sure if this is too late, but for 2 friends who underwent cancer treatment, I gave them 3 month subscriptions to Netflix

Posted 6/2/08 2:31 PM
 

MrsSunflwr29
LIF Adult

Member since 3/06

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M

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

My sister had cancer and she loved getting magazines, movies, crossword puzzles and pjs. Another gift she got which I thought was a great gift was a house cleaner. This helped her not worry about getting things done when she wasnt up for it.

Good luck and prayers to your friend.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/2/08 2:54 PM
 

sunnygirl
loving life

Member since 1/07

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D

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

i sent my cousin a pajamagram when people are sick they spend a lot of time in their pjs so its nice to have a new pretty pair of pjs

Posted 6/2/08 6:25 PM
 

Holly
Prayers to those who need them

Member since 5/05

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Holly

Re: Gift for a sick friend (cancer)

Posted by sunnygirl

i sent my cousin a pajamagram when people are sick they spend a lot of time in their pjs so its nice to have a new pretty pair of pjs




I was JUST going to say this...I I did this for a friend too and it was very well received!Chat Icon

Posted 6/2/08 8:24 PM
 
 

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