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Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
I am a regular poster but decided to post under a different name right now.
Does anyone ever have BAD days?? I just mean that does anyone ever feel like they are never going to be blessed with a little  
I could just cry my eyes out all day today. Some days are so much better than others and it is hard to keep that "when the time is right it will happen" attitude on every day. I mean, it is also sooooo hard to constantly hear "Guess who is preggo???" It feels like everyday I find out someone else is expecting and despite the fact that I wish everyone the best, it makes me sick! i know I sound so terrible for saying this and i am pretty good at putting on a good front, but I am so tired of doing that. I dont want to sound like a bad person, but today is a sad day.
My DH doesnt even know why I feel this way (I didnt tell him), he just thinks I am in a Bitchy mood today
Need some support and hugs from my fellow LIFers!!!!
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Posted 8/10/08 3:18 PM  |
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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
I could have written this myself! I feel like every day in terms of TTC is a bad day. Whether it's the dreaded "guess who's pregnant" call or seeing people with babies it's upsetting! My personal favorite are the questions "so when are you going to start a family" or "are you pregnant"
    
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| Posted 8/10/08 3:22 PM |
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MrsRbk
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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
Yes... 2 years of trying to get pregnant, I had those days ALOT!!!
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| Posted 8/10/08 3:40 PM |
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BABYMAMA13
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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
i have those days your not alone, you just have to keep hope. ur going to be a mother. How long have u been TTC?
Message edited 8/10/2008 4:07:16 PM.
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| Posted 8/10/08 4:07 PM |
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hisfavgirl
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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
I feel the same way sometimes too...i know if i talk to my dh about things like that he'll just say "it will happen for us"...your not alone
Message edited 8/10/2008 5:01:11 PM.
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| Posted 8/10/08 4:57 PM |
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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
Thanks Girls. I knew a lot of you would understand. it is just hard I guess some days.
I know eventually it will happen, but the thing that bothers me is I have no idea WHEN eventually will be.
Its just a bad day for me. I am not trying to sound dramatic. Its that the summer is almost over and I keep setting goals of "when" it will happen, only to keep moving these goals back and back!
Its just not fair.
Yes, and if one more person asks me why I am waiting so long to start a family I am going to go nuts on them!!!!
Thats a common one for me too! I cant stand it. And it is so hard to lie about something I am really so upset over.
Message edited 8/10/2008 5:14:20 PM.
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| Posted 8/10/08 5:12 PM |
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Nikkibean
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I'm waiting for you to come back to me
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| Posted 8/10/08 6:13 PM |
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| Posted 8/10/08 7:05 PM |
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MadDogMrsT
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| Posted 8/10/08 7:14 PM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
I know how you feel.
The funny thing is, even w/ the clomid and ALL the BDing we did around O time, I never, never could picture POAS and seeing that 2nd line. I just cant see it happening.
If you need to cry, DO IT!
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| Posted 8/10/08 7:56 PM |
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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day
I can really empathize with you. Its very hard to want something so much.....more than anything else in the world, and not really have much control over it.
DH's don't always understand.....even if they are really sensitive men, its just not the same and they don't really "get it". Its not the same.
I wish I had something to say to make you feel better but I just don't....however, . ANd just keep up the thoughts that you, too, will have your day to dance in the sun.
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| Posted 8/10/08 8:14 PM |
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