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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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It's been a while
I have been in hiding but I wanted to come on here to give you updates.
Please forgive me as I couldn't say what was going on until I was sure.
I did indeed become pregnant. If you all remember my last post, I was late and was going to test. Well, it was BFP!!
I kept it quiet and wanted to wait until I saw a HB, but sadly, that didn't happen. I found out yesterday that I was going to miscarry. Blighted ovum or anembryonic pregnancy. Just the sac, no embryo. I am about 7-8 weeks and they saw an empty sac. I should miscarry soon I'm told.
So while DH and I are pretty down about it, the upside is I did get pregnant on my own without IVF or medical intervention. I do have some eggs left that might be good. The docs are all encouraged about this.
My hcg and prog levels were all excellent but no baby.
I'm 42 and I wanted you all to have faith. We're going to keep on trying with help and without help and hope for the best.
I apologize for not coming on here right away to update but I just couldn't and I hope you understand.
btw-In case anyone was wondering or suspecting I was NotTellin on the Pregnancy board. Short stay but a very supportive place as is this board.
So I'm back and I wish you all the best. Let's go get pregnant!
 
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CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!
Member since 9/07 6081 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: It's been a while
 i am ao sorry but happy that you are able to get pregnant! keep praying, stay strong and optimistic and you will get your baby soon!!!!!! this is a hard process but we will all get through it and graduate soon!  
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| Posted 7/11/09 11:20 PM |
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CAH127
LIF Adult
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Re: It's been a while
I am so sorry for all you have gone through. Miscarriage certainly is not an easy thing to go through. I will keep you in my thoughts.
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| Posted 7/11/09 11:25 PM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
Member since 5/05 19978 total posts
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Jen - counting my blessings...
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry  But I admire your positive attitude!
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| Posted 7/12/09 1:15 AM |
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SecretTTCer
LIF Adult
Member since 6/08 2284 total posts
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Re: It's been a while
I am really sorry!
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| Posted 7/12/09 1:18 AM |
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
Member since 5/05 20046 total posts
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Gerty ®
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry about your loss...but your attitude is great...good luck!
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| Posted 7/12/09 7:35 AM |
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CellarDweller
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 1562 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: It's been a while
I am so sorry for your loss. It is a good sign (I think) that you were able to get pg on your own and your attitude is amazing. So for good news soon!
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| Posted 7/12/09 8:08 AM |
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LIBOUND
Texting king
Member since 10/05 5289 total posts
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Suzy
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry, but like pp said, your attitude is amazing and encouraging (I'm 40).
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| Posted 7/12/09 8:23 AM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
Member since 1/08 6549 total posts
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Patty
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Re: It's been a while
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Your attitude is wonderful and I have faith for you.
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| Posted 7/12/09 8:59 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: It's been a while
Thanks everyone. I'm kind of glad I didn't tell the world because then I would have to tell them all the bad news.
I will tell my parents today. I'm sure they will be disappointed but I couldn't imagine the heartbreak of getting them all excited only to dash their hopes.
My attitude is necessary to get me through this. I have my moments believe me. Waiting to miscarry sucks though and I wish it would just happen already so I can move on.
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mishmosh
That's all I got.
Member since 7/06 1452 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: It's been a while
Wow, I'm so so sorry. But like you, I would definitely take this as encouraging! Don't give up.
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| Posted 7/12/09 9:26 AM |
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Domino
Always My Miracle
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Re: It's been a while
Awww sweetie, I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for your little bundle in the future
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| Posted 7/12/09 9:29 AM |
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skinny
3 boys and a princess!
Member since 11/08 8178 total posts
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Momma
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 7/12/09 12:26 PM |
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shelby34
Love being a twin mommy!
Member since 5/07 2934 total posts
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Michele
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Re: It's been a while
I am so sorry you are going through this!
You seem to have a great positive outlook and I hope everything works out for you soon.
Hang in there....
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| Posted 7/12/09 1:14 PM |
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karenk71
Love
Member since 6/06 1547 total posts
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Karen
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Re: It's been a while
Wow...I am so sorry but how encouraging that you got pg on your own! I hope you are doing OK.
I'm thinking of you and hoping it will happen for you again soon.
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| Posted 7/12/09 3:06 PM |
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Makin-da-baby
Praying so hard this is it!!!
Member since 4/08 1391 total posts
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Undercover Lover
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Re: It's been a while
I am sorry for your loss
You sound like you are doing well, best of luck to you!
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| Posted 7/12/09 3:54 PM |
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MrsLMS
LIF Infant
Member since 1/09 201 total posts
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L
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry for your loss...like the pps I think you have such a positive attitude and think it is great you were able to get pg on your own.
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| Posted 7/12/09 6:27 PM |
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Sherwood
LIF Adult
Member since 8/08 1643 total posts
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 7/12/09 6:51 PM |
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LI-Joy
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry.
Message edited 7/12/2009 7:39:42 PM.
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| Posted 7/12/09 7:39 PM |
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WorkingOnNo2
LIF Zygote
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Re: It's been a while
I am really very sorry that you are in this position.
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| Posted 7/12/09 9:21 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: It's been a while
I told my parents tonight and they were happy to hear that I did get pregnant but sad that it wasn't meant to be.
They have a great attitude about it too. They are not letting me feel sorry for myself and frankly as sad as it is, I had a lot of time to prepare for the news.
I wish I wasn't back here but glad to know I've got a place to be.
I will call Davis tomorrow and I see the OB on Tuesday am for the final diagnosis and info on going forward.
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| Posted 7/12/09 10:43 PM |
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Superkat
More a stranger than a friend
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K
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Re: It's been a while
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JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08 12702 total posts
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Jen
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Re: It's been a while
Your attitude is admirable.
Many to get you through this time and for a healthy pregnancy soon!
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| Posted 7/13/09 9:03 AM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: It's been a while
I'm so sorry about this Susan. You have a great attitude though, and I'm glad your family is being so supportive.. that's important
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| Posted 7/13/09 9:12 AM |
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Daisy32
Mommy
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Re: It's been a while
So sorry about all this......please keep up that inspiring attitude
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