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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
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Lisa
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Do you girls think its premature of me
to have changed the status in my profile to "expecting?"
I dont know what my issue is, its like I feel like im jinxing myself by doing it and by posting on the preggo board.
I did just change it because I have to stop thinking negatively. I HATE that I feel this way 
What do you all think? Stop acting like a preggo until I have my first sono or act like one now since I am one 
ETA: We havent told anyone IRL so this is my only outlet. Its not like Im picking out baby clothes or anything.
Message edited 11/12/2009 5:35:59 PM.
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
No, not at all!! You should change to expecting...it's is such great exciting news!!!!!
I know you are nervous but do not allow that to get the best of you right now. You still deserve to acknowledge your pregnant. I think it will actually help to get excited, this way it minimizes your fears...( which I am sure we all will feel)
Stay Positive!!!!! Things will work out GREAT!!!!
I am praying
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| Posted 11/12/09 7:18 PM |
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Babyaholic
Thankful
Member since 6/09 1459 total posts
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
Positivity, positivity, positivity!!!! You are pregnant - share it with the world!   
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| Posted 11/12/09 7:39 PM |
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jerseychick
LIF Adult
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
You've inspired me girls...even though I am nervous as he!! I'm going to do it too!
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| Posted 11/12/09 8:28 PM |
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Ever-After
Goals w/o plans r just wishes
Member since 6/09 2585 total posts
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
even though you and I have already talked about this, I still feel the need to respond. lol.
For me, I just felt like it was important for me to ACT like I was pregnant. At first when i got the BFP I was scared and didn't want to get my hopes up. But I found that in doing this it was just making me live in negativity, which is the last thing I wanted. I needed to start celebrating this pregnancy in the only small way I can (without sharing it in real life). So yes, I decided to visit the pregnancy board & change my status to expecting. And I think that if you're comfortable with it then you should to. But you wouldn't be 'wrong' either way!! It's whatever YOU'RE comfortable with!! If you want to wait, there's nothing wrong with that
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| Posted 11/12/09 8:29 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
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Jen
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
You need to acknowlege and celebrate this good news! That is what it is...good news! You deserve this special time! Positivity is good for you and good for the baby!
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| Posted 11/12/09 8:54 PM |
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Newly1
I love my baby boy!
Member since 6/08 2804 total posts
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
I think it is all a matter of what you feel comfortable with. I remember for my first pregnancy I added myself right away, and went on the pregnancy board right away. Then it was sort of a harsh reality having to remove myself from that list. So this time I waited till my first sono. BUT...I do feel that you need to acknowledgte your pregnancy, and if adding yourself to that list helps, then by all means go for it!!! After all, you ARE pregnant! And regardless of what happens in the coming weeks this little bean deserves all the attention in the world right now, b/c it is real! While it is not easy (i myself am still uneasy at 10.5 weeks) please try and have fun with this pregnancy, celebrate, and let DH baby you! You deserve the happiness that this time brings!
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| Posted 11/12/09 10:03 PM |
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Siren77
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/09 828 total posts
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
Whatever you decide, we support you. We are all so happy for you!
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| Posted 11/12/09 10:07 PM |
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ajaysmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/05 810 total posts
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Jessica
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
Do what ever it is that makes you comfortable! I'm sure this pregancy will be a successful one! Try to stay positive, as hard as it is not not feel scared to death, try and relax and ENJOY this time!! you deserve it!!
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| Posted 11/12/09 10:26 PM |
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BabysMomma29
Due with Baby #2!
Member since 10/08 2004 total posts
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
Not at all! I put a countdown in my profile the day I found out! I don't think you're jinxing anything- what's meant to happen will happen. By changing your status is not going to harm the baby. Try to stay positive- I can only imagine how hard it is.
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| Posted 11/13/09 5:57 AM |
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kristin597
Mama!
Member since 8/08 1688 total posts
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Kristin
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
Lisa, you are pregnant! Celebrate that! I know you're nervous, as most of us on this board would be, but you need to relax and celebrate! 
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| Posted 11/13/09 9:24 AM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
Thanks everyone!!
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| Posted 11/13/09 9:34 AM |
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mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
It's def. not if you feel you want too!! I feel that every pregnancy is a new pregnancy, that the past doesn't matter. Make sure your comfortable with the decision you make.
And make sure you let yourself get excited!! I was so scared in the beginning, and then one day I just stopped ((and I'm still very early)), whatever will be, will be, there's no jinxing anything, enjoy this experience, even though its hard to do.
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| Posted 11/13/09 7:50 PM |
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
girl...act as if this is your first PG & be super excited b/c we're super excited for you! 
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| Posted 11/14/09 1:09 AM |
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Metsmomma
Happy Winter!
Member since 1/09 5351 total posts
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
congrats hon!!!!!! happy and healthy 9 months!!!!! and no it's not premature!!!! enjoy this time!!!!!
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| Posted 11/14/09 6:15 PM |
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
stay positive and congrats!!!
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| Posted 11/16/09 5:47 PM |
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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 11/08 7769 total posts
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Jenna
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Re: Do you girls think its premature of me
You should be positive and be happy!!! Update it!!!!
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