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CaseyGirl
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dealing with a moody boss
I've worked with my boss for almost 3 years now. There are days, even solid weeks that she is fine to work with. We work as a team.
Then, there are the days or weeks that she is unbearable. Critical, snappy, demanding and rude.
I don't know what to do besides just focus on my work and do the best I can do.
Has anyone gone through this before and if so, how did you get through the bad days?
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Posted 2/26/10 10:37 AM |
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Donna
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Name: Donna
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Re: dealing with a moody boss
It seems like you're doing the best thing, just trying to stay focused
I worked for a monster lady and when times got really bad I would just walk away from my desk. My co-workers would cover for me.
In some strange way it also helped to know that it wasn't just me, she treated everyone like that.
Good luck!
I ended up leaving to become a SAHM
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Posted 2/26/10 1:39 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
Name: Susan
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Re: dealing with a moody boss
I have that now. She is a wonderful person and smart and powerful in the firm. She knows when she's being a b!tch and sometimes fesses but she's been a bear to me recently.
I just try to do my best. That's all I can do.
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Posted 2/26/10 4:35 PM |
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Re: dealing with a moody boss
I have a boss who is similar. Like a previous poster said though, it helps me in a strange way to know they are like this with EVERYONE.
I also do not know if this is an option for you, but I try to be in the field visiting clients, or working from home when I can so my time around them is limited.
I also do a lot of my paperwork in advance so I don't have a lot of ammunition for them to give me $hit about.
A couple of the ladies I work with are always behind on their work, so therefore, always getting a worse kind of hell from them. (Not saying this is your situation but something I noticed in my office).
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Posted 2/27/10 7:31 AM |
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DirtyBlonde
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Re: dealing with a moody boss
I ignore. They have become ridiculously unreasonable. An example:
Currently my boss (who has morphed into a monster) is in Australia. What's the time difference, 14 hours?
Yeah, if you email me incessantly between 3 pm and 6 pm down there, it's the middle of the effing night here and I'm SLEEPING. Try to legitimately complain about that, please, I dare you.
I'm just putting my head down and not saying anything. It's only a matter of time for them...
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Posted 3/1/10 12:02 PM |
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TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!
Member since 8/08 7878 total posts
Name: Mama mama mama....
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Re: dealing with a moody boss
I am currently dealing with this. If there's one piece of advice I can give you, it's to PICK YOUR BATTLES. Go in do your job, and try not to take their rantings personally. You get far fewer gray hairs that way.
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Posted 3/1/10 5:58 PM |
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