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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by AngnShaun
what i really need and cant possibly figure out how to do it is to be able to stop clicking on the pregnancy board... 
OMG Ang- when mine first happened, I tried SO HARD not to go on that board. It's super, super hard. Now, I go on and I'm ok- thank god. 
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by AngnShaun
The problem is that most Drs wont consider me hi-risk and in need of an RE because an ectopic isnt considered a "loss" in their pov... so really i only had 1 loss... i guess we'll see what happens when they get the info back from testing the tissues...
A few of my sisters friends see hi-risk Drs. and my SIL has a hi-risk Dr also. I'm honestly just going to take the spring and summer off and let my body heal from the last 6 months... we'll start trying again in August/September...
hey ang
you are right, depending on what comes back from the chromosome testing you may have an answer
i know what you mean about the pregnancy board....i did the same thing....and i still go on there sometimes  like today....but it gets easier....i promise....now i go on there and i'm not sad thinking of how i used to be part of that group, i'm more curious to see what's going on - like i was before we started ttc...
i hear you about letting things heal...i was in such a huge rush to get pregnant after the miscarriage but was told to wait..now that the 3 cycles of waiting are over i'm starting to feel less and less excited about getting pregnant again....i don't know what it is??? maybe b/c i'm starting to enjoy my life again? i actually think the time is what i needed/need...it didn't seem like it then but i'm not 100% sure that i'm ready for it again, especially now with the summer starting up - i really don't want my summer to be spent over the bowl and worrying - i feel like some more "me" time wouldn't be the worst thing in the world...i did a lot of reflecting and realized i have so many blessings in my life and so many things to enjoy...i know one day my time will come and i'm at peace with that...so time really heals both the heart and body
i'll be thinking of you
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| Posted 4/13/11 10:56 AM |
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BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!
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Aim
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Re: Back from my Dr.
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: Back from my Dr.
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Puppy-Love
LIF Adult
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J
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by AngnShaun
The problem is that most Drs wont consider me hi-risk and in need of an RE because an ectopic isnt considered a "loss" in their pov... so really i only had 1 loss... i guess we'll see what happens when they get the info back from testing the tissues...
A few of my sisters friends see hi-risk Drs. and my SIL has a hi-risk Dr also. I'm honestly just going to take the spring and summer off and let my body heal from the last 6 months... we'll start trying again in August/September...
Have you called an RE though? It doesnt hurt to call and see what they say, you really have nothing to lose. I did and I felt silly at first but they said they would see me. Only issue we had is the insurance co. but we got around that. How long have you been TTC?
Sorry I am not trying to pressure you but I just want you to get some answers and help/attn. Def FM me if you want more details about what I am going to do.
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| Posted 4/13/11 2:24 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by NotSoSureYet
Have you called an RE though? It doesnt hurt to call and see what they say, you really have nothing to lose. I did and I felt silly at first but they said they would see me. Only issue we had is the insurance co. but we got around that. How long have you been TTC?
Sorry I am not trying to pressure you but I just want you to get some answers and help/attn. Def FM me if you want more details about what I am going to do.
i havent called one, i just assumed that you need a referal...
We started in September, got pregnant on the first try... that was the ectopic... because it was treated with methotrexate we couldnt try again until the end of January... got my BFP in March...
it seems that i have no problem getting pregnant...
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| Posted 4/13/11 2:28 PM |
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MrsFishstick
LIF Adult
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Re: Back from my Dr.
OMG I'm so sorry!
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| Posted 4/13/11 3:30 PM |
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inlove10
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Re: Back from my Dr.
I am so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 4/13/11 7:43 PM |
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Jenn1621
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Omg, I had no idea! I am so sorry for loss. I pray you get answers. This is so unfair...I am just so sad to read this.
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| Posted 4/13/11 9:29 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by Jenn1621
Omg, I had no idea! I am so sorry for loss. I pray you get answers. This is so unfair...I am just so sad to read this.
I know, its ok... you've had your own stuff to worry about... 
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| Posted 4/13/11 9:33 PM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by NotSoSureYet
Have you called an RE though? It doesnt hurt to call and see what they say, you really have nothing to lose. I did and I felt silly at first but they said they would see me. Only issue we had is the insurance co. but we got around that. How long have you been TTC?
Sorry I am not trying to pressure you but I just want you to get some answers and help/attn. Def FM me if you want more details about what I am going to do.
i havent called one, i just assumed that you need a referal...
We started in September, got pregnant on the first try... that was the ectopic... because it was treated with methotrexate we couldnt try again until the end of January... got my BFP in March...
it seems that i have no problem getting pregnant...
i can so relate to everything you say for what it's worth, i have no problem getting pregnant either (i've never ttc more than 3-4 months without getting pregnant) but after 3 losses that were really all unrelated, i went to an RE just to see what he had to say. and technically, i've only had 1 "loss" b/c one was a medical termination and the other was the ectopic.
i'm seeing dr. b and he did a ton of testing and actually found a few issues that could have led to my complications and i'm now being treated for them. he even says that there's no way to know for sure but at least i now know i'm being treated for these things and i have more peace of mind. when you heal and feel ready, it may be worth a consult with somebody.
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| Posted 4/13/11 10:50 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by keepingsecrets
i can so relate to everything you say for what it's worth, i have no problem getting pregnant either (i've never ttc more than 3-4 months without getting pregnant) but after 3 losses that were really all unrelated, i went to an RE just to see what he had to say. and technically, i've only had 1 "loss" b/c one was a medical termination and the other was the ectopic.
i'm seeing dr. b and he did a ton of testing and actually found a few issues that could have led to my complications and i'm now being treated for them. he even says that there's no way to know for sure but at least i now know i'm being treated for these things and i have more peace of mind. when you heal and feel ready, it may be worth a consult with somebody.
i thought i was scared to try after the ectopic... im petrified to try again now... at least i am now, maybe the testing will show something...
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| Posted 4/14/11 9:32 AM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Re: Back from my Dr.
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by keepingsecrets
i can so relate to everything you say for what it's worth, i have no problem getting pregnant either (i've never ttc more than 3-4 months without getting pregnant) but after 3 losses that were really all unrelated, i went to an RE just to see what he had to say. and technically, i've only had 1 "loss" b/c one was a medical termination and the other was the ectopic.
i'm seeing dr. b and he did a ton of testing and actually found a few issues that could have led to my complications and i'm now being treated for them. he even says that there's no way to know for sure but at least i now know i'm being treated for these things and i have more peace of mind. when you heal and feel ready, it may be worth a consult with somebody.
i thought i was scared to try after the ectopic... im petrified to try again now... at least i am now, maybe the testing will show something...
awwww...i'm not gonna lie, i don't know if that feeling ever goes away for us girls who've been through losses most girls are so excited to get a BFP and while i'll be grateful for it, it will always scare the sh!t out of me. i do know that one day we will all get our healthy pregnancies though
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
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Re: Back from my Dr.
I am so heartbroken for you right now. I just saw this and became so sad  I just wanted to offer some hugs
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