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bookworm
Two Little Rosebuds
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Everybody's pregnant
My cousin's wife, a close friend, and a girl in my office at work...found about all 3 in the past 7 days.
It seems like every day I have to process another happy announcement. 2 of them preggers in 3 months. 2 of them more than 5 years older than me. I want to be happy for them, but my bitterness and jealousy runneth over.
With facing months of now trying on our own again, like some sick joke, I have really been losing it. I'm under so much pressure at work and I can't even concentrate on all that needs to be done. I spent so much time crying over the weekend...til i was puffy and exhausted with a pounding headache.
What the he11 is wrong with me? 
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Posted 11/14/11 7:12 PM  |
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Megbrez
LIF Zygote
Member since 11/11 10 total posts
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Megan
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Re: Everybody's pregnant
Nothin is wrong with you!! this is a curse of infertility! you want to be happy for others but our own jealousy and insecurity ruins this. I feel this on a daily basis... please know you have support and your not crazy!!
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| Posted 11/14/11 7:19 PM |
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Megbrez
LIF Zygote
Member since 11/11 10 total posts
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Megan
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Re: Everybody's pregnant
Nothin is wrong with you!! this is a curse of infertility! you want to be happy for others but our own jealousy and insecurity ruins this. I feel this on a daily basis... please know you have support and your not crazy!!
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| Posted 11/14/11 7:20 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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Re: Everybody's pregnant
sometimes i swear it is a cult
like they r following me..they r everywhere! i have shower after baptism after 1st birthday party...
i really just think they were always there,we just notice them now
feel better!
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| Posted 11/14/11 7:36 PM |
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Beaches25
LIF Zygote
Member since 7/11 41 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Everybody's pregnant
I totally know how you feel!! In the course of a week I found out three of my friends (one a very close friend I work with) were pregnant. One of them literally just got married. I am having some serious issues. I also want to be happy for them, but am overcome with sadness whenever I am near them. It's a "why not me?" thing. I wrote my friend a work with a letter and explained my feelings the best I could. There's no easy answer...just know that you are a good person and it is completely normal to feel this way!! 
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| Posted 11/14/11 7:37 PM |
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bookworm
Two Little Rosebuds
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Re: Everybody's pregnant
Thanks girls I'm sorry we all have to go through this. It's not fair.
I'm just really losing it lately. I never thought things would get this bad.
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| Posted 11/15/11 5:45 AM |
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JDubs
different, not less
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Re: Everybody's pregnant
i also know how you feel. two of my cousins have announced their pregnancy in the past few months, it hurts because you just want it to happen already!
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| Posted 11/15/11 7:19 AM |
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