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Thats-what-she-said
LIF Infant

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Just Me

Venting

I found out this week that my best friend is expecting. I am so over the moon excited for her, but I am devastated for myself. I hate that so many women just get pregnant and have a baby. There was never a second thought in her mind when she saw that positive test that she would be having a baby and now she is 14 weeks along.

If I ever do get pregnant again (been trying for 5 months since the mc and nada) I will be terrified the whole time. I feel like I have been robbed. She asked me if I wanted to see a picture of her baby and all I could think was we should be comparing pics.

I feel terrible because although I am really really happy for her I want to crawl into a hole and die.

Posted 6/1/12 3:57 PM
 

LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!

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Re: Venting

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Posted 6/1/12 5:00 PM
 

PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

Member since 7/08

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Jib

Re: Venting



I'm sorry you feel so alone.. but just know that while you're stuck feeling so alone in this process, so many others are feeling alone in their childless cave of isolation right there with you Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 6/2/2012 5:39:06 PM.

Posted 6/1/12 5:43 PM
 

frio85
LIF Adult

Member since 8/11

1164 total posts

Name:
Michele

Re: Venting

Posted by Thats-what-she-said

I found out this week that my best friend is expecting. I am so over the moon excited for her, but I am devastated for myself. I hate that so many women just get pregnant and have a baby. There was never a second thought in her mind when she saw that positive test that she would be having a baby and now she is 14 weeks along.

If I ever do get pregnant again (been trying for 5 months since the mc and nada) I will be terrified the whole time. I feel like I have been robbed. She asked me if I wanted to see a picture of her baby and all I could think was we should be comparing pics.

.



I totally agree, I am going to a mess the next time I get pregnant- I was mess with my first one, and then I had my MC

You are not alone.

Posted 6/1/12 10:09 PM
 
 

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