Has anyone's DH given up on the idea ...

...of having another child?

I think DH is done. He says he would have loved a third child but he doesn't think I can handle another miscarriage emotionally. I tell him I think I can but I dont expand on it..its too soon for me but I need to hang onto the hope that we will have another child someday. Then today he started saying that we should get rid of some of the clutter ie baby stuff in the basement and take down the baby stairs

I didn't react or say anything as I feel like we as a couple need to be in a very strong position before I bring this up again and right now after all that has happened we are not in that space..yet.

Anyone else's DH just want to give up and be done even though you are not ?