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Softkitty
LIF Infant
Member since 7/12 311 total posts
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not sure what changed
i thought i was doing so well but the past few days I have been a mess
got my first AF after mc- i cry
baby on tv- i cry
pregnant woman- i cry
people notice my weight loss- i cry (weird right? think because i should have been gaining)
friends invite me out for a drink- i cry
i thought i was doing so well. im not sure if maybe i didnt let myself feel it in the beginning and tried to push it away so fast i dont know, but lately im an emotional wreck 
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Posted 9/24/12 12:47 PM  |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: not sure what changed
Posted by newmomma
i thought i was doing so well. im not sure if maybe i didnt let myself feel it in the beginning and tried to push it away so fast i dont know, but lately im an emotional wreck
I went through something very similar. When my mc 1st happened, I tried to convince myself that I was fine. Turns out, I was just in shock. when it "hit" me weeks later, I was a total mess.
Give yourself a chance to grieve...
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| Posted 9/24/12 1:14 PM |
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frio85
LIF Adult
Member since 8/11 1164 total posts
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Michele
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Re: not sure what changed
After my miscarriage I didn't get off the couch for 3 weeks I still think about "what would have been" ALL THE TIME!!!
The way you are feeling is perfectly normal.
Hang in there!
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| Posted 9/24/12 4:40 PM |
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TaraVinny
my miracle coming October!!!
Member since 10/09 1049 total posts
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Tara
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Re: not sure what changed
i'm sorry. you are not alone. it kid myself sometimes thinking i'm ok but i think deep down i'm still so sad. i will always think of it. it is completely normal.
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| Posted 9/24/12 5:52 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
Name:
Jib
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Re: not sure what changed
It's been over 2 years since my first loss and I am convinced I will never be over it. It's totally understandable. 
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| Posted 9/24/12 7:27 PM |
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MrsC614
My little angel is here <3
Member since 7/09 2851 total posts
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Gina
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not sure what changed
i feel so much better reading this, because i am a week in, and i am so emotional, and so pissed off at the world, holding back tears all day at work. this is awful :O(
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| Posted 9/24/12 9:27 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
Name:
sara
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Re: not sure what changed
I am 18 months in since my first miscarriage and I still ache for that baby and the two that I lost since....its something I know I will live with for the rest of my life. I will tell you that the every day pain will not be as intense at some stage...but you will be caught unawares and it will knock you on your ass when you are least expecting it.
I hate to say it but its part of the process and you just have to walk through it. I am so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 9/25/12 7:24 PM |
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LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!
Member since 8/08 9655 total posts
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Re: not sure what changed
I can totally relate.
I had a MC in May and it still feels like it happened yesterday. I was pregnant with 3 of my friends... 2 have since had their babies and 1 is so exctied and is due 2 weeks after I was supposed to be. It's so hard not to break down all the time.
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| Posted 10/1/12 2:49 PM |
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Aly764
Isla Grace born on 11/15/13 <3
Member since 6/12 1021 total posts
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Alyssa
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not sure what changed
Same thing happened to me. It took me a couple weeks before it really hit me. I think because I was cramping so bad and in physical pain that I was focusing on that. When that went away I focused more on the loss. It's totally normal and you need to be emotional and feel what youre feeling as part of the healing process. Take the time to cry it out now and then- it's very therapeutic. It will get a little easier. You got AF so that means you can start trying again. Good things will happen for you eventually. Hugs!!
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| Posted 10/1/12 11:16 PM |
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