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Dolphinsbaby
My 3 little guys!
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My mom died suddenly
I lost my mom this past Friday 7/27/12. She was out shopping and someone found her and called 911. She went into cardiac arrest. She was 54.
She babysat my 8 month old twin boys for me Mondays and Tuesdays. They loved their grandma so much. My dad is the strong, silent type. He never even cried. I know everyone grieves in their own way.
She did so much for me. When DH had to go back to work the week after we came home with the boys, I was so overwhelmed. I was nursing, a new mom, and crying all the time. My mom came over and stayed with me all day until he came home from work, the entire time I was on maternity leave.
I just miss her so much. My heart is broken. I can't believe she won't be here for their first steps or their first birthday. It kills me! She was my best friend. I still can't believe she is really gone. I talked to her every day. I feel so lost. I still need my mommy
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Posted 7/29/12 9:38 PM |
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StaceyWill
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Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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My mom died suddenly
I'm so sorry!!
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Posted 7/30/12 8:25 AM |
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Mrs213
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Posted 7/30/12 8:27 AM |
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TreAnt427
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Name: Tracy
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I'm so so sorry! I know how you feel, I lost my dad suddenly last summer.
It's heartbreaking to know that your children won't remember them.
Nothing I can say will make you feel better, but know that you are not alone in your feelings.
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Posted 7/30/12 11:21 AM |
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maymama
my little loves
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Re: My mom died suddenly
my heart breaks for you. I lost my dad when I was 19 - he was 56.
Take it one day at a time, she will live on in your memories. Start writing your favorite memories down now, especially for your kids. I wish someone gave me that advice when I was 19 ... its getting harder to remember almost 9 years later
She will always be with you, she lives on in your heart and in the smile and laughter of your children.
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Posted 7/30/12 3:38 PM |
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Dolphinsbaby
My 3 little guys!
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Re: My mom died suddenly
Thank you. Everyone's thoughts help.
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Posted 7/30/12 4:14 PM |
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CallaLily
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I am in tears reading this. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had words to help, but I know none can. I am praying for your mom and your family
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Posted 7/30/12 11:09 PM |
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Faithx2
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I'm so sorry
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Posted 7/31/12 9:08 AM |
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Goobster
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Re: My mom died suddenly
OMG, I am so so sorry. How sudden and shocking, I can only try to imagine what you feel. I don't know what else to say, my heart breaks for you and your mom.
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Posted 7/31/12 12:33 PM |
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GraciesMom
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My mom died suddenly
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Posted 8/2/12 10:06 AM |
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prunepie
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Member since 7/06 4357 total posts
Name: jennifer
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I am so sorry. My mother died too of a heart attack at 57. Please fm if u like. Big hugs!
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Posted 8/21/12 3:01 PM |
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Jillianm08
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My mom died suddenly
I'm so sorry for your loss. My mom also passed away suddenly from a heart attack while on vacation with my dad at 58. My son was only 2 months old. It is so hard. My prayers are with you and your family.
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Posted 8/21/12 8:09 PM |
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peanutbutter2
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I am so, so sorry
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Posted 8/28/12 11:25 AM |
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Im so so sorry My mom also passed away suddenly almost 2 years ago when i was 9 months pregnant with my dd. I know how much it hurts. Please fm me if you ever need to talk.
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Posted 9/3/12 1:25 AM |
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Michi
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I am so very very sorry for your loss
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Posted 9/12/12 10:54 AM |
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LI-Joy
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I'm so sorry. My mom died suddenly the same way over 20 years ago. Unfortunately, the first year it just doesn't seem real. You will be in a fog sometimes. Cherish you memories and be happy that she got to meet your babies. Somehow you will find the strength to go on. Hugs to you.
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Posted 9/14/12 8:11 PM |
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sweetie101
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Posted 9/26/12 10:59 AM |
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MLSH1003
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Name: Michelle
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Re: My mom died suddenly
I am so sorry for your loss
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Posted 9/27/12 8:17 AM |
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BarryA
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My mom died suddenly
I know what you must be feeling. My wife died 3 months ago. Even though she was sick for a long time, she was always happy and vibrant and optimistic until the end. My daughters, Age 25 and 29, stayed by her side throughout the ordeal, but it was still a shock when she died, and I still can't wrap my mind around it. Nevertheless, my children have been a source of strength to me, and as they grow, your children will be a source of strength to you. My wife always talked about my older daughter and boyfriend getting married, which they iintend to do, and how much she wanted to see a marriage and a child. I will have to live with that forever. But my mom, who lost her husband of 50 years, 10 years ago, and loved him desperately, told me that it's a grave loss, but ultimately you come to terms with it. But not now. It takes time. Love to you and your family. I feel for you.
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Posted 10/13/12 7:56 PM |
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Denisemang
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Re: My mom died suddenly
Awe, honey, I am so sorry. I know how you feel. I lost my Dad 6 years ago at 53, one month shy of 54.. It sucks.. Just believe she is still with you, every day, watching over you. She really is. I believe that, and I know how hard its, though. If you want to talk, I am here.
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Posted 12/1/12 11:10 PM |
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