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Crashing... Need input on if this is ok to do
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Lina
My angel is finally here
Member since 5/10 2559 total posts
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Lindsay
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Crashing... Need input on if this is ok to do
My sister and her DH had been trying for 2 years to get pg. Recently started fertility treatments and finally got her BFP  With that said, she does have a thin uterus from the medication she wass on so she is still worried about everything. She literally just found out so she is not out of the woods yet. I do still want her to enjoy this time and be able to do the things I did when I first found out I was pg. I was at the store this weekend and couldn't help but pick up a card and pregnancy mag for her. Is it too soon to send it to her? I'm just so excited for her and want her to enjoy every minute but I also think about what if she were to lose the baby. Please offer some advice on what you think is ok.
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Posted 7/31/13 10:31 AM  |
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Re: Crashing... Need input on if this is ok to do
Everyone's experience is very different so you will get different answers. If you guys are very close, it would probably be a nice gesture, a small way to "celebrate" while she is still nervous.
When I was about 5 weeks pregnant, my best friend (who know our story) gave me a pair of socks that had a carriage on them and said Mommy-to-be....I wore them to each and every sono I had (which was a lot!!) including the first one at 6 weeks when we saw the heartbeat. They became my lucky socks, LOL. Had things not worked out so well, well it was a nice gesture on her part, her way to be supportive and to celebrate with me so early on. That being said, I had the attitude of I might be pregnant for 5 minutes, 5 weeks, 5 months, or I might get a take home baby...but I tried to enjoy every minute of it b/c I WAS very aware of what *could* happen at any moment. Was i stresse and nervous? Of course!! But I took every minute as a victory. So, again, if you are close I say go for it.
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| Posted 7/31/13 10:42 AM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Crashing... Need input on if this is ok to do
I think its a really great idea.
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| Posted 7/31/13 10:47 AM |
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Wishes1111
LIF Adolescent
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Crashing... Need input on if this is ok to do
I think its a nice gesture. I was very nervous and superstitious (still am to an extent) about buying things for myself but gladly accepted gifts from others.
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| Posted 7/31/13 1:37 PM |
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2BadSoSad
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Re: Crashing... Need input on if this is ok to do
I think its a great idea bc its not something "for" the baby. If, god forbid, something happened I would think a magazine is a lot easier to part with then the reminder of something tiny and cute for the baby.
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| Posted 8/1/13 10:19 PM |
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