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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

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jellybean78
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Re: MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

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Posted 4/9/14 2:49 PM
 
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mrsm-2011
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Re: MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

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Posted 4/9/14 3:10 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

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I'm sorry R. I know how you feel. You'll know when you are ready to stop.
For me, Joe and I made the decision before we started our last try, that it would indeed be our last big try. (IVF) That was the hardest BFN I ever had.

I think it's important to take your DH's thoughts on this into consideration. When going through this, it's very easy to say , I want, I need, I hurt, You don't understand, etc. When in truth, it's not just you. It's both of you. It took me a LONG TIME to get to this point. I still find myself thinking, me, me, me sometimes. Then I remember it's US. We hate to admit it but we think emotionally when it comes to IF. Our DH's can think logically because they aren't physically going through it. When we put together how much we spent on IF this past 3 years.... it was enough to finish every major project we NEED to finish at our house. Would I change the path we took for that money back? No. I KNOW we did everything we could possibly do, which has allowed us to finally put it aside and start living.

Doesn't mean you can't still TTC on your own. Keep up with the supplements, try new things. Get to a good place mentally and physically. Miracles happen every day. You never know.

See how you feel at the end of the 2 month break. Take it one day a time from here.

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Posted 4/9/14 3:17 PM
 

hazel2
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Re: MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

Ugh my heart feels for you, no words, just hugs....

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Posted 4/9/14 3:23 PM
 

babyfever24
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Re: MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

So sorry. I know the feeling all too well. You're in my thoughts.

Posted 4/9/14 3:23 PM
 

BabyHopes2
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Posted 4/9/14 3:40 PM
 

elizabeth78
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Posted 4/9/14 3:40 PM
 

babydreams21
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

I'm so sorry. No words. Take a break and I hope you can try again. If you need to talk I'm here.

Posted 4/9/14 5:37 PM
 

Summergirl08
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

So sorry to hear take some time to cry, scream be angry and time for you and sometimes a break does your body good.

And most importantly drink some WINE!!! That's always makes me feel better

Posted 4/9/14 6:02 PM
 

MrsWoods
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Posted 4/9/14 6:16 PM
 

BabyBearA
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

I am so sorry. I was really hoping this was you :'(

Posted 4/9/14 6:27 PM
 

JoanneAndJustin
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

I am so so sorry.

Posted 4/9/14 7:13 PM
 

ggt08
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

:( I know how hard this is for you.

Posted 4/10/14 1:41 AM
 

hoping2013
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

I am so so sorry Goldie.........ugh.....so disappointing. Hang in there xo

Posted 4/10/14 8:11 AM
 

starr
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

I am truly heartbroken for u
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Posted 4/10/14 9:17 AM
 

ShhhTTCin11
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MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

I'm so sorry, R. There are no words.

Posted 4/10/14 11:01 AM
 

hoping2013
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Re: MrsGoldie IVF#3 Journal...BFN...updated 04/9/14

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I wish there were some magic words that would make it all better . . . but there just are no words. Life, the universe, whatever is so cruel sometimes and this is one of those times. I'm heartbroken for you.

We're all here for you if you want to vent, scream, cry, etc.



this. The pain is unbearable....I hope it went better than you hoped with your husband.Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/14 8:01 AM
 
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