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I decided to take some time off ...

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dm24angel
Happiness

Member since 5/05

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Donna

I decided to take some time off ...

I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for their advice, and thoughts and prayers, but I really dont think I can handle much more of this.

For those of you who have been going through this so much longer then me. I give you so so much credit, your incredibly storng women and I wish you luck and babies in the future.

Maybe I will be back next month, or when I calm down. But all day long I just have been really been wanting to just give up..

Emotionally I dont think Im strong enough for this right now. I'm not ready for more of a "fighting attitude" or to make all the decisions regarding the next step I know I need to make...

So I will just take a break for a while, and maybe come away stronger....

I need to stay away fromt he boards for a while, So really this is just to say to all of you who Im rooting for and following you, I dont want you all to think I stopped caring or praying for each of you just because Im not posting....

Hopfully Im just being emotional and this will pass..

THANKS again!

Posted 12/11/05 3:33 PM
 
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rose825
Best Friends

Member since 6/05

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Re: I decided to take some time off ...

do what you need to. We are here for you when you want us!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/05 3:59 PM
 

kat813
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/05

754 total posts

Name:
Kathleen

Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Donna,

It sounds like you are making a solid decision. IF is not an easy thing to deal with and sometimes you need to take these breaks in between treatments. I wish you the best of luck and we are always here for you.

Kathy

Posted 12/11/05 5:39 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses

Member since 5/05

15952 total posts

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Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Donna,

I can totally understand. I've been feeling much the same way lately. Now that the holidays are here and with DH and I both over 35 and married for 5 months I hoped to be announcing. I know everyone is waitingChat Icon for me to.

I can fully understand that you need a break. DH often says to me, "I think all of your reading on the internet is just making you more upset".

Chat Icon Chat Icon and Happy Holidays,

Theresa

Posted 12/11/05 6:23 PM
 

boosh1002
We like hanging together!

Member since 5/05

5475 total posts

Name:
Mommy to twins

Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Donna, as much as we will miss you maybe you do need a break.

Always know that we are here for you when you come back.

If you need anything, Im here for you.

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Christine

Posted 12/11/05 6:26 PM
 

sylvester
LIF Infant

Member since 10/05

325 total posts

Name:
Rosanna

Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Going through infertility is very tough and stressful. I think taking a break is something we all need to do - to relax your mind and body.

take care of yourself. I wish you great things in the new year.

Posted 12/11/05 7:03 PM
 

dooodles
When you wish upon a star

Member since 5/05

11997 total posts

Name:
Because 2 people fell in love

Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Donna,

I think everyone here understands the need for anyone to need to walk away. I know I will miss you on some of the boards but will see you on some others. And will always do our daily emailing Chat Icon

Whatever support you need from us - you've got it Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
This is such a hellish road to travel down and you need to take care of you.

Posted 12/11/05 7:54 PM
 

MrsProfessor
hi

Member since 5/05

14279 total posts

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Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Time off will be good for you- and hopefully you will be able to really enjoy the holidays without all the wondering that goes along. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/05 8:09 PM
 

neenie

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Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Im sorry, Donna Chat Icon
i just wanted to give you some Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/05 9:09 PM
 

leighla
Support Cancer Research

Member since 5/05

16353 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Do what you need to do to take care of yourself and your marriage. A baby is no good if those things are not working too.

I wish you the best and I hope that you are able to come back with good news soon!

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Posted 12/12/05 9:40 AM
 

Sharon
So Big... So Fast!

Member since 5/05

2959 total posts

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Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Donna - I think anyone who has been dealing with infertility for any amount of time has taken time off from it at different times. We have all been where you are. Take all the time you need - we'll always be here! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/12/05 11:05 AM
 

Bran-loves-Tom
Dad you finally did it!!!

Member since 10/05

1714 total posts

Name:
Brandy

Re: I decided to take some time off ...

Sorry your feeling so down. I hope your break does you good. We will be right here when yoiur ready to come back!! Happy Holidays!!

Posted 12/12/05 1:18 PM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

Member since 5/05

30683 total posts

Name:
D

Re: I decided to take some time off ...

take a ll th etime you need. Why dont you and your DH just take a weekend trip somehwere, it really does help.
Please dont stay away too long.
I wish you all the bestChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/12/05 5:23 PM
 
 

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