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Jenna04
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/08 526 total posts
Name:
Jenna
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Stalker
So there used to be this guy on my bus who always tried to talk to me. I tried to ignore him as much as possible and would wear my ipod but he still tried to talk to me. AND one day he even got off at my stop and walked me to my house and was like "oh this is where you live" and it was totally weird. Anyway he did mention that he was married but he was just so overly friendly with me and it didnt seem normal behavior.
Anyway so I havent seen him in a while, like months, until last night.........he JOINED MY GYM! ARGH. He was there with his wife and I said hi and met his wife and he met DH. DH stared him down for a long time but now I am totally freaked out that I am going to see him all the time  Also DH travels alot so I am freaked about going to the gym alone now! ARGHHHHHHHHHHHH Ok vent over
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Posted 3/27/09 4:11 PM  |
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Strawberry2468
It's summatime
Member since 3/09 4739 total posts
Name:
Christine
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Re: Stalker
UGH- Jerk!
The good thing is that the wife does exist so hes not super creepy, just regular creepy.
I wouldnt worry as long as the gym is crowded and he doesnt follow you again.
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:14 PM |
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SusiBee
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Member since 3/09 8268 total posts
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Re: Stalker
Creepy.
Just ignore him if you can.
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:14 PM |
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MrsFab
this is bliss.......
Member since 10/08 1234 total posts
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Mb
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Re: Stalker
thats just weird that he acts like that and then introduced you to his wife- so odd- if you see him, walk the other way
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:17 PM |
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Dream426
DD: July 11, 2011!!
Member since 6/08 1859 total posts
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Gina Marie
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Re: Stalker
That is really creepy. I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable. Keep pepper spray on you or something at the gym when you don't go with DH...haha
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:17 PM |
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RockysGirl
LIF Infant
Member since 3/09 254 total posts
Name:
Cassandra
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Re: Stalker
Posted by Strawberry2468
The good thing is that the wife does exist so hes not super creepy, just regular creepy.
 well that's a relief that he's just REGULAR creepy. lol. You're too funny.
As for the stalker, he's probably harmless. I used to have a couple of those in my past. But it's better to be safe than sorry. I totally get what you mean about going to the gym alone, esp since he knows where you live and all that. If it were me, I'd have pepperspray with me just in case (I usually do anyway tho. lol).
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:25 PM |
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KimberlyScott
Graceyn=My World <3
Member since 10/08 4173 total posts
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Kimberly
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Re: Stalker
Posted by RockysGirl
Posted by Strawberry2468
The good thing is that the wife does exist so hes not super creepy, just regular creepy.
well that's a relief that he's just REGULAR creepy. lol. You're too funny.
As for the stalker, he's probably harmless. I used to have a couple of those in my past. But it's better to be safe than sorry. I totally get what you mean about going to the gym alone, esp since he knows where you live and all that. If it were me, I'd have pepperspray with me just in case (I usually do anyway tho. lol).
ITA!
It sucks sometimes to be beautiful & sweet doesn't it? 
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:28 PM |
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VickiRG510
I'M A MOMMY!
Member since 3/09 1042 total posts
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Vicki
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Re: Stalker
Just make sure if he is there alone & you are alone to not walk to your car alone. Especially in the winter when it gets dark early. Also just a q - why did u walk to your actual home?? I so would have went to a store or a fake house or something. I wouldnt want a guy like that to know where i really live.
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:30 PM |
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MrsG123
LIF Toddler
Member since 3/09 401 total posts
Name:
Taryn
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Re: Stalker
one word: MACE 
seriously though - just be careful. Odds are he is probably just a harmless infatuated creepster...but always keep ur eyes peeled & be smart because u just never know 
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:33 PM |
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Jenna04
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/08 526 total posts
Name:
Jenna
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Re: Stalker
Posted by RockysGirl
Posted by Strawberry2468
The good thing is that the wife does exist so hes not super creepy, just regular creepy.
well that's a relief that he's just REGULAR creepy. lol. You're too funny.
As for the stalker, he's probably harmless. I used to have a couple of those in my past. But it's better to be safe than sorry. I totally get what you mean about going to the gym alone, esp since he knows where you live and all that. If it were me, I'd have pepperspray with me just in case (I usually do anyway tho. lol).
Ugh he is just so weird - I blatanly ignore and pretend I dont see him and he still like taps me on the shoulder to say hi! I hate that he knows where I live too!
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:44 PM |
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Jenna04
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/08 526 total posts
Name:
Jenna
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Re: Stalker
Posted by VickiRG510
Just make sure if he is there alone & you are alone to not walk to your car alone. Especially in the winter when it gets dark early. Also just a q - why did u walk to your actual home?? I so would have went to a store or a fake house or something. I wouldnt want a guy like that to know where i really live.
Oh my god - I couldnt avoid it. My bus stop it like 3 houses away so I just walked toward my house and next thing I know he is getting off the bus and fast walking to catch up to me. He lives past my house somewhere although I think he moved. Anyway there arent any store or anything near my house. Just condos, townhomes, etc. There is a gas station and a pizza joint like 2 blocks away but I didnt want to go further. UGH
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:46 PM |
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Cheeks24
Living a dream
Member since 1/08 8589 total posts
Name:
Cheeks
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Re: Stalker
That's really creepy! Do you have an alarm in your house?
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:50 PM |
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RockysGirl
LIF Infant
Member since 3/09 254 total posts
Name:
Cassandra
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Re: Stalker
Posted by Jenna04
As for the stalker, he's probably harmless. I used to have a couple of those in my past. But it's better to be safe than sorry. I totally get what you mean about going to the gym alone, esp since he knows where you live and all that. If it were me, I'd have pepperspray with me just in case (I usually do anyway tho. lol).
Ugh he is just so weird - I blatanly ignore and pretend I dont see him and he still like taps me on the shoulder to say hi! I hate that he knows where I live too!
yeah, I know that type  I think you're doing all the right things by not feeding into it and trying to ignore him as much as possible. I kind of have to assume that he's just a WEIRDO who doesn't realize how creepy he seems. But still - definitely consider the pepperspray. It's good to have it. I always used to hold it in my hand as I'd walk to the parking lot when I was in college. It made me feel a lot safer.
Maybe you could start going to the gym at a different time though? It would be good to get away from his schedule there (hopefully he won't figure it out & follow you) 
(btw - i'm glad he met your husband. I'm surprised he's still coming to talk to you even after getting dagger eyes from him. You'd think a guy would realize. This is what leads to me feel like he's just a strange character)
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| Posted 3/27/09 4:55 PM |
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wo0shply
LIF Adult
Member since 11/08 2702 total posts
Name:
Tass
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Re: Stalker
can you bring a friend with you to the Gym? thats really creepy
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| Posted 3/28/09 9:43 AM |
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HollaDay
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/08 620 total posts
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Holla!
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Re: Stalker
omg how creepy!!!! I agree with Taryn--bring mace with you when this guys around...I dont like the sound of his actions.
if he starts following you around the gym I would tell him up front that he is making you uncomfortable. explain that youre married and dont feel comfortable having him around all the time. make him feel like the creeper he is.
good luck with this one--keep us posted!
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| Posted 3/28/09 11:18 PM |
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