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another loss...Updated

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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 11/08

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Jenna

another loss...Updated

Well i went to the doc today for a follow up sono (had one last monday and the baby had grown but they couldn't find a HB)
well today still no HB and no growth at all.
The doc told me to wait a few days (if i want) to see if i will MC on my own but I haven't had any MC symptoms at all (no spotting, no cramping).
I think i'm going to schedule the D&C so that i will have an end in mind and so that i will be able to move on.
This is my 2nd loss since January and i could really just use some Chat Icon right now.

TIA
Jenna

UPDATE:
Well the D&C is scheduled for Monday 6/1. I still haven't had any signs of MC yet so this seems to be the best option for us.
DH & I have decided not to see an RE just yet and try at least 1 more time before taking any new steps. Getting pregnant doesn't seem to be the problem so my doc doesn't think it's necessary, just bad luck. She thinks it could possibly have been too soon after the first D&C in March so we will wait 1-2 cycles before ttc again.
Thank you to everyone for the thoughts, wishes and all! I really appreciate it!
We are doing our best to stay positive and we know that it WILL happen!!!


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Message edited 5/28/2009 9:06:58 AM.

Posted 5/26/09 8:59 PM
 

when
Maybe this time?

Member since 7/07

1761 total posts

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Re: another loss

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this again. I have also had 2 losses so I understand what you are feeling. I wish there were something I could say to make it better but there is just no right thing to say. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/26/09 9:18 PM
 

IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!

Member since 1/08

6549 total posts

Name:
Patty

Re: another loss

I am so sorry for your loss! It is so hard, I know, I had three.

My prayers are with you and here are my hugs Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/26/09 9:44 PM
 

mrsmck
Be a big girl!

Member since 5/05

4898 total posts

Name:
Donna

Re: another loss

I'm so sorry for you loss. Chat Icon Chat Icon

We also lost the heartbeat at 8 weeks. I chose to miscarry on my own, and it happened 2 weeks afterwards.

Posted 5/27/09 12:27 AM
 

MaMaTeenie
Party of 5

Member since 4/08

6489 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: another loss

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry Jenna. I know what you are going thru and am here if you want to talk.

Posted 5/27/09 7:06 AM
 

jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 11/08

7769 total posts

Name:
Jenna

Re: another loss

thank you for all of your support! it really does help! I think i'm going to call the doc tomorrow to schedule the D&C...i just can't believe this is happening again. Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 7:18 AM
 

dajc23
My Loves :)

Member since 1/09

4980 total posts

Name:
Dana

Re: another loss

I'm so sorry for your loss Jenna.

We are all here to support you so please feel free to FM me if you have any questions or just want to ventChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 7:23 AM
 

jam11308

Member since 11/07

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Re: another loss

Oh Jenna, I'm so sorry for your loss Chat Icon You're in my thoughts & Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 8:31 AM
 

FigmentOfMyImagination
LIF Zygote

Member since 5/09

12 total posts

Name:

Re: another loss

Chat Icon I'm so sorry.

Posted 5/27/09 8:46 AM
 

beanie571
:-P

Member since 5/07

2509 total posts

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Re: another loss

I'm so sorry - I know how hard 2 losses can be, especially within such a short time. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 9:08 AM
 

KrisT
Two Boys for Me!!

Member since 1/07

5213 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: another loss

I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 9:12 AM
 

kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son

Member since 2/06

2747 total posts

Name:
Kelly

Re: another loss

Jenna, I'm so sorry for you loss Chat Icon. Is the dr going to run some test to find out why it happened twice? You will be in my prayers Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 10:03 AM
 

Daisy32
Mommy

Member since 2/08

8081 total posts

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Re: another loss

oh I'm so sorry to hear this. I also had 2 losses...it wil get better though I promise Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 10:07 AM
 

SJSM
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/09

764 total posts

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Re: another loss

So so soory for your lossChat Icon :Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 10:19 AM
 

sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!

Member since 1/08

2186 total posts

Name:
Jackie

Re: another loss

im so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 11:20 AM
 

MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07

16202 total posts

Name:
Deanna

Re: another loss

i am so sorry Jenna for your loss.
i had 2 in a row myself, its so awful and heartbreaking.

have you thought about seeing a RE now to get tested?

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Posted 5/27/09 11:36 AM
 

ihilani
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/07

858 total posts

Name:
alias

Re: another loss

I'm so sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 12:48 PM
 

shaye3
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/07

696 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: another loss

I am so sorry to hear about your loss! Please don't give up...I had 4 losses and know how you feel but am now just entering my 3rd trimester. I wish you all the best on your journey!

Posted 5/27/09 1:32 PM
 

CAH127
LIF Adult

Member since 7/07

1694 total posts

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Re: another loss

I am so deeply sorry.

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Posted 5/27/09 2:31 PM
 

LemonHead
Sour Girl

Member since 3/08

5271 total posts

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Re: another loss

I'm so sorry. I've been through 2 losses as well and know how hard it is. Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 3:36 PM
 

Dani922
Here's to new beginnings

Member since 10/07

7260 total posts

Name:
Danielle

Re: another loss

I'm so sorry for your loss Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/27/09 7:13 PM
 

sleepie76
enjoying every minute

Member since 12/07

3881 total posts

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Re: another loss

I'm soo sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I had two losses in the same time span, hang in there.



Have the doctor test with the D&C. Hopefully they can get you some answers.

Posted 5/28/09 8:56 AM
 

ETAB
Mother Mary Pray for us

Member since 7/07

2052 total posts

Name:

Re: another loss...Updated

I am so so sorry for your lossChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/28/09 11:48 AM
 

lolipep
My prayers have been answered

Member since 10/08

3642 total posts

Name:
Lori

Re: another loss...Updated

jenna I am so so sorry to hear this-- if you need to talk I'm here-Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/29/09 1:53 PM
 

heatherandrichie
xoxo

Member since 7/07

1384 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: another loss...Updated

Jenna I am SO sorry to hear about your loss. You were so helpful when I went through this in April and I was so excited to hear you were expecting again. I am here if you need to talk. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/11/09 11:09 PM
 
 

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