| Posted By |
Message |
| Pages: 1 [2] |
Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
Name:
Samantha aka Sammy Bones
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
Oh my reading this I just got chills... First off.. here are some of these 
Second..You need to get out of that relationship as fast as you can and your children cannot witness anymore of that violence!!! It will only get worse. No person should EVER be treated that way... I am appalled by this.... I would call the police and get an order of protection for you and your kids from this beast!! Please do what's best for you and your children!!!!!
Good luck and many many prayers!!
|
Posted 9/2/06 4:14 PM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
Marybeth222
My Girls!
Member since 5/05 2688 total posts
Name:
Marybeth
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
I read your post and saw that you live with your in laws or in their house. Do they see this going on? Are they ok with this?
I think you should leave.
I was married once before and I know how difficult it is to make that decision and I KNOW that YOU need to be the one to make it. You deserve to be happy and treated with respect.
|
| Posted 9/7/06 1:40 PM |
| |
|
married53005
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/06 636 total posts
Name:
ERIN
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
Posted by Marybeth222
I read your post and saw that you live with your in laws or in their house. Do they see this going on? Are they ok with this?
I think you should leave.
I was married once before and I know how difficult it is to make that decision and I KNOW that YOU need to be the one to make it. You deserve to be happy and treated with respect.
My in laws know what's going on. But the difficult thing is, they are off the boat from Greece. Here for more than 30 years but still have those off the boat tendencys. And no matter what happens they will never ever go against their blood, ever. As far as their concerned I should be giving in to his every wim and desire. It makes the situation 100 times more difficult. Thank you for the advise though. I am taking baby steps. I went to go see someone and am going to a support group tonight. Maybe I'll get strong enough one of these days.
|
| Posted 9/7/06 2:12 PM |
| |
|
Marybeth222
My Girls!
Member since 5/05 2688 total posts
Name:
Marybeth
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
I am so sorry you have to go through this.
Just remember it's not you. Do not beat yourself up over this. You're doing NOTHING wrong. He has problems and he should be in couseling. That's why I hate couseling it seems like the innocent person is always the one who goes and tries to figure out the one w/all the problems.
YOu have lots of people here who care about you!!!!!!!!!
|
| Posted 9/7/06 2:15 PM |
| |
|
BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
Member since 5/05 17334 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
You've already gotten alot of great advice and information that I agree with - I just want to send you hugs 
|
| Posted 9/8/06 9:48 AM |
| |
|
Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
Name:
Susan
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
You know you have to leave don't you? This will not get better. You have no choice and it's for your and your childrens personal safety.
I know this is easier said than done, but get help from someone you trust and get the heck out of there.
You really have absolutely no choice-sorry to be so blunt but I think this situation warrants it.
Good luck to you and I will be praying.
|
| Posted 9/8/06 9:05 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
Posted by married53005
My in laws know what's going on. But the difficult thing is, they are off the boat from Greece. Here for more than 30 years but still have those off the boat tendencys. And no matter what happens they will never ever go against their blood, ever. As far as their concerned I should be giving in to his every wim and desire. It makes the situation 100 times more difficult. Thank you for the advise though. I am taking baby steps. I went to go see someone and am going to a support group tonight. Maybe I'll get strong enough one of these days.
I am so sorry for the situation that you're in. I'm sure it is extremely difficult for you, I just fear that "one of these days" is not soon enough. You really need to act NOW.
As far as your husband saying that you're breaking up the family, he's done that all by himself. Do NOT let him turn this around on you, and get out asap!!
Good luck
|
| Posted 9/9/06 1:28 PM |
| |
|
Wendy1220
LIF Adult
Member since 3/06 2004 total posts
Name:
wendy
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
Posted by married53005
Posted by Marybeth222
I read your post and saw that you live with your in laws or in their house. Do they see this going on? Are they ok with this?
I think you should leave.
I was married once before and I know how difficult it is to make that decision and I KNOW that YOU need to be the one to make it. You deserve to be happy and treated with respect.
My in laws know what's going on. But the difficult thing is, they are off the boat from Greece. Here for more than 30 years but still have those off the boat tendencys. And no matter what happens they will never ever go against their blood, ever. As far as their concerned I should be giving in to his every wim and desire. It makes the situation 100 times more difficult. Thank you for the advise though. I am taking baby steps. I went to go see someone and am going to a support group tonight. Maybe I'll get strong enough one of these days.
Just wanted to check in and see how you are. Did you go to the support group? It's a great resource and will help you obtain all the information you need and will also help you build a support sytem to enable you to leave when it is the best time for you.
I'm still thinking about you and wish you all the best
|
| Posted 9/9/06 3:52 PM |
| |
|
married53005
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/06 636 total posts
Name:
ERIN
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
Posted by Wendy1220
Posted by married53005
Posted by Marybeth222
I read your post and saw that you live with your in laws or in their house. Do they see this going on? Are they ok with this?
I think you should leave.
I was married once before and I know how difficult it is to make that decision and I KNOW that YOU need to be the one to make it. You deserve to be happy and treated with respect.
My in laws know what's going on. But the difficult thing is, they are off the boat from Greece. Here for more than 30 years but still have those off the boat tendencys. And no matter what happens they will never ever go against their blood, ever. As far as their concerned I should be giving in to his every wim and desire. It makes the situation 100 times more difficult. Thank you for the advise though. I am taking baby steps. I went to go see someone and am going to a support group tonight. Maybe I'll get strong enough one of these days.
Just wanted to check in and see how you are. Did you go to the support group? It's a great resource and will help you obtain all the information you need and will also help you build a support sytem to enable you to leave when it is the best time for you.
I'm still thinking about you and wish you all the best
Thank you for your concern. I went to the support group and will continue to go. Soon I can bring the kids there too so they can get therapy too. Slowly ... everything is happening slowly. But things have been quite. That's all I can ask for!!!
|
| Posted 9/11/06 10:23 AM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
Be careful with restraining orders too - they dont always protect you, unfortunately!
good luck!!!
|
| Posted 9/11/06 5:57 PM |
| |
|
LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
Member since 5/05 12023 total posts
Name:
Sonia
|
Re: I NEED SUPPORT! KIND OF LONG !
Married, keeping you & your children in my prayers!!!!!!!!!
|
| Posted 9/12/06 12:23 PM |
| |
|
| Pages: 1 [2] |
