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Little-J-Mommy
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by Moehick
OMG Rachel....if they don't care enough to visit you don't make a point to go over there anymore....I just feel bad for JT as well
I agree.
I'm soooo sorry you're dealing with this. I hate when people make what should be a wonderful time miserable!!!
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by prncssrachel
I feel really bad for him as well. Especially because he is so dying for them to actually care. It's sad. However, he's currently having somewhat of a breakthrough. When we left, his mother stuffed a five dollar bill in Ava's carseat (ew, can we say germs near my newborn baby?), and she said," Hang onto that Ava, that's for when we go to Disney World!" And JT promptly responded, "Even if I came here everyday and you gave her five dollars each time, it still wouldn't be enough for Disney, so stop lying to my daughter." And he walked out!
Poor JT! I can't imagine having parents like that.
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| Posted 7/13/06 10:57 AM |
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antoinette
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
I would be so livid, My MIL is the same way. Everytime she comes over she doesnt even say hi to me she just grabs the baby from my arms and now at age 1 he is starting to feel the separation anxiety. SO besically everytime she hold him she says that I have to go away and doesnt let me near him. She does it in such an abrasive manner and the baby starts hysterical crying. Then she wonders why he doesnt jump into her arms 
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| Posted 7/13/06 11:03 AM |
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pmpkn087
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by 2003fallwedding
 I would not go there anymore 
I agree.
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| Posted 7/13/06 11:03 AM |
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Melbernai
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
It's as if she was holding her the wrong way just to prove you wrong or something ... meanwhile she's not there in the middle of the night -- or all day long when you are the one taking care of an uncomfortable baby!
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| Posted 7/13/06 11:05 AM |
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DaniRN
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by pmpkn087
Posted by 2003fallwedding
I would not go there anymore
I agree.
I so agree too!!! What a beyotch!!!
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| Posted 7/13/06 11:07 AM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Well, exactly. And when JT told her that she cries all day, her response was, "She NEVER cries at MY house." I was like, hello, that's because we never go there.
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| Posted 7/13/06 11:08 AM |
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yankinmanc
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by nrthshgrl
I'm thinking you should just agree...repeat whatever she said "That's right Ava, Grandma doesn't know what she's doing. She is really crazy! What's that you want your mommmy? You don't like the crazy lady?"
Oh this could be just a huge fun time of passive aggressiveness.
you rule barb! Nothing like honesty
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| Posted 7/13/06 12:23 PM |
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justthe4ofus
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
You should have ripped Ava out of her arms and bytch slap that fool!
How dare she!
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| Posted 7/13/06 1:28 PM |
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by nrthshgrl
I'm thinking you should just agree...repeat whatever she said "That's right Ava, Grandma doesn't know what she's doing. She is really crazy! What's that you want your mommmy? You don't like the crazy lady?"
Oh this could be just a huge fun time of passive aggressiveness.
yeah this is great, if it wouldn't start even more turmoil in your life I'd do this! 
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| Posted 7/13/06 1:30 PM |
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pinky
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
what a b**ch
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| Posted 7/13/06 1:38 PM |
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dandr10199
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by nrthshgrl
I'm thinking you should just agree...repeat whatever she said "That's right Ava, Grandma doesn't know what she's doing. She is really crazy! What's that you want your mommmy? You don't like the crazy lady?"
Oh this could be just a huge fun time of passive aggressiveness.
I agree, this is a great way to handle it.
RAch, sorry you are going through this with the MIL from HE LL!!
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| Posted 7/13/06 2:00 PM |
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CowgirlChick97
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Message edited 5/25/2007 7:31:43 PM.
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| Posted 7/13/06 2:20 PM |
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jenny
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
That was so horrible for her to say that stuff.
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:11 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
That's awful! At least your MIL didn't give you the finger :)
I'm sorry you have awful IL's, how our DH's turned out so well baffles me!
Posted by Syliblond81106
so should i be glad that my fils are moving 2.5 hours away???
Oh distance doesn't help! Mine are 2.5 hours away and still manage to do things!
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:16 PM |
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Myrockette
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
This post just reminded me of how glad I am to NOT have my IL's in my life!
Hugs to you Rachel and your BEAUTIFUL little Ava
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:28 PM |
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Sharon
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
OMG Rachel! I know this is exactly what I am in for with my monster-in -law!
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:44 PM |
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Maathy317
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by prncssrachel
Well, exactly. And when JT told her that she cries all day, her response was, "She NEVER cries at MY house." I was like, hello, that's because we never go there.
After reading all that you posted about your MIL and while I think that children need all the family they can get, I would, without a doubt, greatly limit the time she spends with your daughter and, never leave her unattended with her. This woman is either mentally unstable or she is the dumbest person God ever plopped on this earth. IMO, she will continue to do everything to undercut and undermine you to your daughter and, as she gets older, it will only get worse. I am a mother, grandmother and MIL and I have the great privilege of taking care of my grandson on a regular basis. I would never, ever do anything to jeopardize that arrangement. He is one of the greatest joys of my life and, if my daughter and son-in-law tell me to do something in a specific way, then I would do it. To defy them would just be idiotic. This woman needs a firm talking to. People like this drive me insane!
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| Posted 7/13/06 5:00 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Message edited 11/27/2010 9:32:21 PM.
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orchid24
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
there are just some people in this world that HAVE to bring you down... they're ill mentally, and well, i'm sorry that is has to be your MIL.
as the saying goes, "misery loves company..."
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| Posted 7/13/06 5:52 PM |
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Diane
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
that is PRETTY RUDE in my opinion. I would be ticked off
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| Posted 7/13/06 6:06 PM |
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luvmiboy
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by Marybeth222
I think I would have said yes Ava that's right I don't like her! LOL
I just don't get where people are just so rude.
Me too
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| Posted 7/13/06 9:48 PM |
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rose825
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
that was out of order!!!!
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| Posted 7/13/06 9:54 PM |
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MrsJ
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
I would have taken her back right away...and given her the finger LOL
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dawnygirl25
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Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.
Posted by 2003fallwedding
I would not go there anymore
me neither
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