I would like to thank you for posting your horrible situation.... I'm pregnant, and over the last few months a couple moles changed on me, and I have a strong family history of melanoma... you made me jump into action and make a derm appointment NOW. (I originally was going to wait until DS is born....)
All I have are and for you. Please believe that there is no other option than to beat this. I have dealt with this in my immediate family and continue to and as hard as it sounds try and stay positive. I am so sorry you are going through this.