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Shelly
She's 7!!!
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80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
EVERYONE is pregnant. I'm not kidding. Of 10 moms, only 2 of us are not (or haven't been recently with the second).
I feel a little bad. We are just SO not ready. Heck. We are all still living in a 1 bedroom in the city.
But I look around at, literally, 8 other women all my age. And they all. And at 32, I am starting to worry about getting older before even starting on having a second.
Has anyone else gone through this?
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Posted 2/26/08 3:45 PM |
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Bxgell2
Perfection
Member since 5/05 16438 total posts
Name: Beth
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Re: 80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
Yup. But, unfortunately, not by choice
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Posted 2/26/08 3:52 PM |
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yankinmanc
Happy Days!
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Re: 80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
Yes, all my friends are either pregnant or they have just had their second....
We are almost ready, so I don't feel too bad. I can wait a few more months to be honest.
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Posted 2/26/08 3:56 PM |
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mommy2bella
Where does time go?
Member since 12/05 9747 total posts
Name: Kelly
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Re: 80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
I am trying to figure out my work future so we are not ready in that aspect (also two kids in daycare would be BRUTAL)
but I am the opposite, NOT ONE of our friends or family is having or had babies recently...and a friend's sister is our closest age (with a 1 year old and a little boy six months older than Bella)
I just turned 30 a few months ago so I don't feel rushed, I don't want to be so far out of the baby phase and do it all over again...plus I am nervous that the fertility problems I was expecting the first time around will pop up...
I also feel that the decision for #2 is SOOO much harder.
Message edited 2/26/2008 4:40:31 PM.
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Posted 2/26/08 4:01 PM |
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
Member since 10/05 11561 total posts
Name: Dina
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Re: 80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
Posted by racheeeee
Yes, all my friends are either pregnant or they have just had their second....
Same, most of my friends, not all. It is really hard for me, but I keep reminding myself that I have to be thankful to just be alive right now. I also have to keep telling myself that I have to keep working out, get out of debt and save $$$$ for an adoption down the road. It is hard sometimes, but I am just so thankful for Gracie and I try to focus on that.
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Posted 2/26/08 4:47 PM |
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lulugrrl
My 3 Blessings
Member since 3/06 6551 total posts
Name: L
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Re: 80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
I can't even think about trying for #2 for at least 3 years...and AGE is a factor for me too......
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Posted 2/26/08 4:58 PM |
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MrsR
My love.
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: 80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
Posted by Bxgell2
Yup. But, unfortunately, not by choice
Same here - although at times I am less ready than others...I was WAY more ready for Talia when I got pregnant. There is no rush - you are still young and when it is meant to be it will be.
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Posted 2/26/08 5:06 PM |
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2girlsforme
LIF Adult
Member since 8/06 3071 total posts
Name: XXXXXXXXX
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Re: 80% of my Music Together class is Pregnant.
Posted by Bxgell2
Yup. But, unfortunately, not by choice
Me too!!!
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Posted 2/26/08 5:29 PM |
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