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divamommy
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krystal

?? about God Parents

How many do people generally have? I have 2 best friends and would love to have both as God mothers. Is that permissible?

Posted 10/28/08 6:19 PM
 
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ReiRei13
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Re: ?? about God Parents

NOPE- one Godmother and one Godfather- thats itChat Icon I wanted to have 2 Godfathers and 1 Godmother- not allowedChat Icon

Posted 10/28/08 6:27 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: ?? about God Parents

usually just one godfather, one godmother....

youd have to call your church to see i they do more than 1


ETA- it appears if you are anglican church you get two godparents the same sex of the baby, and one of the opposite sex

Message edited 10/28/2008 6:29:51 PM.

Posted 10/28/08 6:27 PM
 

JRD2008
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Kathleen

Re: ?? about God Parents

our church said only one of each

Posted 10/28/08 6:58 PM
 

WhitneyL
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Whitney

Re: ?? about God Parents

Check with your church because my best friend baptized her DD over the summer with two godmothers (no godfather).

Posted 10/29/08 7:52 AM
 

mia818
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Mia

Re: ?? about God Parents

Some churches will let you have 2. My church told me only one of the same sex is allowed...but if i want the two only one is recognized, because she is the only one signing the cerificate. To me the certificate is paper, what matters is them being there for my daughter. They know the situation, my BFF will sign the paper and the other will stand next to her

Posted 10/29/08 8:36 AM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: ?? about God Parents

one of each is standard (in the Catholic Religon).

Posted 10/29/08 8:38 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: ?? about God Parents

Posted by butterfly20

usually just one godfather, one godmother....

youd have to call your church to see i they do more than 1


ETA- it appears if you are anglican church you get two godparents the same sex of the baby, and one of the opposite sex

ITA. It depends on the congregation. Universalists have looser rules on this as well.

Message edited 10/29/2008 9:00:08 AM.

Posted 10/29/08 8:53 AM
 

JenBenMen
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Re: ?? about God Parents

its not usually allowed....just tell the other one that they will be GP to the next baby

Posted 10/29/08 8:57 AM
 

Lillykat
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Re: ?? about God Parents

In the episcopal church we were told one each - but they made an exception for us b.c they require one GP to be episcopal so I had to have my mother as one GP otherwise they wouldn't let us do it - But in our eyes, DD's godparents are her aunt and uncle.

Posted 10/29/08 9:05 AM
 

angnick
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Angela

Re: ?? about God Parents

Unfortunately 2 godmothers is not permissable..

Posted 10/29/08 9:55 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: ?? about God Parents

If you 'donate' enough - the Catholic Church will 'allow' you do to do whatever you want ........Chat Icon

Posted 10/29/08 9:55 AM
 

Angel321
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Re: ?? about God Parents

Posted by WhitneyL

Check with your church because my best friend baptized her DD over the summer with two godmothers (no godfather).



check with the church - my friend, she had (and i'm NOT KIDDING) - 5 people!

Posted 10/29/08 9:57 AM
 

Meggo613
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Megan

Re: ?? about God Parents

im sorry to crash since im not preg. but a good friends of ours had 2 godfathers for their DS this summer and no god mother. So i would call your church!

Posted 10/29/08 2:12 PM
 

Donna
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Re: ?? about God Parents

Posted by WhitneyL

Check with your church because my best friend baptized her DD over the summer with two godmothers (no godfather).



I agree, my friend is one of 2 godmothers also.
this was an RC church in Brooklyn

Posted 10/29/08 2:16 PM
 

WhitneyL
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Whitney

Re: ?? about God Parents

Posted by Donna

Posted by WhitneyL

Check with your church because my best friend baptized her DD over the summer with two godmothers (no godfather).



I agree, my friend is one of 2 godmothers also.
this was an RC church in Brooklyn



My friends was at a RC church in Ronkonkoma. I haven't researched baptism "rules and regulations yet" but i've heard that you need 1 godparent to sign the document and the other person can just be a "christian witness".


I've also heard that DH and I cannot be godparents to any child because we were not married IN a church. Does anyone know if this is true too? Why does the church make everything so dam hard??? Chat Icon

Posted 10/29/08 3:21 PM
 

mindygirl73
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reens

Re: ?? about God Parents

Posted by WhitneyL

Check with your church because my best friend baptized her DD over the summer with two godmothers (no godfather).



Mine too. 2 godmothers were permitted. Depends on the church.

Posted 10/29/08 3:23 PM
 

rmsgirl
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Re: ?? about God Parents

My sister and BIL were allowed to have 2 godmothers for each of their children instead of one of each, because neither of them have brothers.

My niece and nephew were baptized at my sister's college, which is a Catholic institution.

I think regular parishes are more strict.

Posted 10/29/08 3:26 PM
 

josie919
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Josie

Re: ?? about God Parents

It is up to the church. I have 2 Godmothers and no Godfather. My SIL also had 2 Godmothers for her DD. Its up to the church. Good luck!

Posted 10/29/08 10:31 PM
 

josie919
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Re: ?? about God Parents

Message edited 10/29/2008 10:34:52 PM.

Posted 10/29/08 10:34 PM
 
 

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