LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Am I A Bad Person?

Posted By Message
Pages: 1 [2]

monkeybride
My Everything

Member since 5/05

20541 total posts

Name:

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

I don't think you're a bad person but she will ask about the china and 10 years from now when you don't have it I am sure it will come up.

I would say if you are going to return it just let her know.

Posted 6/5/05 9:33 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

i told DH that if we returen it i'm blaming him and he said Ok.
the shipment came when i was at work and when i came ome i was like "whoa" and he was too funny he already had looked up everything about returning it. he was like "yeah, im bringing it back and we'll get stuff we need"

Posted 6/5/05 11:05 PM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

4206 total posts

Name:
Lissette

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

If you registered for the china, then I think it's a bad idea to return a gift you asked for. However, if she chose the china on her own, then I would return it for other things we need in the home (furniture, appliances, decor, towels, whatever), NOT personal items.

I don't think you're a bad person for returning the china for home stuff. IMO, it was a gift for the both of you, not a personal giftcard for each one to spend separately.

Posted 6/6/05 9:48 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

oh no we didnt register for china. we didnt register for anything.

Posted 6/6/05 12:07 PM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

4206 total posts

Name:
Lissette

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

Posted by Lolita4Life
oh no we didnt register for china. we didnt register for anything.



Then by all means, take 'em back to Macy's TODAY! Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/05 12:09 PM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

Posted by Lichi


Then by all means, take 'em back to Macy's TODAY! Chat Icon



Chat Icon too funny. dh i think will return them tomorrow and then we will go together on our next day off and look at stuff.

Posted 6/6/05 12:11 PM
 

LFitzy79
can hardly wait

Member since 5/05

2650 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

Posted by Sassyz75

Posted by Lolita4Life

Posted by Redhead

ok i am confused..you got 2 different place settings? 16 total?



kinda. she gave us 8 FULL Lenox settings (big plate, bowl, teacup, saucer etc) and then 8 Kate Spade plates. not full settings on hte KS.... and they are VERY nice too (havea platinum band around them)

the thing is also, we see her MAYBE once a year. and like for one day for a few hours. they are sooooo not close.
Also, she already got us china when we got engaged, we use that.
She is a millionare and the money means nothing to her, in fact this is the cheapest wedding gift shes given anyone in her family (and i honestly dont mind one bit, just saying)
I think she just didnt know what to get us b/c we arent very close and she doesnt know us all that well.
Like i said, i totally aprreciate the gift, dont get me wrong, but it will just collect dust. Even when we have a house i coubt we'll use it. MAYBE one time for a christmas or soemthing....

we're DEF keeping the Kate Spade plates though. DH hates them, but screw him i want them! and i want to at least keep SOMETHING she gave us.

i still dont like to have it on my conscience though.
but i dont even have anywhere to KEEP it right now! lol theyre huge!



then why dont you return the ones you don't want and get the rest of the Kate Spade instead?



yeah, that sounds like a good idea....and then it would at least be exchanging china for china....

Posted 6/6/05 3:25 PM
 

LFitzy79
can hardly wait

Member since 5/05

2650 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: Am I A Bad Person?

Posted by Lichi

Posted by Lolita4Life
oh no we didnt register for china. we didnt register for anything.



Then by all means, take 'em back to Macy's TODAY! Chat Icon

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I read this after I replied

Posted 6/6/05 3:26 PM
 
Pages: 1 [2]
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Does this make me a bad person? Scotty-CassidysMom 12/14/05 35 Families Helping Families ™
Anyone else have a bad mail person?? AJsMommy122 8/19/05 9 Families Helping Families ™
Bad Mommy - forgot to post these pictures Marcie 3/23/06 16 Pets
Bad News! Moehick 3/22/06 35 Pregnancy
help- white coat + raspberry margarita=bad Beth 3/20/06 0 Families Helping Families ™
x MommyofG 3/17/06 19 TTC
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 43171 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows