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ReddHeadd
LIF Infant
Member since 9/10 104 total posts
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Jessica
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Any CF have a "scare"?
DH and I are not TTC right now but I did think I was preggo this month. At first I was all crazy because DH and I feel we are not ready right now to become parents. I took the test and when it said negative I was kinda disappointed. Anyone ever have that disappointed feeling?
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Posted 1/20/11 7:01 PM  |
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MaZz
* Lovin my baby girl!!! *
Member since 2/09 6243 total posts
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Gina
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
I had a "scare" 1 yr ago... I was 10 days late and Im always right on time... I was freaking out about it... Dh tried to assure me that everything would be ok... and then I started to feel better about it... Needless to say, the test was negative... Altho, I think it was a miscarriage... I was actually pretty sad for a couple weeks after... I was so convinced I must have been preggers and then to find out no after getting excited about it was depressing 
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| Posted 1/20/11 7:20 PM |
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
Yes and was a few weeks late so had to run for a test kit at the drug store...each time I thanked my lucky stars I wasn't pregnant because I really am child free to the core (if I found out I was pregnant right now, I'd seriously burst into tears and cry over my loss of future income, freedom and peace of mind.. ).
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| Posted 1/20/11 10:01 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
Yep... in May of 09... i was 3 days late... the test was neg and a got AF later that day... i was disappointed...
we ended up getting engaged less than a month later...
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| Posted 1/20/11 10:24 PM |
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Mushesgirl
Too blessed to be stressed
Member since 4/09 6691 total posts
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
many many years ago with an exbf. i'm also cf to the nth degree so it was NOT a good feeling, and no I wasn't disappointed to be negative!
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| Posted 1/20/11 11:15 PM |
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jilliibabii
Mrs. O'Connor
Member since 6/10 12821 total posts
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Jillian
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
We had a scare 9 months to our wedding date... naturally. 
I was a few days late but I was spotting, which is what happened when my co-worker got prego. Took a test and it was negative and got AF a couple days later. DH was actually a little disappointed. I wasn't. I wanted to fit in that damn dress. lol!
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| Posted 1/21/11 8:46 AM |
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Alexandra17
Keep It Positive
Member since 4/09 6262 total posts
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Alexandra (ali)
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
just now. like a few weeks ago. I had EVERY symptom. I even got sick at the smell of something which I forget now lol...I was scared but would have been ok in the end.
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| Posted 1/24/11 6:09 PM |
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apples99
love my sunshine..
Member since 11/08 1535 total posts
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me
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
yes.. in 08! I was scared outta my wits..  DH was thrilled though, but it wasn't our time, so I got a pass
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| Posted 1/26/11 12:30 PM |
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Mrs213
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
thats happened a couple times but I did feel relieved...
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| Posted 1/30/11 11:19 AM |
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kimbalina
Bring on the glitter and bows!
Member since 6/08 15158 total posts
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Kim
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
I sure did in November! I was actually nervous / excited and next thing I knew.. here came AF...
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| Posted 2/7/11 8:23 PM |
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emilylives
biking
Member since 12/09 2163 total posts
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Emily
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
Yeah, a few. One when I was about 19, which was really scary. One about 2.5 years ago and I actually did get pregnant, but miscarried after about 6 weeks.
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| Posted 2/10/11 3:34 PM |
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shadows
LIF Adult
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
Posted by BatGirl9910
Yes and was a few weeks late so had to run for a test kit at the drug store...each time I thanked my lucky stars I wasn't pregnant because I really am child free to the core (if I found out I was pregnant right now, I'd seriously burst into tears and cry over my loss of future income, freedom and peace of mind..).
I am this way too! I have had more than one scare. My first thought is, how much will college cost in 18 years 
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| Posted 2/20/11 12:38 PM |
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Re: Any CF have a "scare"?
Posted by BatGirl9910
Yes and was a few weeks late so had to run for a test kit at the drug store...each time I thanked my lucky stars I wasn't pregnant because I really am child free to the core (if I found out I was pregnant right now, I'd seriously burst into tears and cry over my loss of future income, freedom and peace of mind..).
or, there are other options for people who don't want kids...
I edited this so it sounds less blunt...
But I have a question - no judgement - but Why isn't abortion an automatic option when someone feels this way about having kids? I am pro choice. If someone is going to view kids as completely joyless, soul sucking, and horrendous, why would they even consider having the child if they got pregnant unintentionally??? Have kids if you want them. Don't have them if you don't. No judgement! But if you are going to hate your kid, hate having your kid, hate the lifestyle that having a kid entails, WHY go through the hell that you say it's going to be? Who is that fair to????
You are completely honest about your feelings, and I respect that a lot more than people who feel the way you do, but agree to have kids out of an obligation to others.
If you feel this way, and would be heartbroken at the thought of having a child, why would that option not be considered?
Message edited 3/6/2011 11:58:15 AM.
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