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MsMBV
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
Posted by leighla
People just need to comment, no matter what.
We've been married for two years and now that we've told people they say things like
"Oh, we've been wondering if something is wrong with you guys."
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"It's been two years, it's about time!"
People are stupid and open their mouths just to hear themselves talk.
Yeah, we get that too
I really think that NO ONE should have anything to say about when you have children. It is so very personal, it just amazes me how easily people will invade your bedroom.
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babymakes3
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
We were married Oct 05 and got pregnant in Apr 06.
We threw everyone for a loop because no one thought we'd try so soon. We had just got married and moved cross country away from our families. But we were ready for parenthood right away and we made the decision for us, not for them.
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| Posted 11/22/06 9:52 AM |
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vegalady
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
I gotmarried in May 2006 and got pregnant in Aug. 2006 which ended in MC. Then got pregnant again Oct. 06 and my little pooka seems to be sticking and doing just fine so far.
I really dont care what people think/ Some of my friends that are not married said dont have kids right away. I do what i want really i dont listne to what people have to say.
Message edited 11/22/2006 10:08:47 AM.
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steph4777
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
We got married July 31 2004 and found out I was 5 weeks pg on Sept 29 2004. My pg was not planned. People made comments, but I just ignored them.
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| Posted 11/22/06 11:00 AM |
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MrsG
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I got married June 17... I found out I conceived July 11th....
same here...married June 23, conceived around 7/12. I can see people counting the months in their head when we tell them we are due in April to try to figure out if we were pg when we got married. Get a life is all I can say!!
Message edited 11/22/2006 1:53:10 PM.
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CouponKT
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
I just have to say - on the other hand.....
After we got married, people would always ask "so, when do you plan to start having kids". We would say that we were waiting a year or so and people would say "oh, good - you shouldn't get preggo just yet".
What is THAT supposed to mean?
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MrsSchwags
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
I found out I was preggo about 3 weeks before my wedding. I was married in December and had the baby in August. Those who didn't know the wedding was already planned always have something to say. I could care less. People will ALWAYS talk!
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| Posted 11/22/06 3:02 PM |
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Kate07
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
I became pregnant 3 months after my wedding - very unexpected. To be honest at first I wasn't thrilled, but I warmed up to it pretty quickly and now I couldn't imagine it any other way.
Don't let it bother you. Everyone has their own plans - I think it is great that you both felt ready to be parents !!
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| Posted 11/22/06 3:24 PM |
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CaseyGirl
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
Posted by MsMBV
Posted by leighla
People just need to comment, no matter what.
We've been married for two years and now that we've told people they say things like
"Oh, we've been wondering if something is wrong with you guys."
or
"It's been two years, it's about time!"
People are stupid and open their mouths just to hear themselves talk.
Yeah, we get that too
I really think that NO ONE should have anything to say about when you have children. It is so very personal, it just amazes me how easily people will invade your bedroom.
Us too..I know I am not pg yet but have been trying for 2+ years...none of my family knows we have been having trouble so I think they are all like "hmm...married for 3 years now..what are they waiting for?" 
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snuggleupagus
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
We were married for almost 3 months when I found out I was pregnant. It wasn't exactly planned. So far I have dodged those questions but tomorrow will be the real test as Thanksgiving will be the first time we see many people since finding out and many will find out for the first time I think.
BUT...I hate those questions. It's right up there with advice I don't want. I have learned to just ignore those people.
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sami
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
i was married August 2006 and Pregnant November 06 ! we were planning but I never thought that it would happen this fast! No one knows yet
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| Posted 11/22/06 9:15 PM |
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JTK
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
we actually got MARRIED couple months after the BABY!! 
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| Posted 11/22/06 9:39 PM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
I got pregnant on the honeymoon.
Surprisingly, I really didn't get the comments... I think it's because I would cut them off before they had a chance:
Nosey Person: "Congratulations - I heard you just got married!"
Me: "Yeah, thanks. And I'm pregnant. Yes it's a HM baby, yes it was a surprise, I guess it was just meant to me. [insert cheerful smile] Well take care now, bye."
...more or less
Didn't really leave them much to comment on.
Honestly, I expected much worse and I didn't really get it. The worst was the conversation I had with my boss when I told him I was 3 months pregnant. Somehow I actually found myself saying the words "hey what can I say, I was on the pill and still got pregnant" to my BOSS. So you can kinda imagine how that conversation went. And no, I do not have "that kind" of relationship with him.
Anyway - I highly recommend my method... it shuts them up real fast and I got a big kick out of all the dropped jaws. Make no apologies.
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Mommy2Boys
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
we got married June 10th and found out I was pregnant 2nd week in July. we got the comments "Wow, you didnt waste any time" "you should have waited a couple of years" blah blah blah. It bothered me at first, and than I thought f*ck them. Dh and I are happy and that is all that matters.
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| Posted 11/22/06 11:51 PM |
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
Well, the thing is - people still can be rude - when people tell me - wow, you didnt waste anytime, they will also add - well, its not like you guys are kids or anything.... its probably a good idea you got PG right away
I'm 32 (will be 33 this month) and DH is 42 (will be 43 next month)
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| Posted 11/23/06 1:03 PM |
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nmp070106
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
i was married in July and got preggo in august! Yes it was planned due to my work schedule and stuff!
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chelle
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Isn't it obvious?
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
We got married Sept. 22, 2006 and found out we got pregnant on Sept 13/14th 2006
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Reese1106
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
We got married November 5th and found out we were pregnant October 15th. The people who know have not made any comments. I'm sure once we make it more public knowledge, we'll get some inconsiderate comments but really, it's no one's business what another person chooses to do. We were ready and that's that. 
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pinkandblue
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
I was married on April 15th and got my BFP on July 16th
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julybaby07
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
My wedding was on sept 4th and I found out that I was pregnant on Nov 3th.
Message edited 11/25/2006 8:50:36 PM.
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Little-J-Mommy
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Re: Any one preggos soon after getting married?
married oct. 1, 2005
conceived jan 1, 2006
Jack was born sept. 18, 2006
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